r/Mediums 18h ago

Development and Learning Looking for advice from fellow mediums

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I've been in touch with the paranormal since I was young and just recently I had considered opening up and having sessions with friends and family for free readings.

What are some things I should know if I decide to do this?

Any tips on connecting with spirits from a distance? (NO OUIJA BOARDS PLEASE)


r/Mediums 17h ago

Guidance/Advice Mediumship

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Hi,

I am a 42-year-old woman who is currently going through some changes in my life. During this time, I have felt drawn towards spirituality and would love to learn more about mediumship and connecting with higher beings.

My intention is entirely personal and comes from a genuine desire to support the people around me. I work as a support worker for people with disabilities, and I truly love helping them in whatever way I can. Sometimes, I feel that the physical world and ordinary communication can only take us so far. I hope that by developing a deeper spiritual understanding, I may gain greater insight into what others are experiencing and how best to support them.

I believe that we are all on our own unique journeys, and I am not here to judge anyone. I simply have a sincere wish to learn, grow, and develop these abilities with an open heart.

I have looked into many online courses and classes, but to be honest, most of them are quite expensive. If there is anyone out there who would be willing to guide or teach me, I am not looking for free lessons—just something affordable and accessible.

Thank you.


r/Mediums 22h ago

Guidance/Advice predicting the future?

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i had a paid reading with someone tonight that was wrong about alot of things and making broad generalizations. she asked if my granny was a church goer-yes and asked if someone feared snakes and i just chalked it up to the fact i had a pet snake after she passed. She tried 3x to guess her death first was dementia, then did she fall, then she asked if it was neurological disorder. I said no do you want me to tell you and she said yes. I said it was the big C and then she pivoted to well does someone in your family have a neurological disorder and i said no and it stayed silent so i said i mean i get headaches and neck pain and have had it for months and months and she said oh so it’s you!!! Then in the next sentence said she wanted to warn someone in my family may have a stroke and then said “ not saying it’s you”. That was the ending to our conversation how strange to end on that. She also thought my daughter was a boy and never gave any dates other than October which was the month she died but never days, names, locations or any memories we had. She just basically tried to see who she was as a person. Now i’m stuck on did she really have a premonition that someone will have a stroke or make it up? Please help


r/Mediums 8h ago

Experience My great grandmother came to tell me she was spiritual in my reading

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I never knew her. My grandmother never knew her much. But she came to my reading as the first person to say she was spiritual and that we in the family should trust our gut intuition, that we see the world different and we should tune into that. My medium didn’t say much about it afterwards, but what does that mean? I do not know anyone who has had the same before in a reading.


r/Mediums 9h ago

Thought and Opinion Can spirits hold negative opinions (racism, homophobia etc.) From their life?

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Title explains it, from my experience this stands true but I'd be interested in what others have experienced:)


r/Mediums 11h ago

Development and Learning Sudden interest in Mediumship

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Hi !! Thank you to whoever is taking the time to read this and respond. Recently ive had a encounter with some haunted items, along with a interesting series of events afterwards. It would be a lengthy story but since these series of events I've been interested in Mediumship.

Ive had encounters for my entire life although I never had much thought into it. When I was in middle school, I remember being in a deep sleep and suddenly someone started to shake my by my thigh, telling me to wake up and I did. A more recent one is that i dreamed about having 3 pimples directly under my eye (ew), when I woke up I saw nothing but the next day they were there. Most of these events involve me predicting things in my dreams, the most memorable one is how I predicting meeting my partner 2 years before I even met them. Another good example is how I see shadows time to time. Its never in my room, normally something scurrying across the hallway infront of my door or peeking in and disappearing once I fully notice- sometimes i am scared and other times i am not. The paranormal does interested me alot although I feel too paranoid to ever deep my foot too deep, at most I pratice manifesting and light witchcraft.

I would also say that i have a very strong intuition, with places and people. Sometimes it does get mixed in with my own anxiety but ive been right most of the time. A good example is when I was job searching, I found something perfect and it was a easy apply aswell. But during my in person interview, I felt like something was extremely off with the business. Everyone was very kind and friendly but something felt wrong, I signed my papers but backed out before the week I worked and I was right. Even with people, I have moments were I feel something strongly even if I cant describe it and I am normally right.

Since these recent events with the haunted items, ive ran into 3-4 mediums just by coincidence. I find it interesting how things just happened lol but ive been very interested in learning more and wondering if I can do the same. Not speak to spirits exactly but feel the energy on objects/places and being able to describe how I feel.

Feel free to ask any questions and any feedback is greatly appreciated !


r/Mediums 12h ago

Guidance/Advice I think I help people cross to the other side, but I’m struggling to get in tune with it

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Hi, I’m new here and I’m looking for some guidance. I think I help souls cross over? I’m not sure at all if I’m a medium (I’m trying to get in touch with my intuition at the moment), but Im very good at sensing energy and emotions and I tend to feel and carry other people’s emotions. But I realized this ability of mine is not exclusive to living people.

Recently, I had an energy cleanse with my therapist, and in soft trance, I told her that I’m carrying energy from several people, two of whom were dead. I didn’t know one guy, but I did know the girl. It was my friend who has taken her life recently. I was confused why she would be in my energy field because we haven’t been in touch for so long. When I reached her in trance she, didn’t know she was dead, and I had to tell her that. She was afraid, she wouldn’t want to go, and insisted that I walk with her to the gate. She felt so alone, so I had to walk with her, and I had to hand her over to her spirit guide but she was so scared and confused. When I came back to full consciousness I couldn’t stop my tears from falling, and my therapist told me I was shaking. I felt this girl’s emotions. My therapist also showed me her goosebumps, and told me she could feel her soul leaving. Oh yeah and the other guy told me he died in a car crash and he was just “hanging around”, and that watching me was fun. I made his babushka come pick him up and drag him through the gate.

Also few months ago, my grandpa with very aggressive cancer passed, he was very afraid of death. He was literally refusing to die, he lived more than a year longer than the doctors predicted. Nobody understood how he stayed alive for so long. The same night he passed, I had a dream with him, literally giving him a pep talk about how it’s time to leave, and I was reassuring him that there’s nothing to be afraid of on the other side, there’s just love. And also I had to calm down my grandma’s soul (still alive), that she will be okay when he leaves and she needs to let it happen. I woke up in peace, knowing he left, no longer afraid. I kept checking my phone during the day to get a text from my mom, and indeed, I did get the “grandpa is in a better place now” text.

It’s not my first time that something like this happened. My mom told me that when I was a kid, I informed her about two of my great grandmothers’ death before she received a phone call that they died (two separate occasions). I don’t remember this. But I do remember when I was a pre-teen I had a dream about walking my great grandpa to the gate that leads to the “other side”, and the same morning we got a call about his death, and rushed to the nursing home.

I think I brushed those childhood experiences off because my family is religious (I’m not, I’m spiritual), and they gave me some Christian-style explanations. But I don’t that’s the case, and I also don’t think it’s random because it happened multiple times. Does anyone have any advice for me in terms of how to explore and get in tune with this ability? I’d also love to hear about your experiences and how you started understanding your abilities. Thank you for your time :)


r/Mediums 13h ago

Development and Learning Kind of a weird question

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I'm not sure if this is possibly a place to post this. I help my husband with genealogical research and cemeteries. Typically, he likes to stay within the area. I love to travel and sometimes, I will stop at random cemeteries along the way. Usually, I have to feel drawn to the cemetery and I can't always explain why. I'm still working on learning to manage my abilities and understand what I feel/hear. I typically hear short phrases or single words in my head that aren't me or I feel something. Any suggestions on how to improve my abilities?

I've considered making a blog documenting the travels that my husband/man-child do while visiting cemeteries (history, relative information, etc.). Considered including things that I've felt or heard within a cemetery while we were there. Could this be a bad idea?


r/Mediums 15h ago

Experience Apparently I help people die??

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Hello, I’m reposting here because I uploaded this post on the spirituality sub, but I think I’m looking for guidance. I’m not in tune with whatever this is and I’d like to learn more if anyone is willing to help :)


r/Mediums 16h ago

Guidance/Advice General wondering

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I’ve had some strange experiences over the past year and a bit. Mostly in that I ‘know’ things that I shouldn’t- as in I’ll be going about my day at work or something and then out of nowhere, completely unrelated, I’ll get an image in my minds-eye of a sequence of events.

Almost as I’m in the room with the person and watching what is happening.
I’m able to reflect/meditate on it later and from there I am able to ‘feel’ into people’s emotions and understand the context of what I saw

Has anyone else had anything like this, by any chance?


r/Mediums 18h ago

Other Do our late loved ones stick around and keep tabs on us after they pass?

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My favorite friend in the world died when we were in high school, over 12 years ago. I still miss her dearly and still feel so connected to her. Even when she was alive our connection was quite telepathic. Some of the signs I receive from her spirit are so on-the-nose I can’t help but laugh. I always let her know that she is more than welcome to stalk me from the other side. I don’t find the concept of ghosts and spirits spooky at all knowing that she is now a part of that realm. It brings me joy to imagine that she kinda just hangs around and is invested in what I’ve been up to ever since she died. I do think she guides me. Is it plausible to believe that she’s always watching and cheering me on? Is she impressed by the person I have become? I live to make her proud and the thought of having her as my audience makes me happy!


r/Mediums 19h ago

Development and Learning How can I train "abilities" outside of deep meditative states?

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Okay so I am working on refining any medium skills (specifically clairvoyance and clairaudience, which I've experienced a lot of my life), but I can only ever get images or words when I am about to fall asleep or in a very deep meditation and I have my eyes closed. Is there any way that I could potentially practice or train myself to get and recognize spiritual information in less meditative states and be able to use my intuition in more sudden real-life situations? Ty<3


r/Mediums 41m ago

Guidance/Advice cleansing negative entities

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hi!

I am looking for ways go get rid of negative entities without getting rid of any other entity that is in the space just ones with bad intentions.

is there anyway?


r/Mediums 23h ago

Spirit Guides My readings end up being all about my husband…

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I have had readings with the same medium for about 6 years now, and they have been incredibly helpful and accurate throughout some challenging times.

Right now, my husband and I are both dealing with our own separate challenges with work and other life stuff … and there are certainly challenges in our marriage as well. I have a lot of big decisions to make right now, and I thought meeting with the medium might help a little as I try find the right answers.

The last 2 times I’ve met with this medium, the spirits and guides who have come through just seem to focus on my husband and what he has going on in his life. He is going through quite a bit (as am I). And of course I have concerns over what my husband is going through, but the challenges I’m personally facing were barely brought forth or discussed.

I have always let her guide the conversation and validate we go along… and the conversations just keep going back to my husband and what he needs to succeed. Is it possible that this medium is connected to spirits who are more focused my husband? Is it possible that another medium might pick up on messages that are more for me?


r/Mediums 3h ago

Development and Learning Hi, I have a couple questions

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When someone passes, if they decide to reincarnate does that mean you’ll never see them again? How would that work?

I would love to see my love again but I keep fearing he’ll reincarnate before I do. How does it work would it be like on earth and we would just spend time together? Would you still feel pain?


r/Mediums 8h ago

Guidance/Advice Blocking the Others

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I experienced ghosts, clairvoyance, and what many folk, I’ve learned, call shadow people since childhood to early 20s. One shadow man reoccurringly and specifically.
I had an experience in my early 20s where (now I know) I did a dumb thing, and opened myself up to everything.
Terrifying experience.
(It wasn’t the reoccurring shadow, it was a different thing entirely)
It made me shut Everything down, block it all.
The certain entity that followed me, hasn’t harmed me from what I know, but scared me . They would still show up from time to time but I shut it down harder. Haven’t seen that entity since.
I’m starting to feel more things now releasing my tight hold block and am being more discerning like I wasn’t when I was young. I want to explore this arm I cut off awhile ago—but am scared of the reoccurring shadow man I saw throughout my younger age.
My question:
1st how to discern whether something is harmful, or is just scary to us.
2nd in the getting back in touch process, what specifications and practices would you suggest to block the harmful energies while still remaining open to others. Or. Books to help me along with this journey.

Thanks yall