Hey y'all. I have a question about something that just rubbed me the wrong way.
My partner and I are staying at a fancy hotel in Texas. It's a 4-star and this is one of the first times we've been able to afford something like this, so it still feels like we're a little out place. Regardless, our stay has been fantastic and staff have been great. Until earlier today.
The front desk person (we hadn't seen him before) asked us if we had our room key for the elevator. Thought it was weird, but decided to let it go in my head. We come back down about an hour later to go meet friends for dinner. The same worker stops us in the middle of the lobby and asks, "Excuse me what was your hotel room number again?" Weird question, but I also couldn't remember it right away. My partner answers, and I ask him why. He said he was asking because he thought we ordered ice. He was carrying an ice bucket. When the valet pulls up our car, he also goes out to talk to him. I get in my head about it.
I thought about it on our way to dinner and I tell my friends how it rubbed me the wrong way. They tell me, HELL NAH the worker was wrong. We are people of color, so we all have experienced these situations in different circumstances.
When we come back from dinner, the same front desk person is there and I tell him that he made us uncomfortable by asking what our room number is since we were in the middle of the lobby, which is also an entrance to the hotel restaurant. He says he asked us because I left my card at the bar earlier, which I did, and that the bartender asked for our room number. It was she that wanted to know. I said okay fine, but the issue is safety and security. I didn't want to pull the race card because I don't know if that's the true issue and I know I lose credibility and people get defensive.
He doubled down that it was the bartender. But it doesn't make sense to us at all. He changed his story. So...idk. I hate complaining to the manager and as a newly able to afford treat yo self activities person, I still feel like I don't belong and maybe won't get no respect in this bougie hotel.
Is the whole saying the room number outloud in the lobby being a no no for hotel workers true? And is this something I should complain to management?