House pic was taken when we closed in Feb of this year, hence the snow, but we’re still over the moon about it and wanted to share

2/1 with bonus rooms, big ol' yard, deck, woodshop, and greenhouse! Proof positive that the market in Austin is getting better for the little fellas. ​

It's 105 degrees today and I might die loading our initial furniture in but very grateful for this sub as we navigated the process. Y'all can do it too!

Let’s say underwriting was hypertension 24/7.

Edit* Metro Atlanta *Not pictured: Paris Hilton (our 3 year old black cat)

We're so happy we can finally say we own our first home! This has been a crazy year with a new job, first baby, and our first home now.

The home is farther from the city that I prefer but it's peaceful and a decent 1930ft² for a townhome 3B/2.5B.

I was able to get a great rate by having a larger bank rate match my employee discount, and on top of that, we had so many credits from the buyer and the bank, that we were at risk of losing a few thousand, so we bought the rate down from 6.25 to the rate above a couple of days before closing.

The seller's agent was a NIGHTMARE to the point that he threatened to harass me at my work and sue me because the sellers lost their deposit. He had a huge ego trip throughout the entire negotiation, from start to finish (they signed an occupancy agreement, but we had to drill the locks out to move in, and they took some items in the sale docs).

The move in was hectic (there's a HUGE difference between a Moving Company, and Professional Movers).

And the first night in, the AC broke down, and we had to pay $1500 to fix it.

Beyond the trial by fire, we couldn't be happier or more at peace finally having a place we can truly call home.

4 bed 3 bath 1,912 sq ft new-build single-family home in AZ. FHA.

Sorry for the long post ahead..
We just purchased our first home, we did everything leading up to closing as we should we got a general inspection, plumbing inspection, termite inspection and all came back clear and with very little things that needed to be taken care of. We went from renting, we were comfortable at our other place but wanted to find a house with a nice yard and a home that could be ours. We have young kids as well. We walked through the home about 4 times before closing, we did initial walk through then came in two other times to measure and then final walkthrough 3 days before closing. I noticed they had glade plug ins throughout the property and it was so strong I was like I am definitely taking those out before moving in, but thats all you could smell was glade. The seller apparently bought the house 2.5 years ago, ”re did the interior” and rented it and then decided to sell it now. House was on the market for over 60 days because they priced high, so it sat vacant.

So great we get everything done and taken care of, the house a little bit out of our budget but we made it work because initially we thought we have minimal work that needs to be done to it. So we close on the house 2 days ago on Monday. I left the closing, came straight in and wanted to clean the house because we had little time to be able to move before my husband went back to work and we have 10 days left in our rental before there is a new tenant.

I went immediately to the kitchen. I noticed a dead bug in the corner I was like okay that’s fine maybe came in from people coming in and out. I didn’t look at it too much I just wiped it up. I moved an foot down the counter and there is another one. Im like hmm, I continue on and I find 4 dead bugs flipped upside down on the counter all the same type of bug so I am suspicious at this point like it’s not a one off that flew in. so I take a picture of it and upload it to Google… this is where I about died inside. it said “German cockroach.” so I go balls to the wall and I start opening cabinets to look inside I see black flecks in the corners of the cabinets and what looks to be like grease and dirt over all of the hinges. I open up the cabinets next to the stove one crawled out and it smelled disgusting, it smelled musty and that had the most dirt on the hinges. so at this point I just start crying, I just bought the biggest purchase of my life so far and there might be a cockroach infestation… not to mention I have kids and I don’t want them living in this.

I took pictures of everything, I pulled the oven tray out and sure enough… 2 combat max roach bait trays under there with a few dead roaches around it. I pulled the fridge out there was dirt, combat max trays and some flipped over dead roaches. I open up the kitchen cabinets and up top there was more combat max bait trays. on top of the fridge more combat max bait trays with dead roaches next to it. I decided to look in the bathroom so I pulled the bathroom cabinet drawers out and sure enough brown flecks and a few dead roaches. I have 7 days left in my rental we already moved everything here I haven’t unpacked a single thing, and we aren’t using the kitchen yet since finding the bugs.

I am so upset and feeling huge remorse and almost as if I made a bad decision purchasing this home and choosing to move my kids here instead of just staying in the rental we had because now we are stuck and I am terrified at the thought of having to put all our pantry products in bags and not be able to set plates down in the kitchen for however long we live here. not to mention I unplugged the glade plug ins and every time you walk in it smells musty. I have yet to see anymore live ones but finding a lot of traces of them and I am scared about bringing food in here or unpacking anything here and it drawing them out.

None of this was mentioned by the seller, inspectors or nor were there any visible bugs when walking through. I would have never purchased. the home if I knew there was a possible cockroach infestation, and finding the trays it makes me feel like they knew about this. We called an exterminator and are having the place bombed Saturday but still feeling horrible that this might not be the end and I potentially just moved my children and my family into a place where we can’t really live. I feel like the kitchen is dirty and cant for see myself feeling comfortable enough to cook in there.

I attached pictures to show. If you have any experience with a situation like this can you please share your experience - please no mean comments I suffer with ocd and specifically contamination and I am really struggling mentally for what’s ahead.

26yo, $13K down; $5K seller credit and seller paid title fees. Closed July 13th and truly still can’t believe it…

Just got our appraisal back and it came back $300 more than our offer. At least we don’t have to renegotiate, but I am wondering if the appraiser did just enough to get it to go through.

How close were you to your appraisal number?

4 br, 2.5 bath. New roof. New floors. New HVAC. All hardwood flooring. A jettub bath. A finished attic I will use as a private teaching studio with its own new HVAC. Century old brick beauty. Covered patio & sunny balcony. Pretty garden. 2 blocks from a beautiful park, 10 minute commute to my work at a local theater, across the street from the YMCA, and walkable to every delicious restaurant, barcade, music venue in town.

Appraised at 278k, but sellers wanted to move to EU had been ready to go and didn't wish to haggle for profit's sake. We put 80k down to keep our monthly incredibly low.

Pizza, Moscato, and a romantic night on the town in these amazing Betsey Johnson shoes (I OG wore to our wedding rehearsal dinner ^_^) to celebrate. I feel so at peace.

[ Semi repost - mods took down husband's earlier post for adding the down payment in the title ]

It’s finally our turn! USDA and TSAHC. 🔑** 🏡 **

The house is all mine, I've put all the money in, down, around, and he is supportive and "loves to be with a successful woman" lol.
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I make about 5xs as much as him, and our arrangement in the past has been that I pay for the rent and vacations, and he pays for utilities and our vehicle. We split the cost of our pets.

He's started mentioning that since it is my house, the utilities should be in my name. He even mentioned I should write a LEASE for him because he will need to proof of residence for various things.

I do love this guy and we are not breaking up any time soon, but that being said marriage is not in our future either. I'm already divorced and he doesn't "believe" in it (marriage), so I dont really know like, how to handle all this and dont have a lot of examples to look to.

Do I really become my partner's "landlord" and write him a lease for $0 rent?
Is there a reason that I should keep all the utilities in my name and just charge him??

I wasn't prepared for this weird dynamic change lol.

My gf comes from a family where a lot of her family lives together. Multiple families in one home (grandparents, cousins, mom, and nephews). I grew up very differently where it was only my immediate family that lived together. When I was a kid grandma had moved in until she had passed but that was it. My gf mom is inheriting the home her family currently lives in but is horrible with money. Multiple credit cards in debt and doesn't budget her money well. Now to the point of this post. When we purchase our home I want to have a contract that states we will not allow anyone to move in with us. Only our parents if they are ill to where they can no longer take care of themselves. Lastly, my gf is the bread winner in her family. If they need money they always go to her. I can see this being a problem in the future if the house was to get behind on bills and they're at risk of losing it. This has happened before btw. I want to avoid any future fights because I will not be ok with any of her family moving in because they fell on hard times. They also don't make a lot of money and are not motivated to do better financially

EDIT I have had at least 6 discussions with my gf about me not wanting to have any of our family living with us. The only exception would be if our parents are ill and would not be able to take care of themselves.

Hey all. Our offer on the house was accepted. Its a great house but definitely on the higher end of our budget. Our goal was for my husband to afford mortgage payment completely without relying on my income. But this house will require me to contribute too.

We also were getting a promotional interest rate of 5.75% with the credit union. Unfortunately, by the time we liked this house and things moved forward, that promotional rate ended and now we are getting 6.5% again. That makes our mortgage payment quite high to a point that we will barely save anything initially. Edit: We had the option to wait for the promotional rate to be back in fall which the credit union anticipates but we thought about what if we dont find a house we like again and lose this promotional rate as well.

All that being said, our savings will be our bonuses as we both work full time jobs (engineering and marketing).

Anyone else who went all out and didnt regret it?

Is refinancing as easy as it sounds?

More context:
Total take home pay for both of us combined: $11,600
Total monthly mortgage: $3,200
Childcare: $3,680
Car payment: $374

House listing price: $445,000
Offer accepted at $440,000
2021 Build, 4 bedroom, 3 bath, detached home 2.3K sq.ft, finished basement, big private fenced yead, decent school district (we compromised on this because a short commute to work and nanny willing to come to the new house was important to us), daycare within walking distance if nanny decides to quit/unabble to find new nanny. Supplemental solar power and electric car charger too.

No other debt apart from ongoing credit card bills.

Currently living in an apartment that’s infested with roaches, but am moving to a new place in September! I’ve asked the landlords to deal with it many times, but they won’t do anything other than send bug control (who aren’t doing anything other than spraying). I want to start preparing myself for the move, but idk what all I can keep/discard.

Do you guys have any tips on steps I should take, what I should chuck, and what I can keep? Any advice would be hugely helpful for the coming months!

And a very expensive fixer/renovation. But it’s done!

EDIT: All my fellow pizza lovers leaving comments about the pizza place, I'm so sorry for not sharing the spot. I just don't want to get my location doxxed. Please forgive me.

So we’re supposed to close in 2 days. Up until this point, I’ve been constantly told by both the title company and the lender that we’re looking good on time and we’re all set to close on the 24th.
Wake up this morning to an email from the lender saying that there’s issues with the sellers disclosure that need resolving before we’re clear to close. They only requested the sellers disclosure 2 days ago, so 4 days before close. Is that normal to leave it so late?
How are we supposed to get this resolved in time? It’s clearly going to delay us now and it seems like it was so avoidable. We’ve had the seller’s disclosure for over a month and they never asked for it until 4 days before close. Idk I’m just so frustrated and needed to get it off my chest

EDIT:
meant to add that the lender has a thing where if we don’t close within a certain time period, they give us $5000. This is definitely going to go over that. Is this considered their fault though lol

Has anybody backed out of the home purchase agreement a week before closing? I completely understand I won’t get my earnest money back which is okay with me. Has anybody had any other ramifications from it besides losing earnest money? My realtor is trying to convince me to not do it and saying that the seller could sue me or she (the realtor) could charge me for the money she should’ve received.

My husband and I are just starting our journey toward becoming first-time homeowners and recently began the NACA homebuyer process. We completed the first-time homebuyer education course and wanted to share as we learn along the way.
Starting this process has shown us how much goes into preparing for homeownership, from budgeting and planning to understanding the different steps involved. We’re excited to continue learning and working toward our goal of purchasing our first home. If there are others who have used the program please share below?

If I make 3200 a month gross, what are the chances I can buy a house? I’ve only just started looking into how to buy a house so idek if this is feasible with loans and qualifications etc. Is there a min I need to make for different house prices? (I’m looking at mobile homes so under 150k.) advice appreciated thank you!