My filly is about to be 2.5yo. I am not going to sit on her until she's at LEAST 3. When I do start riding her, it will be ~20 very light rides, just establishing a kindergarten level understanding of WTC stop/back up. She will be turned out afterwards until she's 4, when I will start piddling around on her -- very low intensity, mostly walking and hacking around. "Work" won't start until she's 6. The majority of my professional and personal horse experience is young/green horses, so this is not my first rodeo either. Just wanted to establish that before I get into my question!!
She'll be 3 in March. I have started hand walking and ponying her with a saddle on and have hand walked her 2x with a saddle and bridle both on. She is perfectly behaved when we are hand walking and that is not the issue. But when we're ponying she can be a little shit and I'm wondering where the line is between "baby getting overstimulated and jubilant" vs. "young horse being dangerous and needing immediate and swift correction." I don't mind some silliness but I have a zero tolerance policy for any sort of dangerous or disrespectful behavior.
I have ponied her a LOT starting at about 1yo. On and off property, in the arena, trails, hayfields, hills, WTC in all of these settings. Without the saddle on, she sometimes gets a little froggy when we're trotting/cantering but only really in the arena has it ever been a big display of WOOOHEEEE!!! Today was no more than the 2nd or 3rd time max I have ponied her with a saddle on.
It was also a really beautiful, cool morning, and I haven't ponied her in a while, so that def played a role too. The ride was 90% walking, circles, turns, and walking over ground poles with less than 15 laps of trotting total for both directions (my arena is like 60ft x 80ft, so ~7 laps each direction is not much at all). In a ~25min ride, all three of these instances occurred at the trot:
(1) did the type of crowhop where they aren't truly bucking, but more like getting in the air and propelling themselves forward (not rearing). I popped the lead rope with sharp, moderate downwards pressure when she did this, which was attached to a standard rope training halter, and made a verbal correction noise.
(2) got very uppity, I didn't see the first part bc I was riding and not staring at her, but when I turned to look at her she had reared all the way up as tall as she could. Like I thought for 0.25 seconds she might flip. She got the lead rope out of my hands and came back down and just stood there. I dismounted, got the lead rope, re-mounted and kept riding. I did not correct this bc she got the lead rope out of my hands and the window had passed by the time I had dismounted and recollected her.
There was a (3) but for the life of me I cannot remember what exactly she did. Or maybe I was looking forward again and just felt the commotion. Idk! I did correct her immediately with an appropriate intensity/magnitude of correction for this while she was in the action of doing it. She did not "act up" again for the remainder of the ride and we finished on a good, correct note with her behaving politely and compliantly with more trotting in both directions.
She is definitely in the testing boundaries stage of development. 99% of the time I catch it and correct the instant something happens. In the 1% of the time where I miss that 3 second window, I don't correct bc it isn't fair to them and that is not my training ethos. I think I am giving her the same benefit of the doubt that I give other animals by not correcting as fully "intensely" as the situation could potentially call for that very first time she misbehaves. Like the first correction is a, "knock it tf off right now" almost like a warning. Any subsequent corrections bypass that subtle warning feeling and go straight to full-throated correction, which scale in intensity depending on the behavior.
When she was a weanling, she had this really fun thing she would do where she would attempt to blindly bolt when I was leading her. I think it happened on 4 separate occasions. The first and second times I don't remember correcting them with the appropriate intensity bc I was surprised and taken off guard both times. The third time I was a bit more ready, but when I spun her in to a circle she bucked/kicked out very close to me. The fourth time I was ready and waiting for her to do it -- she attempted to bolt, and the second she passed my shoulder I got all up in her shit and ROARED AT HER to get back, backing her up quick AF with a lead rope and dressage whip, like a certifiably insane person. But she has not done it since and it's been about 2yrs.
I think I need to more harshly and intensely correct her the next time she bucks/rears while I'm ponying her. But being on another horse is a complicating factor bc I have to manage both of them and I think that is what is hindering me.
Just typing this out helped me organize my thoughts and I can see now how I didn't set her up for 100% success with (1) not working her in a few months, (2) ponying her at a trot with the saddle on, very early into her saddle-wearing experiences, and (3) not correcting the first misbehavior intensely enough the first time. But then again maybe I'm making excuses for her... please let me know your thoughts!