Not in US. I know I am gonna get a bunch of comments calling me jealous. Fair I am jealous how can I not be.
And to be clear I still like her she's good person, I will never say any of this to her but I am jealous.
My second cousin finished uni with a job recently. I finished last year, I was looking before graduation too.
We both studied industrial engineering. I went to a higher-ranking school, we have a central exam for uni and I my engineering department is ranked way higher.
I have a 3.6 GPA, she has like 2.3 (out of 4)
I had 2 interships she had none.
She never even tried to network. I once asked her about some of the professors and she doesn't remember any of their names. She told me she had one friend in uni and they weren't that close. She mostly socializes with her close family. I am similar to her (very introverted) but I tried to get close to my professors and other people I met in various industries.
I looked her CV and its pretty plain. Just her education, few hobbies, and technical skills. I have the same stuff and way more.
She got a job because her mom is a pretty respected doctor in their city. One of her long-time patients and a friend helped to get my cousin a job in her company.
It's not that she doesn't deserve it and she should suffer the same as me, but I am still jealous.
Also before anyone asks, I asked almost all my extended family for leads before. Including my second cousin's mom (my mom's cousin). I sent my CV to all of them and they all said they would ask around. I had two interviews thanks to that, but both times rejected due lack of industry experience (at least that's what they told me).
Its just so frustrating market is booming for people with right connections. She was born into a good network. I am trying to create my own network from scratch but it like swimming up a waterfall