r/Employment • u/Free-Gift-4671 • 13h ago
Would you tell an interviewer you’re 20 weeks pregnant?
I’m curious what other people would do in this situation.
I have a job interview today for a front office position at a dental office. I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant, but I’m not really showing yet, so someone meeting me for the first time probably wouldn’t know unless I told them.
Part of me feels weird not mentioning it because if I get hired, they’ll obviously find out eventually. I don’t want to start a new job feeling like I wasn’t upfront.
On the other hand, I asked ChatGPT about it, and it said not to bring it up during the interview because it’s not relevant to whether I can do the job, and that it’s generally better to discuss it after receiving an offer if I choose to.
Now I’m torn. I want to be honest, but I also don’t want to unintentionally hurt my chances if someone has unconscious bias.
If you were in my shoes, would you tell them during the interview, wait until after an offer, or not mention it until it naturally comes up? Especially interested in hearing from anyone who’s been pregnant while job hunting or anyone who hires employees.