r/DoesAnybodyElse 22h ago

DAE ever feel like you're treated differently as a young attractive female?

0 Upvotes

I am a young attractive female (I say this objectively based on what others have told me. I look like a mix between Beyoncé and Zoe Saldana with no makeup on and have been scouted for modeling more than once. Judge for yourself based on that idc) and have noticed all my adult life that every time I go out it's some shit. Whether good or bad I am always treated differently than everyone else. Pretty privilege is definitely a thing I acknowledge but I feel like people dont realize it's a double-edged sword. I almost feel like no one actually sees me or values me because of what I look like. It doesn't matter how far I go out of my way to try to be nice to people. People either wanna get in my pants or immediately decide they hate me because I must be a bitch, right? God forbid I'm having a bad day or depressed it's even worse. It's like every person feels entitled to let me know I have no right to "have an attitude." Like dude I'm unemployed and having serious health issues and have been struggling with depression but all they see is a pretty face and body to judge at their leisure. I feel like I'm not allowed to even say anything because "oh you're pretty wtf are you so unhappy about?" I'm still a person and life does not discriminate based on looks I have trauma just like everyone else. Am I valid in this?


r/DoesAnybodyElse 3h ago

DAE have/had the same problem? My Parents want to move from austria to the states, im scared.

6 Upvotes

So basically im 17 now, got 2 more years in school. My parents want to move to the USA. And I dont, because im scared leaving everything behind. The Friends, this place I have been living in my whole life. From what I have seen on social media the people in the USA are weird like, I couldnt imagine finding my future wife in the states, everyone there is just different I dont think I could match their personality. Im just scared in generall Idk could someone help me tell me smth about the lifestyle there? (I dont wanna offend anyone im pretty sure theres normal people there too, like I said its just from what Ive seen on social media)


r/DoesAnybodyElse 13h ago

Dae have subtitles on all the time when watching Youtube videos?

5 Upvotes

r/DoesAnybodyElse 18h ago

DAE eat cookies like this?

6 Upvotes

This Works best with chips ahoy. stack cookies in a glass or mug. Add milk so the cookie stack is submerged. Let sit long enough for cookies to soak/ saturate. Drink the milk. Eat cookie mush with a spoon.

I invented this when i was like 8. My wife thinks I'm a psychopath.


r/DoesAnybodyElse 10h ago

DAE feel like AI is just stealing our humanity from us?

88 Upvotes

I feel like AI is just sucking every drop of individuality and humanity from us. You see it with people who have to use it to write emails, make "art", plan things.

It blows my mind. It's depressing to see people on public transport just so blasé using chatgpt to blow off steam about their day. Humans are social creatures and AI is removing part of the core human experience.


r/DoesAnybodyElse 6h ago

DAE suddenly run when they have running shoes, walk with “walking shoes,” hike with hiking shoes... only when you have them?

0 Upvotes

Honestly, I skate when I have fresh skate shoes but I basically quit when they wear out. I run when I have functional running shoes. I go for walks only when I have fresh “walking shoes” or joggers...

I guess Boy Scouts and maybe just general life conditioning really pounded it into me to be mindful of my shoes, soles, feet and knees?

Then again, I also tend to wait to wear clothes fitting to perform certain tasks in certain climates before doing the stuff... but I love doin’ the stuff.


r/DoesAnybodyElse 8h ago

DAE feel like it’s hard finding people who are actually into kink and on the same page? How do y’all usually meet people and build genuine connections?

5 Upvotes

r/DoesAnybodyElse 12h ago

DAE think about the possibility of dying every time they board a flight?

57 Upvotes

r/DoesAnybodyElse 3h ago

DAE

2 Upvotes

does anyone else rest their phone upright against the lower corner of their monitor when gaming it firts perfectly snug and you wont miss calls or texts


r/DoesAnybodyElse 18h ago

DAE scroll through reddit stories when they can't sleep and end up doom-scrolling through countless of profiles?

30 Upvotes

doing this right now, lol. I'll find a post from 4-5 years ago on an old reddit thread and the comment section will just be people sharing insanely wild stories relative to whatever I searched up. then I'll click on someone's profile and scroll through that which leads to me finding more posts and so on, further down the rabbit hole..

It's 1am. 😪


r/DoesAnybodyElse 18h ago

DAE find it hard to adapt when your environment, place, or stage of life changed — especially around 16–18?

4 Upvotes

For example, you grow up in a small town, surrounded by a familiar and safe circle of friends and some adults. Then you graduate from high school, and suddenly everyone goes their separate ways. Some move to another city for university, some move to another country, and you find yourself alone in a completely new place.
You feel lonely and scared, and it’s hard to imagine what your future is going to look like. The stable, safe place you once had is now in the past, and you can’t go back to it in the same way. It’s like your brain hasn’t had enough time to process everything, and you just can’t keep up with how quickly everything is changing.


r/DoesAnybodyElse 21h ago

DAE find the JBL speaker pairing noise creepy?

5 Upvotes

Like when you hit the Bluetooth button to pair it to your phone and it plays that low octave piano note. It’s like something you’d hear in a horror movie when someone’s getting stalked lol


r/DoesAnybodyElse 8h ago

DAE turns off their sound before taking a screenshot in public, so others wont think you took a picture of them?

19 Upvotes

am i the only one who is doing this orrrr


r/DoesAnybodyElse 11h ago

DAE offer help and then regret it

22 Upvotes

I'm in a situation where I offered my help to provide a service to a person around me who has no one else to do it at a very low rate. They would have to hire a professional at a high rate they can't afford, so I offered my help for very low money.

But bruh I regret it because they haven't paid me for months and they don't help me at all with what I need to help them.

I know this is vague, but I wanted to know if anybody else did something like that, offering to help someone and then being stuck in a shitty situation, but because the person only has you, you don't want to stop helping them


r/DoesAnybodyElse 5h ago

DAE get randomly super aware of their existence?

82 Upvotes

I don't mean in a "man my life is hard" kind of way but the "Holy shit I'm alive and I exist in this world" kind of way.

Every now and then I'll just be sitting at work or at home and then I just start contemplating the facts of me existence.

I literally just list things like

  • I'm XX years old
  • I do XX for Work
  • My hair is this color
  • I live in the midwest.

Stuff like that. I don't even feel happy or sad about those things in the moment. Those are just things about me.

As I'm even typing this now, I exist to make this post.


r/DoesAnybodyElse 22h ago

DAE who draws, really struggles with drawing animals for some reason?

3 Upvotes

I can draw inanimate objects, scenery, faces, but I cannot for the life of me draw animals. More specifically mammals. It all looks horrifying the second I try to make to make it a little accurate to the reference. My drawings always end up looking like an eerie taxidermy.


r/DoesAnybodyElse 2h ago

DAE Stop Giving a Fuck as you Get older

10 Upvotes

I'm talking about picking your nose in public and farting as you please.


r/DoesAnybodyElse 2h ago

DAE?🌙

4 Upvotes

Does anyone else feel like they genuinely do not fit anywhere.
I can enter a place where everyone meets for the first time, yet I’m the only one that can’t seem to click with anyone.
Socialisation feels like a performance.
Yes I have friends but it does feel like I over do stuff or I’m not in what feels like a comfortable mental state idk how to express it.

I also noticed when in groups if I try speak most people will ignore me but for the others everyone will direct their attention to them.

Tbh this isn’t a question bc I’m aware there are others who feel like I do there’s 8 billion (or more) of us on this earth allegedly, so I’m not the only one.
I just want to know I’m not alone because I can’t speak to anyone about this, they won’t understand or they will give me sympathy and not support me into getting help.


r/DoesAnybodyElse 5h ago

DAE lazily lie in attempt to make a situation more convinient, and it never does

5 Upvotes

I'm not talking the basic white lies, I.e telling someone an outfit looks nice on them even though it doesnt. I mean just trying to lie, almost to minimize the amount of questions in situation. Sometimes it just slips out the mouth too, it's never planned.

For example, it's 3:25, I am soon to go on break for my job (4:00), and I told my coworker my friend is going to pick me up (which is true) 'cause she's currently on her way back from **location** after eating and shopping. I got let off 30 minutes early (so i can leave 3:30 now) so I said to my coworker "uh oh, I wonder if shes on her way back". I gave her a call, turns out my friend is on the highway and said she'd be there soon but not 3:30, so i told her it's okay i'll just take the bus. Once I returned to my coworker she asked me if I was gonna wait til she came and I cut her off while making my way to the door saying "turns out she's still eating, I'm just gonna go" and laughed. SHE WAS DONE EATING LOL but I guess in my head I thought it'd make it clear that I wasn't gonna wait and wouldn't leave room for questions. But instead my coworker goes "Oh, well if shes still eating right now, she wouldn't even make it in time for 4:00 lol" and looking at her i was like shoot youre right, so out loud I just said that lol, played dumb and then left. I know this situation isnt outrageous or anything but I was wondering if anyone else blurts out dumb lies like this??


r/DoesAnybodyElse 7h ago

DAE get attached to the idea of someone too quickly?

5 Upvotes

(please don’t clown/bash me, i’d love positive insight)

If I match with someone I’m really attracted to, I stop simply getting to know them and start becoming emotionally invested way too early. I end up worrying about losing the connection before we’ve even met, and I think that anxiety comes across in the way I text.

Looking back, I think this mindset has contributed to a few recent ghostings/unmatches. Instead of staying curious and letting things develop naturally, I start trying to create certainty too soon.

The good thing is I’m becoming aware of it, but I’m trying to figure out how to actually change it. maybe it’s an over analyzing issue when it comes to my own steps which causes me to fumble each interaction.

Has anyone else dealt with this?

How did you learn to stay interested in someone without becoming attached to the idea of them too early?


r/DoesAnybodyElse 17h ago

DAE make and earthquake sound in their ears

3 Upvotes

DAE make and earthquake sound in their ears, i dont know whats happening, i can make like an earthquake sound in my ears, like something is vibrating


r/DoesAnybodyElse 18h ago

DAE see and feel people watching you down when literally just walking down the street for no reason, it feels unnerving and ruins the vibe of a casual down town stroll

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r/DoesAnybodyElse 1h ago

DAE dread gassiness during group exercise activities ?

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Vent indeed.

>_< >8I It f--k--g s--ks !! how a lot of meat alternative foods and foods which are so critical to adding to the savouriness of dishes which ppl subsist.

Legumes, soy beans, garlic, onions, cheese etc are make for really satiating meat free dishes but if there was ever an aesthetically oriented reason to GMO alter them (esp.those first four) it's so that they wouldn't be so sulphur imbued as to make gassiness so much more insufferable !!. It's so f--k--g demoralizing !!, not only to be exposed to it but also feel yourself the cause of it particularly when you prefer to veer vegetarian or vegan. I'm awkward* enough as it is and this semi-involuntary nonsense of a bodily reaction, an aftermath of the necessity of eating happens to me amidst doing so many doing something so strainful and important ?!?!!?! >_< . It's the sort of inexcusable pathetic nonsense that you wish 'shuts off' after teen development but nope ! >8I .

Recently I left a fitness class and it was so f--k--g embarrassing how at one point the only person consistently to my side (my right) was covering there face with a towel and coughing while the instructor dismayingly was exposed to it (they sometimes came by near my left as to adjust the music source) and as weird as this sounds, that it was such a demoralizing let down for someone East Asian adjacent to me hurts more since I'm reminded of how I struggle and ardently want to 'look put together/be well adjusted' while around my amiable sister-in-law (who is East Asian). It eventually started to show in how I wasn't really moving much or enthusiastically as if doing so would trigger me like a d--n gross gas bomb, with me remaining in a 'child pose' come the cool down. I honestly don't blame them if when things wound down they'd hate and/or dread me ever more b/c of that !. It doesn't help that I struggled to unlock a bike as to 'make a more prompt getaway' afterwards.

>_< F--k the pungency !! and how it can reek of, if not eggs then straight up 'the worst parts' of garlic and onions at times with an uncanny almost as if f--k--g maliciously intentionally designed pungency of repulsiveness !!. It wasn't even yoga !!, but a weight-centric class which means that much more to me as someone who disdains and struggles w/resistance stuff but f--k !, you found time to exercise throughout a week, been struggling pornography throughout it, yesterday tediously awaited a laptop delivery to sub for what one was likely stolen after misplacement last week, you got a feedback call as to possible social benefits in the morning, one later at work as to clarifying a doctor referral, a mental health appointment tomorrow, a family berry picking event in the morning and one last appointment at a different fitness place elsewhere come Sunday morning.

I painfully realize now how if I feel that, that risk 'is real' during a fitness class it's better that I dip out into the washroom for howsoever long or (worst case scenario) howsoever often as to better 'safely release it from the system'.

._. I'm embarrassed to appear there next time out of dread of this happening to anyone else. Despite my hesistance to make more purchase given the recent laptop, I'm seriously considering apparent 'activated charcoal' underwear b/c of this pathetic nonsense ( :I it baffles me in that ~'if it has charcoal will it even much work after a few laundry washings ??').

* >8 I EFF THAT IDIOT WHO I REGRET HAVING HAD FEELINGS FOR WHO MADE THAT WORD FOREVER SO MUCH MORE WORSE FOR ME !!!!.