r/AskForHelp 15h ago

Please help

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If anyone can help my cat, he needs a cyst sewed up on his left front arm. It popped and now is a giant hole. I can front 1k, but the vet says 2k and some change.

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I went through a divorce and Monty kitty was my baby before I got married. He is 11 years old and still a strong boy.


r/AskForHelp 56m ago

Stuck in the city :(

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What would you do if your nerve meds for the next week are only available here now, and my appt had a 10 copay and my OMNY 5 BUCKS card is empty due to my nephew using it without me knowing mannn ahahhhh I'm done 😂😕


r/AskForHelp 11h ago

Posting for a friend

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Please help Mango recover from surgery. Mango is a sweet 8 year old ESA that recently had nine teeth removed and a mass removed and sent for testing in the back of his throat. My friend is a full time student at UCSB and still looking for a job, but used majority of her savings to pay for this procedure. Anything helps and is much appreciated! 🫶

Link to go fund me:

https://gofund.me/4f013f0bd

Edit: my friend decided to make her own post, so I’ve reposted it to my profile if anyone wants to check it out


r/AskForHelp 23h ago

need some advice

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hi! I tried to post this last night but it was deleted, not sure why. I just moved out and I wanna thrift furniture from stores and marketplace but the issue is I have no way of transporting it back to my place. I don’t know anyone in real life with a car or truck that can help me transport it. any ideas on what I can do? trying to save money by thrifting and be more environmentally conscious/friendly. Sometimes I offer people on marketplace a bit of extra money if they could deliver but mostly they say no.
Any ideas on what I can do? And to clarify I am not seeking financial assistance, just wondering if anyone has any affordable ideas:) Thank you!


r/AskForHelp 21h ago

Dog with Cushing's disease and anal gland cancer could use some expensive medication. Thanks to all that can help it means a lot

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Venmo @bennorsen


r/AskForHelp 13h ago

Should I be worried???

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This random guy on TikTok messaged me this threat. I don’t post anything but my pfp has my face on it (same picture that I have on here). I looked at his account and he seems to be an incel or something. Should I be concerned? Or is he just trying to scare me? Is there anything I should do about this or should I just ignore it??


r/AskForHelp 9h ago

Please help my ESA recover from surgery

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I had a friend post on here for me because I don’t use Reddit, but I just decided to make an account. I’m a full time student at UCSB and I’m trying to find a job right now, but my cat just got surgery and I used majority of my savings paying for it. I live in student housing, so he is required to be an ESA to live with me, I will include photo evidence.

For context, my cat is 8 years old turning 9 and he had to get teeth extractions. He had nine teeth removed which is a lot. Before the extractions, I got a call saying they found a surprise mass in the back of his throat and they needed to surgically remove it, and send it to the lab to test and make sure it’s not cancerous. The total cost for all these procedures ended up being more than I expected, and I ended up pretty much emptying what’s left in my bank account. I’m still in the process of job hunting, so I don’t have income right now. The very last bit of money I spent on his soft food post surgery that’ll last for the next month.

I’ve never done something like this before, so I’m not really sure how to proceed. I don’t like asking for handouts or posting, but I’m financially in a tough spot right now. Although I have certain resources that help me save a lot of money, I still have other bills outside of school to pay and without a job currently it’s been rough. I’m a pretty private person and I don’t like sharing personal information on social media, but I was made aware scammers are everywhere especially when it comes to pets so I understand. I’m taking the advice from a comment left on my friend’s post about posting the invoice with my cat in frame and username/date written on top. Anything helps and any feedback/advice is welcome!

This is the link for the go fund me:

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-mango-recover-from-surgery?utm_campaign=natman_sharesheet_dash&utm_medium=customer&ts=1784726977&utm_source=native_options


r/AskForHelp 8h ago

Need $40 for truck repair

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I don't really know how to do this.. I've never been in this predicament before asking strangers for help. So thank you for reading .

My truck's transmission decided to stop working a few days ago. It was a sensor issue that turned into many parts that needing to be replaced. . I have most of the money saved up however I am $40 short to replace what's left. I have a friend willing to work on it for me if I have the parts. I can't afford to lose my job by not having a vehicle. Anything will help..thank you

Edit to add * I have venmo and cash app. I can also pay back by Friday it that helps


r/AskForHelp 2h ago

Need help getting through a rough patch

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Hello. This is going to be a little long but please bear with me. My partner and I have been getting put through the wringer recently and I am at the point of panic.

We have had to miss a significant amount of work due to a seemingly never ending cycle of car troubles. I'm in pretty heavy debt from 2 different CV axle failures as mentioned in a previous post in a different help sub, as well as alternator and starter replacements over the last year. I ended up taking a loan out of my pitiful 403(b) to catch up on bills. My mom has been a huge source of help in times like these in the past but she asked for a demotion at work (long story) so her money is tight now.

We've got about a day's worth of electricity left in my prepaid account (though I count myself incredibly blessed to have a prepaid electricity account as an option).

My dogs are out of kibble and we are nearing the end of the people food (not nearly as worried about people food as I am about them). My partner made them pork, lentils and wild rice for dinner out of our emergency rations last night but that only goes so far.

I missed the food pantries last week because my car was out of commission, and missed them again this week because I had to be at work during their distribution hours.

I tried to sell all of my books at a local bookstore but they would only offer store credit. I tried to sell my retro gaming stuff and I guess none of it was worth much.

I tried to sell my partners antique foreign coins from his grandfather but they don't seem to be worth much either and I don't know where to sell them that isn't online.

I can post whatever proof needed but I am hopeful that someone could maybe contribute some money to my electricity account and maybe order my dogs some food? I believe there is a way to add money straight in to my utility account without having to send it directly to myself.


r/AskForHelp 16h ago

Career path advice

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Hello! I live in upstate NY and I’m trying to figure out whether choosing between education (health or physical education) or accounting would be a better fit for me. I live in a very financially hard household and I’d like to help my parents out eventually after college when I graduate. Thing is, I feel I’m more passionate in education or working with children but I know it doesn’t make a whole lot starting off. And I don’t think I’d mind accounting but it isn’t my first pick, and accounting makes pretty decent money depending on the place.

So I don’t know, if I choose Physed/health education I’d have to transfer to a school that offers it, or continue at the school I’m at now with accounting.

So what do you think, I’d appreciate any advice, suggestions or guidance.

Thank you.


r/AskForHelp 8h ago

Only 3 days left to help us spay and neuter community cats in the Philippines 🐾

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Hi everyone.

Our Birthday TNVR mission for the community cats of Sta. Rosa, Laguna, Philippines is only 3 days away.

We are still raising funds to help as many community cats as possible receive spay/neuter surgery.

Every donation goes directly toward TNVR and veterinary care. If we raise more, we can help more cats.

If donating isn't possible, sharing this post is already a huge help.

Thank you for supporting community cats. ❤️🐾

If it helps, I am verified in our local sub r/catsofrph and r/OnlyPusa

Update to follow once the event is done.

To the mods, if this is not allowed here. Please inform me. I'll delete it.


r/AskForHelp 22h ago

Single Dad two boys

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I feel terrible that I can't feed my boys tonight. I'm totally single. No family willing to help us. Assistance isn't offering help until Thursday.🥺. To be honest I don't know how to ask a person face to face,soon as I attempt,I can't get the words from my mouth.... But I'm asking anyone to help. I'm in Ga. It's a lot of restaurants close to us. I pretty much ashamed even typing this, I applied to jobs,no luck yet. Monday I could've made some money but I didn't have steel toe boots😒. Anyone kind to help us? I can help with some yardwork,wash cars,move ,clean. I'd rather earn it,but it's getting late, and my boys are looking but not questioning me. I love them so much... I just recently lost my sister,who DEFINITELY would've helped... So anyone, I'm not asking for any money just dinner or a pizza and we're thankful. I'll prove it. We can go live,or whatever. I'd never lie on our situation and I don't use people. It's difficult right now. Thanks for reading,if you can pray,then pray for us too.


r/AskForHelp 19h ago

At what point...

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When is a "good" time to walk away from a marriage? But, it's a marriage that involves no actual relationship. Also, how do I FINALLY put my happiness above someone else's to do so?


r/AskForHelp 19h ago

sketchy affiliate code nonsense

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this individual, u/demitemp, came to hawk her Definitely Not A MLM/Pyramid Scheme/whateva on a 7 year old acct. on which the screengrab was the only (visible) post.

when she didn’t get what she wanted she caught an attitude and bizarrely accused the people pushing back of “””hostility.”””” i told her why this was happening and she got all veruca salt with it and snapped at me too. not sure why you’d request help and then bite the hands that could feed you but i digress.

i wanted to catch it early and say something in case she deletes her post so she can be held accountable and so y’all are aware in case she tries again.

(and i’ve a feeling she will delete it, because ms madame privated her post history With A Quickness when i called attention to it and said she’d delete her reply to me “when i saw it”.)

so. caveat emptor or whatever the equivalent phrase is for online scamming


r/AskForHelp 20h ago

Asking for help for Nicole, she's 29 and her back is an S.

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Hello there redditors,

I come here in search for help for Nicole Bell.

She suffers from ideopatic scoliosis since she was 12 years old, she's now 29 and her back has a 55º curvature in the middle, aswell as a 48º curvature on the lumbar.

She's been trying to get funds for her surgery for years, and it now got to a point where her life is at risk, her body is twitched and presses against her organs, making it hard to even breathe.

We already managed to get up to $6k but the surgery comes up to $15k plus services, which come to be post surgery, meds and checkups.

Now here comes the f'd up part, she lives in Venezuela, so its really hard to even get enough money to survive, getting enough for a surgery is practically impossible.

One organitzation offered to pay half of it but before we could sign it, the earthquake happened, so organizations had a bigger problem to attend.

Basically it has been like this for years, every time we managed to get some money for Nicole, something happens and its not possible to do surgery for that year, so we hope to have it for next year and so and so, its tiring, she is the strongest person I've ever met, hard working daily 12+ hours on her business, and its still not enough to take care of her own health.

We would be super thankful if you could help with any ammount, even if all you can do is share it, we would be super thankful.

I'm leaving down here a few pics of her back, a video of her explaining all the problem aswell as the doctor's note for the surgery payment.

Thank you very much for your time reading this!

https://gofund.me/dceed4bac

Adding her own personal TikTok so you can go directly and ask her privately if you need to, I'm not used to reddit so this definetely can sound and look bad, anyone is free to dm me or her.
https://www.tiktok.com/@nikkibellc


r/AskForHelp 2h ago

Help

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I just need about £30 to get some groceries in to last me until I get paid, I haven’t eaten for a good few days, help would be appreciated 🤍


r/AskForHelp 7h ago

Does anyone know how to remove this?

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This has been leaking from my shelf since I moved into this room of my house, my dad says it’s from a stress ball he got way back when that broke, any ideas?


r/AskForHelp 20h ago

Help us get into a safe home

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Hi everyone, my partner and I moved into an apartment 8 months ago and we have been dealing with a cockroach infestation, a seemingly “unfixable” leak, and mold.

We are currently in the process of breaking our lease and will be suing the management property for damages and expenses but we need help getting into a new place. We are trying every route available to us but we weren’t anticipating having to relocate only 8 months into our 13 month lease.

I have a load of evidence and a lot more on the gfm, but I’ll spare you having to read it twice. The link will be at the bottom of this post, all funds will go toward relocation costs as we navigate this.

This has been incredibly stressful on us and really detrimental to our health both physically and mentally. Thank you for taking the time to read our story.

Edit: updated link

https://gofund.me/4f6879dfc


r/AskForHelp 12h ago

Our roof is collapsing...help!

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As you can see in the photo, our house is almost in ruins...it leaks inside and there's no roofing membrane...my mother works twice a week cleaning houses and doesn't even earn $100 USD. She's almost 60 and exhausted...I can't find work and I have some problems like severe depression, borderline personality disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder...we're alone and our family doesn't help us. We only eat once a day and we have a lot of bills...I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to have to resort to prostitution or anything like that, but I feel desperate.

And my cat is sick too...


r/AskForHelp 17m ago

dental help

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Hi everyone. My name is Adriana. I’m 32, a wife, a mom of six, and currently a sophomore in college in Wisconsin. Writing this is incredibly uncomfortable for me, but I’ve reached a point where I don’t know what else to do. I’m in urgent need of extensive dental care. Right now, I’m looking at potentially having most or all of my teeth extracted, depending on what a dentist determines can still be saved. After that, I’ll need some form of restoration so that I can eat normally and finally have a smile again.

I do have state insurance, and I’m grateful to have it, but getting the level of dental treatment I need in a reasonable amount of time has been extremely difficult. I also don't have thousands of dollars available to pay for this myself.

I survived sexual, physical, and emotional abuse throughout my childhood. Hygiene was sometimes used as a form of punishment and control. When I fought back or refused what my father wanted from me sexually, basic things like being able to properly clean myself could be taken away from me. I wasn't allowed to simply feel clean or pretty, and even bathing could become something he controlled. My baby teeth were already rotting before I was six .I experienced abuse from multiple people throughout my childhood until I was around 15. I survived it, grew up, got married, became a mother, and eventually did something I never imagined myself doing: I went to college. I'm 32 now, but my teeth are one physical reminder of that childhood that I've never been able to escape.

For years I've looked in the mirror and felt disgusted with myself because of them. I've hidden my smile, avoided pictures, and silently carried the embarrassment. I know logically that what happened when I was a little girl wasn't something I chose, but that doesn't make looking at the damage every day any easier.

I'm not expecting a stranger to magically pay for an entire new smile, but maybe if i could get a remote high paying position to help me get there faster..

I'm also willing to provide reasonable verification of my dental situation, treatment estimates, college enrollment, or other documentation privately if required by the subreddit/moderators. I don't want to publicly post documents containing sensitive personal information.

I don't want what happened to me as a child to keep deciding how I see myself as an adult. I just want the chance to smile without being reminded of it. Thank you for reading this far. Even being heard means a lot to me.


r/AskForHelp 23h ago

Please read if you have a chance, thank you dearly! 💕

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r/AskForHelp 5h ago

Just lost

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Hello. I am just lost. I am a BA graduate who realized my degree is worthless. I started doing AI training because the pay was unbelievable. Now, AI companies don't need me anymore as the work I used to do has kind of become extinct (AI safety expert). I never networked on LinkedIn because never needed it, have 7 connections on LinkedIn. Don't use SM, have no friends, introvert, and hence very uncomfortable socializing. Lost job, been sitting for 8 months now. Drained all my savings, and barely have 10 days worth of money for sustenance. I just don't know what to do.


r/AskForHelp 17h ago

My cat needs help...

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Hi everyone, sorry to bother, but my cat has a fungal infection and scratches herself until she bleeds. She's a little better now, but she needs to go to the vet, and I urgently need help, please.

Every little bit helps, so I would really appreciate it if you could help me...


r/AskForHelp 4h ago

Need some help!

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Hi! I just moved to Virginia and with all the money and stress it took getting here I ended up with a yeast infection. Im also needing some assistance getting cat food and litter! Im working but wont get paid until two weeks. If anyone could help it would be greatly appreciated.


r/AskForHelp 6h ago

Is there a community or subreddit where people want to volunteer as a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen?

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My psychiatrist isn't available until September, so for now, things are NOT going well. I don't want other doctors because he's the only one that I can trust and is able to give me really good advice.

So I'm wondering, are there people in the internet who wants to talk to people with problems free of charge? It's not that I need real psychiatric help, I just want an ear to listen to me.