r/AskBiBros 1h ago

Question As a Bi guy, what is the perfect dick size in your opinion?

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I'm talking visually and sexually. I'm very curious what people find the perfect size.

Ofcourse include girth aswell as length.


r/AskBiBros 1h ago

Curious because of size difference?

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So ive posted before about being bi curious and having no clue if im bi or not. But the more that I think about it more I am confused. I am not attracted to men as far as I can tell. Ive never had an attraction to a man before but I do get aroused by the thought of penises. I was just thinking I have a theory. I dont think that im stretched to the penis itself. I think its more that im atracted to the idea that its bigger then mine. I will admit it. I have a small one unfortunately. But there something about seeing a big dick that I like. I cant quite put my finger on it. Guess ill keep thinking. I was just curious to see what other think.


r/AskBiBros 15h ago

I got offered to be the party boy toy 🤔

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Few days ago I went on a trip. And there was a horny businessman who flirted with me.

I got horny and posted an ad online about being curious about hookups with handsome DILFs.

I got replies but one reply was from a businessman who proposed I come over during his social gathering. And five of his colleagues want to all do me in the butt. Basically I would be their party entertainment. They will continue to talk about their business work while each taking turns to fuck me one after the other.

Now at first I dismissed the request.

But the more I thought about it, now I’m actually considering it?

The thought of pleasuring multiple businessman type dilfs really got me excited BUT I know for a fact that I might feel bad about myself afterwards and might feel like ‘less’ of a man if I followed through.

I came here on Reddit to ask if any of you guys have done anything like this? If so how did u feel afterwards? Is it worth the curiosity or just let it go?


r/AskBiBros 3h ago

I really wanna have a bi mmf 3some

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Idk if I’ll ever get the opportunity but it’s something I really wanna try, just need the right 2 people. I would also consider myself probably being just a top, but a side question, so I’ve had fingers in my ass before but I can’t get past the feeling of having to shit, does it go away if you just keep doing it for awhile ? Would love to hear people experiences with bi 3sums and they’re take on the side question


r/AskBiBros 12h ago

Question Married bi or not

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I consider myself to be a married bi guy. However what plays in my head is this. I have always adored the female body and have great sex with my wife, oral and anal both ways etc.

The thing is although not physically attracted to men, I absolutely love cock. I love to suck kiss lick cock and swallowing cum is amazing. I have received a few times too. Obviously because of this I find trans girls amazing (although I have never had the pleasure of one). My wife doesn't know this even though she knows I like anal stimulation.

So, does this mean I'm bi sexual or just a side line cock lover.

It really doesn't matter to me I'm just really curious what the majority think.


r/AskBiBros 11h ago

Question Giving in to it.

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For you guys that played the straight guy all of your lives but finally explored your bisexuality a little later in life, what did it feel like to finally give in to it? By that I mean not so much physically but also mentally and emotionally? What was the emotional experience when you finally kissed another man, wrapped your lips around a man’s hard cock, tasted his cum? What was going through your mind as you felt him side into you, felt your body move as another man mounted and fucked you?

Leading up to it, in the moment, or even the aftermath, what was giving into your craving, desire or even curiosity for intimacy with another man like?


r/AskBiBros 10h ago

Question It's my first time make out help me( iam the top)

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I (20) and my boyfriend (18) new weeks ago and we are going to meet soon to make out or something

Like can you guys give me any tips or something so I can make him fully satisfied and happy, it's my very first time, I am very nervous, thinking alot, and how can I long last more or get more harder dick?

Any techniques to satisfy my bottom boyfriend


r/AskBiBros 9h ago

Question Anyone else really attractive to women with masculine features and men with feminine features?

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A strong woman or maybe she has short hair and a deep voice or extra hair. A cute guy with no body hair or a soft voice or bubble butt.

I can’t describe why I find masculine women and feminine men so sexy but I do.


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

Advice I (26M) have a crush on my girlfriend's younger brother and I don't know what to do.

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I'm a 26 year old bisexual guy, and I've been dating my girlfriend for about a year. I love her and she's been nothing but good to me.

The problem is that over the past few months, I've started developing a crush on her younger brother. I never expected this to happen, and I honestly hate myself for it. I've never flirted with him, never acted on these feelings, and he has no idea. Neither does my girlfriend.

Every time I see him, I catch myself thinking about him more than I should, and it's making me feel incredibly guilty. I don't want to hurt my girlfriend or create drama in their family.

I don't know if this is just an infatuation that will fade if I ignore it, or if it means something is fundamentally wrong with my relationship.

Has anyone else experienced something like this? What would you do in my situation?


r/AskBiBros 20h ago

Quiero vivir esto, pero no sé cómo

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Soy un chico bisexual y tengo 17 años. Mi familia es homofobica y no saben nada de esto, ni siquiera lo sospechan. Solo mi hermano y mi cuñada saben lo mío y lo aceptan totalmente.

Lo que pasa es que mis últimas relaciones han sido con mujeres y me gustaría probar este lado mío(que estoy aprendiendo a aceptar). Me han gustado varios chicos pero no he estado seguro si ellos se sentirían atraídos por hombres. Realmente me gustaría al menos tener un, por decirlo así, follamigo. Pero no sé cómo hacer esto, ya que nadie de mi familia puede sospechar o saber, y conozco ningún círculo para relacionarme con gente así

¿Qué piensan que debería hacer?


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

Coming out

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So, I just came out as bisexual today and there's a few things I want to get off my chest. When I first felt attraction to a same sex person I wanted to do everything in my power to write it off. I became extremely homophobic and tried to pray it away. However much recently I just felt like this shouldn't defeat me and I started being open to being queer. I then pondered on what I want and who I like and I found that I am bi since I find attraction to people of all genders and I have a type in each 'category' if I could say that(there's probably a better way of saying it). I came out to a friend of mine and she first thought I was joking but I reassured her. Turns out she's also bi and she has shown immense support. I also felt obligated to come out to my sister since she and I have struggled together and grew up together so I told her. She embraced me with open arms. However, there is the downside there are people who are very close to me who would write me off if I came out to them and I'm also a Christian and I don't know if my sexuality will clash with my faith


r/AskBiBros 21h ago

Discussion sexuality

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i’m 19 years old bisexual guy. lately i have been struggling with my sexuality i’m going through an internalized homophobia it makes me hate myself and at this point i wish i was de/ad even i’m tired of keeping it as secret and hiding it from everyone especially the girl that im talking to. i feel like if she learns she will not accept me i feel everything is getting worse i can’t tell my family i cant tell my friends i feel so bad and tired


r/AskBiBros 23h ago

Bisexual 3 ways mmf?

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Anyone had experiences with bisexual mmf 3 ways?


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

Discussion Curiosity

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Anyone here had a sexual experience with their best friend? Did you do the first move or your best friend? I’m just curious, i don’t have any real encounter so im just wondering if it really happens. Thanks


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

Do you think there's a thing like "the lov of your life"?

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Hello everyone!

I'm just recently entering the dating era (21yo) and last year I had a situationship with someone who I felt many things for, and he loved me too, I wanted to be official but he rejected me. I'm still getting over it but I wanted to ask this question to everyone here (maybe more to the most experienced guys) because I'm curious how's this concept of "the love of your life" for you.

Is it true that there's one special and only person we'll love more than anyone in our lives? Or is it just a myth and there's more than one person? And what makes it happen? I mean, what has made you fall in love with someone? Was it the timing? Chemistry? Sexual desire or compatibility?

I'm still wondering if this guy and I might have another chance, there's been a while since we don't speak so... That made me question this. I just want to know what your thoughts on this are, did you already found the love of your life? Will you go back to them or is it better to find someone else?


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

questioning?

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when did you know for a fact you were bi? im 18 and only dated girls in the past but find myself staring at my friends when shirtless and catch myself watching the dudes when watching porn. am i bi? i dont have any interest in putting stuff up my butt but feel some sort of way around halfway naked dudes. help me pls


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

Just came out as bi to my mom and brother and I am panicking

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I shared this story in other community and someone told me to share it here.

Hi. I'm 26M and I live in a small town where basically everyone knows everyone. For a long time, I've known I am bi, and to be honest. I am not proud that I have been with several guys using Grindr, and I am not happy anymore because I feel anxious just talking with someone who might know someone I know.

Yesterday, I was panicking before sleeping, and I went to the living room at 1 AM, and my mom was there... and somehow I just told her. Today I told my brother... My dad is another story that I don't know how to tell him.

But since coming out to my mom, she wasn't very supportive. She told me to ignore the boys and stick with girls, and she is afraid of all the shame when the people of my town know. She is 65+ years old, another generation, and I get it. But to be honest, I am afraid of what people will say as well, as much as I act like it doesn't affect me (I hate being like this).

Worse than that, I don't know what to do with my friends. I'm afraid to tell them, but at the same time, I want to tell them right away just to rip off the bandage... but I'm scared. All my life, I acted masculine. Because I am... and in certain situations, I made myself that way so they wouldn't find out. At the same time, I just want to meet someone... be able to use my Instagram to connect with boys (always avoided making my Instagram look like I was gay or something)... I know this sounds superficial, but it's true.

The other thing is that I know the moment I tell my friends, other people will know. I would be ashamed, and my mom's worst fear of being talked about and shamed by everyone will be true. I hate that I might hurt her even more.

Plus I day dream that one day I might date a boy and want to present to my familily and wont be able too. I know I am overthinking...but I just need someone to talk to about this or at least put my thoughts in words as more weird and awfull I might look

For the moment, I still live with my parents... I will move out at the end of this year/beginning of the next... Should I wait more or something?

Today, for the first time since I was a kid, I cried a bit while driving home and imagining how I would tell one of my male friends. I felt a sense of relief, but at the same time... I got more scared.

My personal life right now looks like a mess. It will get better, right?


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

I need advice.

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Hello, I (F18) am bi or pan myself (I haven’t figured out the label yet). However, I have never been exclusively attracted to one gender. I have also questioned my gender during multiple points in my life.

My boyfriend (M18) used to identify as gay. He came out as gay to his family and everything. I understand people can change. I have no issue with it. However, I am a huge overthinker. I think about every scenario. I am his first relationship. I’m wondering if anyone can offer a perspective on this to help me understand as he isn’t great at talking about things, and when I’ve asked about it, I’m worried that it’s coming across as me attacking him.
Personally, I have always known I wasn’t attracted to any particular gender, I have no preference, I am capable of being with anyone. This has been glaringly obvious since childhood, often there were familial speculation about me growing up to be a lesbian.

Anyway. I’d appreciate someone’s perspective or experience with coming to terms with their sexuality. As I have always known, I don’t understand what things are like from my boyfriend’s side.

My boyfriend originally told me he was bi when we met a few months ago, opened up to me about previously coming out as gay, then told me he’s pan but he just tells people he’s bi because it is “easier to explain to straight guys”, then fast forward to him telling me the longer he’s been with me, the more he thinks about how he just doesn’t like men. He also told me about how he’s occasionally a femboy and used to believe that he was transgender before changing his mind. He told me specifically that the thought of transitioning to female disappeared around the same time he met me. This has made me feel slightly uncomfortable with the idea of him pretending to be someone he’s not just to please me. When he told me about the previous trans stuff, I did tell him I would completely support him no matter what.

(If it matters to this at all as well, my boyfriend and I are both autistic. I have a diagnosis and have done since childhood.)

Any advice would be appreciated!


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

Making a hetero-presenting marriage work when you prefer men?

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r/AskBiBros 1d ago

Most realistic dildo?

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Hi everyone! My boyfriend recently came to the realization that he is bisexual. He has an interest in giving a blowjob. We are monogamous, so I’m looking to surprise him with a dildo/strapon that he can perform oral on. I know that he would prefer it to be as realistic as possible.

I’ve looked into it a bit, and it seems that dual density is the best. However, I’ve also seen some with sliding skin?

If any of you have recommendations for any that are really realistic, particularly for oral, please lmk! Cost is not an issue - I want to go above and beyond for him :) Thanks!!


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

26M, realizing I'm attracted to women... but only as a woman?

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I'm a cis guy and have always felt comfortable with a pretty masculine identity and presentation.

I've also always been attracted to men. When watching scenes with a man and a woman, I'd only pay attention to the guy. The woman did nothing for me.

Recently, though, I realized that scenes involving two women could be a turn-on. Since then, I've started having fantasies involving women too, but there's a catch: I always imagine myself as one of the women rather than as a man.

I'm curious how to interpret this. Has anyone experienced something similar? Is this more about sexuality, gender, or something else entirely?


r/AskBiBros 1d ago

Advice i’m bi but i think i want to be gay

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r/AskBiBros 2d ago

Question I'm straight, but when I'm horny I'm into dicks but not men in general, am I bi?

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So I'm straight, I'm really into women and have never been into men. But when I'm horny, I'm into dick aswell, however men in general don't attract me even when I'm horny. Would you consider this bi?

And how do you advice living my sexual life like this? Because when I'm horny I just want to jerk another dick off or maybe even suck a dick, hell maybe even get taken by a dick, but I'm just not sexually attracted to men. Would you advice to try something with a man and how?