r/todayilearned 1d ago

TIL that after putting down a military revolt led by three of his sons, King Henry II of England forgave them instantly but imprisoned his wife Eleanor of Aquitaine for sixteen years since she had taken the side of her children in the conflict

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eleanor_of_Aquitaine
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u/Gruselschloss 1d ago

"for sixteen years" in this case means "until Henry II died." She wasn't in a dungeon - functionally house arrest, as I understand it, and subject to Henry's whims about where she was housed. Once he died, she went on to serve as regent alongside the next two kings (i.e., her sons).

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u/decidedlyindecisive 18h ago

Wasn't she also pretty famed for wisdom and general badassery?

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u/karmagirl314 18h ago

Yup. She was also the queen of France for a while but the French king wasn’t man enough for her so she left him and got with Henry.

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u/SecretGardenSpider 17h ago

He divorced her because she didn’t give him sons.

Then when she married her next husband she immediately had a bunch of sons.

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u/karmagirl314 17h ago

Eleanor was the first one to request an annulment but the pope didn’t grant it. So she continued to antagonize Louis by being a badass bitch until he himself begged the pope for sweet release.

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u/ShyguyFlyguy 15h ago

Because its the father that determines the babies gender. I kinda wish they could have known that lol.

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u/V0lirus 12h ago

Its not like men can do a consious effort to only produce or send off only Y-chromosone sperm.

Its just that women always supply X. With men its still a 50/50 chance. As far as I know, theres no science behind what type of gender you produce. Its all just random luck.

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u/blunderbuttbob 11h ago

Studies have shown that stress might be a driving factor behind gender production higher stress individuals produce more girls then boys.

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u/DragonBank 9h ago

That may be the cart leading the horse on this one.

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u/Sunnysidhe 9h ago

If that's true then I must be chill as fuck!

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u/V0lirus 8h ago

Do you have a link for me to read?

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u/blunderbuttbob 3h ago

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5337443/ Not the original case study i read but this is a similar one that also looks into maternal stressors as well.

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u/V0lirus 3h ago

Awesome. That's some interesting research. Thanks for looking it up and sharing it.

The idea sounded farfetched at first to me, but this sounds legit. So thanks for teaching me something new.

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u/lightcanonlybrighten 7h ago

I think it’s called fragile y syndrome or something if you want to look it up.

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u/V0lirus 7h ago

I don't know if you were trying to be a smartypants or just wrong, but what you mentioned definitely ain't it.

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u/Anicebottleofcava 3h ago

So if (hypothetically) I had had 2 sons and wanted better odds of a daughter next time, I just need to up my husbands stress?

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u/AthenasChosen 4h ago

No of course not, yet it was always women being punished for it in history. It was always "her" fault for not bearing sons. Many women were killed because of it, such as in the cases of two of Henry VIII's wives, executed for treason because of his own sperm. Would have been hilarious for these pathetic men to learn it was their fault they weren't having sons.

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u/Percy_Jackson_AOG 4h ago

I get your point, but it’s not his fault. It’s nobody’s fault.

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u/AthenasChosen 4h ago

No I get that, but it certainly wasn't his wives fault who he murdered over it.

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u/V0lirus 4h ago

"Their fault" implies they had any choice in the matter. It's nobodies fault, it's pure luck.

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u/PooShappaMoo 12h ago

I wonder in 100 years who in society would be considered as dumb as those doctors or religious leaders lol.

Eat some marbles. Smoke some of this.

Males like insert some random bullshit lol

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u/Intro-Nimbus 10h ago

Check out RFK junior and donald trump for some bangers.

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u/PooShappaMoo 10h ago

I meant things that were atleast at the time accepted by the majority of people.

Not whatever that crap is lol. Outside that though, yeah. History books will be nifty

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u/Intro-Nimbus 10h ago

I don't think any of your examples was accepted by the majority of the people.
And why are you writing "lol" in every other sentence - is it just filler?

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u/PooShappaMoo 9h ago

Not sure about the lol. Mood im in at the moment i guess.

I mean something that we cant see like vitamin supplements are killing us or something absolutely wild.

Toothpaste is actually bad or were doing it wrong.

Something that seems really far-fetched atm.

Not rfk brain worm trump administration nonsense. Thats just a stain of an embarrassment and if these types of places win who cares about history anyway

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u/Rubix-Pubes 8h ago

Apparently excess vitamin B is bad for us and... It's currently in everything. Dun, dun, DUNNNNN.

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u/lightcanonlybrighten 7h ago

I recently read a thing that a study on flossing got hidden. That it showed people who flossed had way more heart disease or heart attacks or something. That flossing was creating micro tears in your gums which was putting the bad bacteria that cause plaque directly into your bloodstream. I didn’t see the study to be able to critique it.

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u/Bealzebubbles 17h ago

Too bad her sons sucked. One bankrupted England to pay for his crusade, then bankrupted it again to pay for his ransom, in addition to be a general bag of shit and the other one was an idiot who spent his entire adult life prior to becoming king scheming for the throne and then, when he became king, ballsed it up so much that he had to sign the Magna Carta, then tried to fight his barons to overturn it only to shit himself to death. Truly, they were the failingest of fail sons.

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u/Rich-Koala-2593 17h ago

There isn’t any evidence that Richard the Lionheart “bankrupted England” as John was able to raise far more funds during his reign than Richard ever did.

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u/Bealzebubbles 17h ago

I'm being slightly facetious but turning up in England to raid the coffers, before buggering off overseas to fight in a war that benefits England not one jot, then being captured and forced to raid the coffers of England, again, does not, for me, make one a great king of England, despite what the EDL might think.

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u/Lord0fHats 6h ago

Richard was King of England but most of his lands and most of his wealth were in France. At the time of his rule his family owned half of France. The problem here is that you're assuming England was the base of Richard's power; it really wasn't. The base of Richard's power was in Normandy and Anjou.

Richard did bankrupt the royal domain with his wars and, probably moreso, his ransoms because he got caught, but that's not the same thing as 'bankrupting England.' England wasn't particularly well tapped by the English crown at this time. John tapped it hard and harder after Richard because he was losing the base of his domain's real wealth in France in wars with the French Crown, so he relied more and more on trying to extract everything he could from England which turned out... Well you know how it turned out.

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u/Lord0fHats 6h ago

It's also I think a big bugbear at this point to overemphasize England in Richard's rule. Richard was King of England, but he also owned half of France. The Angevin Empire didn't actually care that much about England aside from the fancy crown it let the Plantagenets wear until John lost most of the empire to the French Crown. The English Kings at this time didn't even speak English until John's son Henry III.

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u/riversquidz 5h ago

I wrote my college thesis on this time in England and this sums it up better than anything I wrote

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u/Special_Order-937 10h ago

Royal European history like this is endlessly fascinating, like how people could be kings and queens of different counties in their lifespans like this.

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u/forestNargacuga 10h ago

She was also well know for easily flipping the loyalty of cities from other civilisations

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u/dogangels 1h ago

When you play as her in Civ, just having great works of art in your border cities is enough for neighboring cities to randomly pledge loyalty to you. It’s pretty funny, especially if you’re allied with your neighbors

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u/NetStaIker 5h ago

Modern historiography is pretty united in believing she was heavily over glazed in legends/tales and that she’s just a heavily romanticised ideal of the time period

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u/duaneap 23h ago

Long game.

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u/Rich-Koala-2593 1d ago edited 17h ago

Henry II was a truly great king, perhaps the most brilliant in English history, but he was also a control freak and his inability to manage his family ultimately led to his defeat at the hands of his son Richard the Lionheart and death shortly afterwards. One of Richard’s first actions as king was to send the legendary knight William Marshal to England with instructions that his beloved mother should be freed immediately.

Speaking of William Marshal, as always he had stayed loyal to his king during the conflict and unhorsed Richard in personal combat only for Richard to reward William for his actions as he valued loyalty and wanted men like that around him. William Marshal was probably witness to more Plantagenet temper tantrums than anyone else, he was basically the royal babysitter for three generations.

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u/EmergencySushi 1d ago

I first learned about William Marshal in a TIL in this very sub, a few months ago. The guy’s story is incredible. Really cool customer.

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u/jurassic2010 21h ago

If he was so good, why didn''t he help the Sheriff of Nottinghan to arrest the criminal Robin Hood? Nobody cared about the poor billionares?

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u/EmergencySushi 20h ago

He tried, but he got confused with the boat going from the White Cliffs straight to Sycamore Gap.

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u/Rezart_KLD 20h ago

Strong sense of honor, weak sense of direction 

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u/FrankieTheD 22h ago

Looked into him, dude was leading cavalry charges into his 70s?? What a bad ass

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u/Lord0fHats 1d ago

Fun little YouTube shorts series about him; Wily William Marshal.

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u/m33gapanda 3h ago

I was wondering if my favorite immortal would be mentioned.

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u/Gimme_Your_Wallet 22h ago edited 17h ago

Henry II was also a massive whoremonger, gave Eleanor an STD and developed massive hemorrhoids later in life due to constant horse riding. Source: the bio of Eleanor "April Queen"

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u/karmagirl314 18h ago edited 17h ago

The massive hemorrhoids sounds like something your wife would make up and tell everyone after she caught you cheating.

Henry cheated as much as most other English kings. He also revolutionized the justice system in England, ending “trial by ordeal” ie drowning women to find out if they were witches, and instead introducing standardized common law, jury trials, created writs (like bite-sized pieces of law that commoners could purchase to simplify a legal question, they were the first real means of an accused person or victim could use to defend themselves before defense attorneys were a thing) and lastly he implemented assizes, which were traveling courts overseen by judges that answered to the king, not to the local baron or whomever. He even tried to get the Catholic Church to start abiding by the law, but that led to a whole thing with lots of stabbing and whipping and hair shirts.

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u/Gimme_Your_Wallet 17h ago

Naw he had to use special seats for the latter years of his life. He also limped a lot bc he fell from a horse and the broken femur never healed right.

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u/tunakassirolle 2h ago

He deserved them for what he did to Alys of Vexin.

And for a ton of other women too but poor Alys

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u/VividLifeToday 1d ago

Thank you Colin Robinson. Jk

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u/SecretGardenSpider 17h ago

Richard the Lionheart probably didn’t cause his dad’s infected hemorrhoids.

u/RiddlingVenus0 5m ago

If I could only time travel once, I’d go back to the time of King Henry II just so I could suck on those royal infected hemorrhoids.

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u/crazydragoness 22h ago

I just found out about William Marshal Ether Atlas!

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u/depredador93 23h ago

What gets left out of the TIL is that once Henry died, Eleanor essentially ran the show. She was regent for Richard while he was on crusade and then again for John. 16 years of house arrest and she still outlived and outmaneuvered most of them

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u/jmdg007 22h ago

Didn't realise she had power that long. Then 10 years after she died John had to sign to Magna Carter as well...

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u/Razzmatazz856 21h ago

She was regent for Richard while he was on crusade and then again for John. 16 years of house arrest and she still outlived and outmaneuvered most of them

Considering King John's rule was a giant shit show that ended Capetian control of Normandy, that's not a super accomplishment.

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u/CroneDownUnder 12h ago

She kept John's reign disciplined while she lived. It was after she died that he threw it all away.

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u/Razzmatazz856 6h ago

She was alive for the Treaty of Le Goulet.

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u/PK-Mittenspy2703 7h ago

That happened after she died.

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u/Long-Tap6120 19h ago

It's interesting the Louis King of France and the Henry King of England were igloo brother's in law due to them both marrying Eleanor and having 10 children between them with her.

Political archrivals and hole brothers lol you couldn't make it up

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u/Dog-Witch 11h ago

Well yeah she was sitting at home while they were out fuckin around on horses and doing crusades, that's gonna take a toll.

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u/wem1985 5h ago

She went on the second crusade.

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u/Dog-Witch 4h ago

Says the marriage was annulled afterwards, note to self: don't bring the Mrs on crusade

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u/Viktor_Laszlo 22h ago

After 15 years of marriage to the king of France, she had 2 daughters. When their marriage was annulled and she married Henry II, she had 5 sons.

I remember reading in a chronicle somewhere that she somehow did this on purpose to spite her French husband, which is hilarious to me.

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u/tunakassirolle 22h ago

She and Henry also had 3 daughters for a grand total of 8 living kids, which is definitely pretty impressive considering she didn’t get started on round 2 until she was 29.

I think it’s safe to say that Henry and Eleanor were just a bit more enthusiastic about the whole thing wink wink

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u/swazal 21h ago

Good Lord, she had eight ten kids back when one could likely kill you or die in two years … she deserves the Aquitaine!

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u/tunakassirolle 20h ago

And outlived all but two of them when she finally passed at the ripe old age of 80! Which is like 900 in medieval years lol

Absolutely worthy of the Aquitaine! The OG Boss Bitch 👑

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u/ShelleyTambo 4h ago edited 2h ago

Her first husband had intended to be a priest until his older brother died and was a bit too pious to be enthusiastic that way.

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u/tunakassirolle 2h ago

Me: Oh I didn’t know he had an older brother. I wonder how he died.

Wikipedia: He was killed in a boar hunt.

Me: oh yeah that tracks, medieval times and all.

Wikipedia: Yeah, the boar jumped out from behind this giant pile of poop and tripped his horse, launching Philip into the air and when he landed he broke all of his bones and he died the next day in unimaginable agony.

Me: :O

Wikipedia: Here’s an illuminated manuscript that depicts the event.

Me: oh rad

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philip_of_France_(1116%E2%80%931131)?wprov=sfti1#

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u/hottertime 23h ago

Great movie "Lion in the Winter" Kathryn Hepburn and Peter O'Toole.

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u/kevnmartin 23h ago

Fantastic cast all the way around, Anthony Hopkins, Timothy Dalton and Nigel Stock as William Marshall.

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u/ALoudMeow 2h ago

Of course we have knives, we’re all barbarians!

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u/swazal 1d ago edited 1d ago

“Of course he has a knife. We all have knives. It’s 1183 and we’re barbarians.”

https://youtu.be/Pqz3gkrmBbo (Lion in Winter trailer)

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u/sexisfun1986 1d ago

One of my favourite movies. 

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u/tunakassirolle 23h ago

I’m really fond of Eleanor’s monologue where she reminisces about wearing gold chains on her titties and riding bare chested into Jerusalem. Get it girl.

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u/Overall-Bullfrog5433 1d ago

I have seen that movie a few dozen times and it is a favorite of mine always. But that one line always strikes me so false. I don’t think anyone thinks of their own time as backward and barbaric. It sounds like it now but not at the time.

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u/Cadaverous_Particles 23h ago

Prior to the Renaissance, most Europeans thought of their knowledge and culture as a pale shadow of the Era of Plato and Aristotle. They didn't have faith in their own brains and believed that the knowledge, science and engineering of the past was superior.

As an example, they trusted the writings of Galen, over evidence that they had seen with their own eyes, for 1200 years. The modern scientific revolution was a profoundly important event that changed the worldview from "we will always know less than our ancestors" to "every generation will have more knowledge than the one before".

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u/Specialist_Fish_2582 22h ago

Even more tragic when a lot of Galen's writings are "Why are these charlatans just making things up and ignoring the evidence of their eyes?!" He was big on experimentation and repeatable results, to the benefit of science if not his local stray dog population (it was taboo to dissect dead human bodies at the time).

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u/Emergency_Mine_4455 13h ago

Honestly, if Galen had been able to operate in Alexandria (where dissecting bodies was NOT taboo due to the longstanding religious practice of mummification), medicine might have progressed so much faster.

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u/swazal 23h ago

Love Kate and Peter in anything (My Favorite Year). This was just the snappiest line from the trailer.

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u/_Abe_Froman_SKOC 5h ago

I could peel you like a pear and God himself would call it justice.

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u/FionaOlwen 23h ago

Just watched this for the first time, it was great:)

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u/missplacedbayou 19h ago

My favorite line!

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u/Poopiepants666 1d ago

Wrong link

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u/swazal 1d ago

Hmm … sorry ‘bout that … fixed in OC ?

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u/TastyRamenNoodles 23h ago

Wow! I just watched the film for the first time last week. Katharine Hepburn, Peter O’Toole, a very young Anthony Hopkins, and Timothy Dalton looked like he was 16.

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u/Repuck 23h ago

Also Nigel Terry (later Arthur in Boorman's Excalibur) who played John. John Castle played Geoffrey. He might be a little more niche, but I've always loved his acting.

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u/OverallImportance402 1d ago

Lion in Winter, great movie

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u/Zakath_ 1d ago

There's actually a series of fantasy books based on the life of Henry and his sons, Knight's Ransom is the first one. They're good, not great, but I did enjoy them a bit more once I realized who they were inspired by. The main character there is based on William Marshal.

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u/Rich-Koala-2593 1d ago

The more I read about William Marshal, the more I realize he was truly the main character.

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u/EsquilaxM 23h ago

Oh cool. I see in the premise of book 1 the parallels with Marshall. Turns out the series is set in the same world as his previous series. I hope I check them out sometime (my backlog is huuuge)

Edit: wait is this series a prequel to the first?

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u/Zakath_ 14h ago

It is, yes. You can read them separately, but you notice some things overlap. I think most of his books are in the same setting tbh, just different places.

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u/Astrium6 23h ago

The princes try to coup you and you just have to think,
“I would have done the same at their age.”

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u/howescj82 17h ago

IIRC she held Aquitaine PERSONALLY and brought it to the marriage so if she was working against him then keeping her under his thumb meant keeping Aquitaine.

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u/theartfulcodger 22h ago edited 50m ago

The brilliant movie The Lion In Winter (Peter O’Toole, Katherine Hepburn) is about their surprisingly wistful, tender and affectionate relationship during this period. Also appearing is a very young (and slimy) Anthony Hopkins. Won 3 Oscars.

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u/faceintheblue 4h ago edited 56m ago

Watch The Lion in Winter starring Katherine Hepburn, Peter O'Toole, Anthony Hopkins (in his film debut), and Timothy Dalton (in his film debut!), among others.

Henry II celebrates Christmas with his sons, the new King of France, and his wife Eleanor, who he lets out of prison for the holidays. Everyone is plotting against everyone else, and everyone gets a scene-stealing monologue. It is movie of titans!

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u/HuoLongHeavy 5h ago

Eleanor essentially took the bullet because she ran basically everything while the men of her family were the face. And this bullet was less prison, and more she got to live in a castle for 16 years. Because that's what royalty got.

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u/Sniperkitten42 23h ago

Cheaper than another divorce.

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u/Creticus 22h ago

Henry's control of Aquitaine rested on his marriage to Eleanor, so that wouldn't have been worth it.

I've read an argument that him treating Aquitaine as a permanent subordinate part of his empire was what prompted Eleanor to back her sons in their rebellion.

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u/GarconMeansBoyGeorge 23h ago

I don’t think they were divorcing yet. we had to get through 5 more Henries first

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u/tunakassirolle 23h ago edited 23h ago

Ackshually! ☝️🤓 Eleanor of Aquitaine got an annulment from her first husband (Louis VII, King of France) in order to marry (the slightly younger and definitely hotter) Henry II.

This was funny because she had to get a special dispensation from Da Pope, and her grounds for annulment were that she and Louis were third cousins* so they shouldn’t have married in the first place.

Which just makes her marriage to cousin to the third degree* Henry II that much funnier.

*Edit: I looked it up. Eleanor and Louis were third cousins once removed, while she and Henry were cousins to the third degree and related via two different ancestors.

**Louis VII was cool with this because at the time Eleanor was only popping out girls and Henry II was just some backwater nobody. He ended up pulling a Henry VIII and had like 3 more wives before finally getting his heir. Whoops.

I just love the Plantagenets you guys they are so wacky

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u/Joy2b 22h ago

Was this the same pope who had to give a specially blessed bed as a delayed wedding gift, because the pious groom hadn’t supplied an heir, and would not agree to sex around holy days?

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u/tunakassirolle 21h ago edited 21h ago

Oh my god let me google that!!

(Seriously if yall aren’t reading the Wikipedia pages for these guys you are missing out they are bananas lol)

Edit: It was!! But it was actually Eugene III’s attempt at marriage counseling for Louis and Eleanor, and supposedly their second daughter was conceived in the special Pope bed. But geeze how embarrassing for the Literal Pope to have to tell you to bang your wife AND provide the actual bed too big yikes

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u/GarconMeansBoyGeorge 23h ago

I learned something and I appreciate that. But still it wasn’t the English king getting divorced.

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u/tunakassirolle 22h ago

Nope, but their son King John (of England) did get an annulment from his marriage to Isabella of Gloucester so he could marry the twelve year old Isabella of Angoulême. Which, if you remember Prince John from any Robin Hood stories, is pretty on brand for the guy 😬

But that was the last time an English king got divorced until Henry VIII, so I learned something today too!

History is cool :D

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u/dualCalibur 23h ago

Da Pope? Is r/nfcnorthmemewar leaking?

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u/tunakassirolle 23h ago

Lmao good catch!! To clarify: this was a normal run of the mill European Pope, not the Wordle-loving Chicago Pope traveling back in time handing out annulments for funzies. That was my bad 😆

Edit: I looked it up and this particular pope was Eugene III. Can’t believe someone voluntarily changed their name to Eugene but there ya go lol

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u/Modred_the_Mystic 1d ago

Just dudes being bros, I guess

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u/Fetlocks_Glistening 1d ago

I mean the Lady in waiting was waiting, weren't she

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u/Kimber80 1d ago

Blood first

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u/EvaSirkowski 12h ago

Eleanor did nothing wrong.

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u/sqeeezy 9h ago

Rumored at the time that she shagged Saladin while on a crusade with her husband Louis VII, so apparently seen at that time as a bit of a go-er, deffo not a prude, Great woman.

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u/Fortestingporpoises 22h ago

Bros being Bros.

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u/Myrzga 12h ago

Did you also watch the she wolves documentary last night? 

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u/yepiyep 10h ago

The mother of Richard lion heart who barely spent two years in the country.

I highly recommend listening to the you're dead to me podcast episode about Eleanor (Aliénor) of Aquitaine. 

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u/Lord0fHats 6h ago

It makes sense when you consider that England was paradoxically not that important to the Kings of England who were also the rulers of half of France. Through Eleanor the family owned Aquitaine in Southern France, while their line inherited Normandy and Anjou and close relatives ruled Britany and owned the main family fealty. Henry, Richard, and John were Kings via England, but they ruled half of France, and their French lands were far far more important to their wealth and power than England and under regular threat due to the inconvenience that the Kings of England were also French lords who owed fealty to the King of France, which made the whole situation a firecracker.

Contextually, it's not shocking at all that Richard spent little time in England and didn't even speak English. England wasn't actually that important for him aside from the chair and the hat.

The only reason John and the Kings after him actually spent more time in England was because they fucked up, lost half of France, and had to live there because it was the only place left XD Then they kind of go half of France back a century later and then they fucked it up again England Kings have a really bad track record at holding lands in France XD

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u/awhq 6h ago

Or because he was tired of her and wanted someone else?

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u/roirraWedorehT 2h ago

"The Lion in Winter" (1968?) is excellent and includes among many of those well known, Anthony Hopkins and Nigel Terry (King Arthur from Excalibur) as two of the sons.

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u/ALoudMeow 2h ago

See The Lion in Winter.

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u/lifesnofunwithadhd 9h ago

The boys are king material, that's a good thing to have. The wife, not so much.