I have been listening to Out of Time a lot this week, really appreciating the depth and beauty on this album.
I find Out of Time to be an incredibly beautiful album that holds together really well despite being so varied. The songwriting is outstanding. It never comes out as a favourite album for me but that's only because they have so many others that top it. But it still really is incredibly good. I wonder if it gets overlooked because it's easy to let the biggest singles define it. Like most great albums, the singles feel different within the context of the whole album than as individual songs.
Michael Stipe said at the time that it was all love songs and he talked about the lack of “intelligent” love songs in pop culture. He's said in interviews much later on that they weren't really love songs, he just said that for something to say. But he had a point. I count 6 love songs on the track listing, which is loads for R.E.M. (By ‘love songs’ I mean songs that are about romantic love, but also sex, desire, affairs, so not necessarily *love* but non-platonic.)
Low, Country Feedback, Losing My Religion etc are not like many love songs you hear, either in 1991 or now, really. They are the opposite of pop songs full of (often very gendered) cliches. (Which can be fun! But never been a thing that R.E.M. does, which is probably why hearing them cover Superman throws me a bit every time I hear it, because to me it feels like exactly that type of song.)
The 60s influence is all over this album and that intrigues me too. I have read Stipe talking about how his education about sex and relationships when he was younger came from the spirit of the 60s, ‘free love’, and sex outside of the stigma and shame of previous decades… and then the 80s, AIDs, and Reagan happened and that all got ripped away from people who had only just got to experience it.
I have no idea if Stipe had any of this in his mind, consciously or otherwise, when he wrote these lyrics in response to the sound of that music. But that's what it makes me think about. Musically, it evokes the 60s, including the joyful sugary sounds, and then there's this sombre melancholy that hangs over it all, especially the Stipe lyrics. Even the upbeat shiny pop songs have a shadow hanging over them. It's like nostalgia for something that maybe was never real in the first place.
I don't mean to say that the songs literally are about any of that, but more that the sideways look sex and relationships against a backdrop of a very 60s sound might be where some of the yearning melancholy comes from.
(Thanks anyone who made it all the way down to the end of my middle of the night ramblings!).