r/justdependathings Mar 27 '24

What do you want out of this sub?

61 Upvotes

We've seen the complaints about certain posts. I would like to hear directly from the community what they want/don't want want to see on the subreddit.

Edit: and yes, I know we want to see dependas get dragged. This is more to see what you want to see get moderated. Do you want us to be super strict and delete posts that are even the least bit not dependa content? Or do you want us mods to only step in when absolutely needed? How about things like AI generated content?


r/justdependathings 11d ago

Need advice/help

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My boyfriend enlisted in the marines. I’m still in high school and he graduated this past May. I don’t know what to do, im veeery new to this experience I guess I could call it that. After high school I plan to either become a cosmetologist or attend college and get my AAS degree and then take a program to become a radiology technician. Which will probably take about 2.5 years total, I don’t know how to feel about the enlisting I feel very blank, I just don’t like how I’ll be here when he’ll be somewhere far and I won’t see him much. I just don’t know, I don’t know how to handle this at all.


r/justdependathings 15d ago

Welcome home deployment banners help

136 Upvotes

To set the scene, my husband and I were both Marines in the 2000s when people would put deployment banners all along the base fences. My husband for some reason recently joined the national guard and he's been deployed and should be coming back soon and I really really really want to make a really cheesy dependa welcome home banner to fuck with him but I need ideas.

Some thoughts have included things like:

"Look Who Finally Came Home to His Tricare Beneficiary"

With the ole "his boots her flops" bumper sticker, but I wanna see what other fun stuff I can throw up there.

Give me your best dependa return banner ideas he can laugh at pleeease!


r/justdependathings 16d ago

Toughest job in the world

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227 Upvotes

r/justdependathings 19d ago

A Dependa in Paris

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1.9k Upvotes

r/justdependathings 22d ago

Does it count if the dependa begs for free tickets to a concert?

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520 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Jun 19 '26

MRSA01

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126 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Jun 15 '26

AI dependa-slop

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2.2k Upvotes

This came up on my wife's Facebook feed. I don't think we've considered the absolute gold mine AI slop presents for our favorite military dependents, folks


r/justdependathings May 07 '26

Dependa supporter

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OP posted that her husband just left for basic.

I can't post the screenshot, don't know how but it read 'thank you both for your service'.


r/justdependathings Apr 29 '26

No way we have dependas in a 25 year old Medieval point and click game

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556 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Apr 26 '26

Beautiful Day For A Walk

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r/justdependathings Apr 19 '26

Putting myself out there

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437 Upvotes

Hey all! I put this in the military spouse sub but I wanted to get your tips on how to avoid being a dependa. Let me know if I missed anything and please let me know when/if it’s appropriate to ask for a discount.


r/justdependathings Mar 31 '26

I get being proud, but this made me giggle. It’s just the beginning

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109 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Mar 26 '26

Taking “my husband’s job is my personality” to a whole new level

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827 Upvotes

Unfortunately she deleted all of her videos with her riding along with her police officer husband, so we only have this.


r/justdependathings Mar 12 '26

Apparently oil wife dependas are a thing

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921 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Mar 01 '26

Lineman wife ❤️

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444 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Feb 23 '26

active-duty military spouse experiences discrimination at a cat cafe

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446 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Feb 16 '26

Found my first in the wild! This woman’s husband was in the military. Not her.

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2.4k Upvotes

r/justdependathings Jan 30 '26

I’m sorry, what? (on a digital library app group)

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151 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Jan 28 '26

Lineman dependas are a thing?

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1.5k Upvotes

r/justdependathings Jan 27 '26

Wake up babe, new dependa just dropped

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281 Upvotes

r/justdependathings Jan 17 '26

Gross

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r/justdependathings Dec 16 '25

So much cringe…

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198 Upvotes