I posted here a few times the past couple of weeks, looking for any kind of advice or similar experiences from others. I guess it’s hard to find because everyone’s experience is so very different with this, I’ve gone through endless posts of takedown stories some good some great some not so good. Well here’s mine so far
I had the takedown surgery on 11/06/26 so a month ago almost. Before the op I had gained a decent amount of weight, had been building up muscle with weights for months prior to make sure I was in the best shape possible. Knowing that from previous surgeries I was susceptible to an ileus (with a lot of weight loss). The day of the surgery went well, the operation however was apparently a difficult one since my bowel was pretty glued to the abdominal wall when they were taking down the stoma, they managed in the end though
Then I spent a week with a ileus, to be expected for me. That eventually started to resolve, I was tolerating liquids and then they started me on soft food, a little mash etc. I was passing a lot too, going to the bathroom every 20 minutes or so. Then after 9 days they decided to discharge me
I got home and this is where things went wrong, as soon as I got home I stopped passing anything. I was also starting to eat a bit more too. I started to bloat out and feel sick, so I went back to hospital. They admitted me and did a scan, the scan showed I was distended and stuff was backed up to where the ileostomy was rejoined (an obstruction of some sort)
I spent the next 8 days here nil by mouth as they gave the bowel a chance to recover, then started slowly with nutrition again. In this time I lost a considerable amount of weight I think down to 52kg from 57. Again the same story, started liquids was ok then started soft food and seemed ok, no significant pain. But again I wasn’t passing much, anyhow they discharged me again
What happens.. the same thing again, bloating and pain but this time the pain was horrible. I come back in, admitted again, scanned again and the same thing, distended and backed up. They thought the join of the ileostomy was swollen and wasn’t allowing content through, so again they gave me some time to see if this resolves. They built up nutrition again, now trying some puréed food. The doctor I saw this time told me to eat as much as I can and not to worry… my surgeon later said this was obviously the worst advice. Nothing came out and the pain just got worse and worse. This intense cramping and bulging pain that went through to my back
Now my weight was dropping off, down to 47kg. After days of agony I started to pass stuff again and tolerate liquid, now my surgeon saw me and said I have to stay on a liquid diet for 10 days. He said it’s either swelling of the join, which would hopefully resolve on its own or it’s a kink in the bowel. If in the next week the pain isn’t better and I’m not tolerating increasing nutrition then they are going to have to operate to see what’s going on
It’s been rough the last two operations but jheeez I thought the takedown was the smoothest part, it sucks. Now I’m probably less than 45kg, bed bound at home with daily nurse visits. I just hope this resolves soon, a month without nutrition is no fun
That’s my takedown story, for now. I appreciate the support from those who have commented on my previous posts, it’s a difficult road this but will get there, eventually