r/hyperlexia • u/Pheefus • 14d ago
"Dad, why are sounds invisible words?"
My 7yo daughter was reading at around her 1st birthday but didn't really talk for about two more years and wasn't responsive at all to verbal prompting as a toddler, etc. It was only about two or three years ago that she started to be able to respond to even just yes/no multiple-choice questions, and carrying on an open-ended back-and-forth is still a relatively recent thing, but her verbal skills have been improving by leaps and bounds lately.
Anyway, she just asked me "Dad, why are sounds invisible words?" and for some reason it really struck me and made me think about how far she's come. For someone who's first approach to language as a baby was through the lens of reading/writing rather than speaking/listening, this seemed to be a really insightful question from the other side of the coin. Like she's just starting to make the connection that the spoken word is actually just another form of the rich world of written words that've framed her life to this point. It made me want to find some newer parents of younger hyperlexic kids who might be struggling to connect with their non-verbal child and just offer up this hopeful little anecdote from a few years down the road.