So I've spent most of my career building market and operational risk models. On the insurance side we model risk using fat tailed distributions, we model tail co-dependence across assets and disregard anything gaussian or linear. Eventually what matters is how bad a year can really get and what can break our financial position.
I have seen the commercial software financial advisors use such as emoney, Right Capital, riskanalyze etc. and thinking whether any of these tools take risk seriously the way institutions do (fat tails, copulas, interdependencies, probabilities of loss, probability of ruin, VaR etc). If not what software do advisors use to quantify risk?