r/cedarrapids Jan 22 '26

Guide: Making Friends in Cedar Rapids

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(Guide brought to you by an extremely cold wine-induced winter night in! Special thanks to Grammarly and too much time on my hands.)

I’ve noticed a lot of posts lately from folks asking how to make friends around here. Completely understandable. Nobody really prepares you for that part once you’re out of school. Back then, you had classes, clubs, sports… all those built‑in ways to meet people without trying. Adulthood doesn’t come with that.

I’ve been there myself. When you’re young and just getting started, you don’t always have kids or a routine, and sometimes you haven’t even had time to figure out what your interests actually are. Again, a lot of variables, and none of them make it easy.

That said, I’m genuinely excited to see more people moving into the Cedar Rapids area. This place is highly underrated. Hard to go wrong with a community that keeps growing while still feeling approachable. For what it’s worth, I’m an Iowa transplant myself. It took some time, but I’ve built a community here that fits me perfectly. At this point I don’t really want to leave. So I figured I’d put together a simple guide — nothing fancy, just what’s worked for me and others I know.

One more thing worth mentioning before getting into the suggestions: money can be a real roadblock when you’re young or just starting out. Completely understandable. Not everyone has the budget for memberships or weekly outings. The good news is that there are plenty of low‑cost ways to meet people here. Sometimes you don’t need to spend anything at all.

Speaking of which, let’s dive into it!

1. Find where people gather for the thing you already like

It sounds almost too simple, but it works. If you show up somewhere built around an interest you already have, you’re walking in with two advantages:

  1. You share a common interest
  2. Everyone there had enough motivation to get up and go do that thing

Those two pieces take a lot of pressure off. Commonalities are a great bonding mechanism. You don’t have to force anything or pretend to be someone you’re not. Just be genuine. People pick up on that more than you’d think.

2. Show up to low‑pressure, low‑cost community events

Cedar Rapids has a surprising number of casual events where you can just show up, walk around, and talk to people if it feels right. Farmers' markets, art nights, small festivals, library events — nothing high‑stakes. You’re not committing to anything, and you’re not stuck if the vibe isn’t for you. It’s an easy way to get a feel for the community and meet people who are also out and about.

Another option that works surprisingly well is group fitness classes. Yoga, CrossFit, Orange Theory, Zumba — anything where people are doing the same workout together. They can get a little spendy depending on the place, so it’s not always the cheapest route, but the social side has it's positives. It’s a lot easier to meet people in a class setting than in the general gym area, where everyone’s doing their own thing with headphones in.

3. Volunteer for something you actually care about

Volunteering is one of the easiest ways to meet people who share your values. You’re all working toward the same goal, which takes a lot of the awkwardness out of starting conversations. Plus, most organizations are happy to have extra hands, and it doesn’t cost anything. It’s a win all around.

4. Join hobby groups, meetups, or casual leagues

You don’t need to be an expert at anything. Most groups around here are pretty welcoming to beginners. Whether it’s board games, running, hiking, crafting, or rec‑league sports, the whole point is to show up and have fun. And again, you’re walking in with a built‑in common interest, which makes things a lot easier.

Sometimes that means getting a little outside your comfort zone. Not in a dramatic way — just enough to try something new or explore a hobby you’ve been curious about. You never know what’s going to click until you give it a shot, and half the people you meet are probably trying something new themselves.

5. Start small conversations when you’re already out

You don’t have to launch into a full conversation with a stranger. A quick comment about the weather, the line, the event, or whatever’s happening around you is enough. If the other person wants to talk, they’ll take it from there. If not, no harm done. It’s a low‑pressure way to practice being open without forcing anything.

6. Follow up without overthinking it

If you meet someone you click with, send a quick message or suggest meeting up again. Nothing formal. Something like, “Hey, it was fun talking the other day — want to check out ___ sometime?” Most people appreciate the initiative. And if they’re not interested, that’s okay. You’re not starting from zero; you’re building momentum.

7. Don’t underestimate consistency

You don’t have to be everywhere all the time. Just pick one or two things you enjoy and show up regularly. Familiar faces turn into casual conversations, and casual conversations turn into friendships. It’s slow, but it works. And it’s worth saying out loud: friendships are relationships. Just like any relationship, they take some work, time, and investment. Not in a heavy or overwhelming way — just enough to show you care and that you’re willing to show up. That effort goes a long way

Starter List of Activities in the Cedar Rapids Area (in no particular order)

  1. Join employer networking groups (ENGs/ERGs/BRGs/JEDIs/DEIBs, etc.) and extracurriculars that match your interests
  2. Newbo City Market Events - Bingo, Yoga, Community Events, Cooking Classes
  3. Volunteering with the CR Farmers Market
  4. ImpactCR - Connect and grow with other like-minded young professionals
  5. Kirkwood Hobby Classes
  6. Cedar Rapids Curling - Offers both single and session classes
  7. Ultimate Frisbee - Not sure if they're still active, tbh.
  8. CR Library Events
  9. MeetUp - Various Events
  10. CR Book Club
  11. Improv classes! - Great way to meet people and become better at networking, small talk, and confidence
  12. TCR Classes
  13. Drop-in Play: Tennis & Pickleball
  14. Pickle Palace Leagues
  15. Join a League with Cedar Rapids Sport & Social Club as a Free Agent
  16. (Volleyball) Volley's Leagues
  17. (Volleyball) Sandlot Leagues
  18. CR Parks & Rec Softball
  19. CR Parks & Rec Program list - Just to save you a click!
  20. CR metro YMCA Programs and Classes - Includes Marion YMCA
  21. First Turn Games - Get your nerd on with TCG, Mini-fig, and boardgame nights and competitions
  22. Browse Facebook Events - I understand the hate, and that not everyone has and uses FB. However, the Events section is great for finding local happenings.
  23. Bicycle Rides organized by The Sag Wagon
  24. Join a Bowling League
  25. Join a Whiskey Club
  26. Join a Running Club
  27. Join the Disc Golf community
  28. Learn to dance: TC Dance - Ballroom & Social styles
  29. Learn to dance: Ballroom of Eastern Iowa - Ballroom & Social styles
  30. Learn to dance: Dance Academy - More formal styles (Jazz, Tap, Ballet)

Remember, Google can be your friend in this situation. Cedar Rapids is a busy, active city when you put in a little bit of effort to see what’s out there. There’s more going on than most people realize once you start looking. Maybe I'll see you around!

Bonus Read: My previous comment for a list of things to do


r/cedarrapids 49m ago

Good tenderloin?

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Where is CR can I get a good tenderloin?

Thanks so much!


r/cedarrapids 7h ago

Hashimotos Doctor

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I was recently diagnosed and am having trouble finding a doctor that actually seems to understand this disease and treat it more than just throwing you on Levothyroxine. Anyone else with this autoimmune that has found a good doctor?


r/cedarrapids 27m ago

Warning: crash on 1st Ave NE at 19th St NE

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90's model full size car was totalled. power pole down.


r/cedarrapids 1d ago

Flock Lied About its ALPR technology. What Else Has It Lied About?

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There are around 70 of these all over Cedar Rapids.


r/cedarrapids 7h ago

Mechanic Recommendations?

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Hey guys. My truck has started to squeak and I was looking around for a good shop to perform a, hopefully inexpensive, suspension inspection. My budget is definitely more in the DIY realm right now, and I wouldn't mind being more hands on with my vehicles, but I am not sure how to figure out where the squeak is coming from and thought it would be good to have a tech take a look so I have a better chance of not replacing the wrong parts or at least be able to make a more informed plan for the repair.
Does anyone have any suggestions on who to call?


r/cedarrapids 21h ago

I’mOff ImOn Fiber

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Got the flyer months ago that construction would start in my area. They then did the construction and I haven’t seen the trucks around recently.
Anyone have and insider info on when this is going to go live? I asked Imon customer support for residential they said they have no timeline.. nice
NE side.


r/cedarrapids 1d ago

Interesting things to do throughout the week?

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Just moved here for my first corporate job out of college. I’m in my mid 20s, living alone. Really looking for social gatherings/events to do not just on the weekends but also the weekdays if possible.

For personal interests I’m into board games, video games, volleyball, biking, hiking, and any kind of music or theater. I’m from the QC originally, so don’t have an existing group of friends here in CR to hang out with. Most of my coworkers have a close knit group of friends or are married with kids. Thus, my first month here has felt kinda lonely tbh.

People have recommended Facebook groups and the CR webpage but wondering if there’s any other location where events could be found. That or if there’s any lesser known events.


r/cedarrapids 7h ago

Why do we allow this train bullshit?

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Is there nothing the city can (or will) do about having a train just randomly coming to a stop THREE times, as it is presumably dropping cars or something, right in the middle of the day? It's just kind of ridiculous that you can just be trying to get to appointments or whatever, and with no notice have to come to a stop for FIFTEEN minutes. Is there nowhere else they can perform this action besides right across downtown? It's exasperating. My doctor's office was still able to see me, but it was VERY close.


r/cedarrapids 1d ago

Deck builders

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Anybody have any recommendations for good deck builders? House, obviously. Not boat decks.

Looking to replace my existing wooden deck with that composite wood stuff.

Hopefully a builder who does financing as well.


r/cedarrapids 2d ago

Supercell rolling in

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r/cedarrapids 22h ago

Ragers is taking over!

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r/cedarrapids 2d ago

Possibly looking at a job change in Cedar Rapids as a New Mexico native.

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Hello everyone! I may be looking to move in the future and Cedar Rapids is a top pick. I’m a test engineer by trade and looking into how life in New Mexico differs from life living in Iowa. I’m an Albuquerque resident and New Mexican by birth.


r/cedarrapids 2d ago

22nd best run city in the Nation?

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I guess CR is the 22 best run city in the Nation. Education and Pollution being are lowest ranks with financial stability, safety, economy and health ranking the highest.

Source: https://wallethub.com/edu/best-run-cities/22869


r/cedarrapids 2d ago

What's a typical buyers agent compensation in Cedar Rapids?

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We selected an agent we intend to sign with and their compensation in their agreement is 3.5% so more than the 3% we were expecting. It's in reality not a huge difference but wanted to see if this rate is common in Cedar Rapids or if it's going to catch sellers off guard so we should plan to cover part of our buyers agents fee when negotiating with sellers.


r/cedarrapids 1d ago

T-mobile fiber?

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I've seen some T-mobile fiber trucks in the area. Does anyone know anything about them building a network here? Hoping for more competition!


r/cedarrapids 1d ago

Cheap wedding ideas

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We want to get married quickly in the next few months by November I know this isn’t ideal but does anyone have ideas on the cheapest venues to check out and call around to? I’m having a hard time coming up with ideas and Google isn’t a friend with this. Is my idea for a reception in the next couple months completely out there?

Might check out the new Morgan creek lodge too.


r/cedarrapids 1d ago

40K Minis

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Is there a shop in CR where I can purchase a few World Eaters or any other minis for my Warhammer fix?


r/cedarrapids 2d ago

Post Office

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Does anyone know if the self serve kiosk is always open or is it closed with the post office? specifically the downtown USPS


r/cedarrapids 2d ago

What Are They Building?

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Does anyone know what’s being built on the SW corner of Hwy 13 and County Home Rd next to the Solid Waste Agency?


r/cedarrapids 3d ago

Cant find work

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I cant find work, i have a part time job that is going nowhere and no hours. Bad relationship with my family, nowhere to go. Im at my wits ends many interviews but nothing all dead ends. All i have is my car, i live with him hes not like physically abusive but this relationship sucks and he knows i have nowhere to go and takes advantage of thats for sure. Anyone have job leads in the area or advice


r/cedarrapids 3d ago

Question about getting employed at the Kirkwood Hotel

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Hello,

I'm hoping to work at the Kirkwood Hotel and would appreciate some advice.

I applied and was contacted the next day to schedule an interview. After the interview, I was told I should hear back by the following Wednesday. However, I never received a response.

A day later, I called the hotel's main number to check on the status of my application. They transferred me to the HR manager, but it went to voicemail, so I left a message.

A few days after I applied, I noticed they reposted what appears to be the same job on their website, except the title now includes "August Start Dates - Back to School." The original job posting is still listed as well.

Does that repost mean anything about the original position? For example, could it mean the original opening has already been filled, or is it just a new posting for the same role and if I didn't land the job originally, can I apply for that one too?

Also, is it normal for employers to miss the timeline they gave after an interview? This would be my first job, so I'm not sure what to expect.

The application confirmation email also said: "If you are not selected, we'll notify you within 6–8 weeks."

If I still haven't heard anything after about two weeks, should I assume I wasn't selected, or is it common for the hiring process to take longer?

If they do contact me with a decision or a job offer, how do they usually reach out? Do they typically call, send an email to my personal email address, use my Kirkwood email, or notify people through the careers portal?

Finally, would it be appropriate to contact them again if I still don't hear anything? If so, would it be better to email or call, and should I contact the HR manager directly or go through the hotel's main number?

I'd really appreciate any advice. Since this would be my first job, I'm trying to make sure I handle the follow-up professionally and would like to hear anyone who has been employed here.


r/cedarrapids 3d ago

Veridian VS Dupaco VS Collins

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Looking to open a new account with a credit union in town. I just moved to Cedar Rapids to start my first job after graduating college. Here’s a little background on my financial situation:

- Looking to build up my credit (have never used a credit card up until now, been mainly waiting until I start working). Last I checked my credit score was about average (670 ish).

- Only debt I have is federal student loans

- Don’t own a car. Still deciding whether I want to finance one or buy outright, so whichever one of these is best for auto loans is the one I’d be interested in

- Am single with no kids, not planning on having any for a long time.

I’m trying to decide between Dupaco, Veridian, and Collins. I hear mixed opinions about each. Some say Dupaco is great while others praise Collins. Just wondering what might be the best option for me personally given my background. Thank you.


r/cedarrapids 2d ago

Transplantee Looking for Barber

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r/cedarrapids 3d ago

EMS/Fire Meet-ups or friend groups

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Are there any EMS/Fire friend groups or meetups in Cedar Rapids? My husband was a paramedic 13 years, we’re newish in town, and he’s been missing his EMS family.

Just wondering if there’s a place/restaurant/pub where EMS folks frequent. Thanks in advance for any recommendations!