I was asked to cook for and “host” a 20 person dinner party at an acquaintances house this Sunday. They requested Italian and to basically be fully hands off. I’ve agreed and have started prepping. I have some general questions about the flow and any recommendations from the pros who’ve done this many times. I’ll have full rein of their kitchen for the day too. I also don’t know anyone who I could even ask to help me with dishes or anything so it’ll just be me.
I’m planning on semi plated family style. I’m realizing that I’m gonna have to have sooooo many dishes/platters now to spread the courses to both sides of the table. Here’s my menu:
6 pm - Basically a lavender Paloma spritz, sugar free. I’ll have them batched in a pitcher and also about 20 glasses poured and garnished for guests when they arrive at 6. Something I can set and let guests serve themselves while I finish dishes.
\*\*\* wondering about the ice situation. Regular ice cubes? Should I make the effort of doing molded ice spheres or cubes? Using short rocks glasses.
Apps: will be assembled and available before dinner
\-prosciutto wrapped melon w basil & balsamic
\- possibly mini caprese skewers
\-sundried tomato fried polenta round w pesto & goat cheese
\-2 stations on table for crusty/focaccia bread w oil & garlic confit
7 pm - planning on plating a tomato basil bisque and ceasar salad immediately before guests sit.
\*\*\*this is where I need the most help. Do I let guests finish this course then clear plates, THEN start bringing out family style platters for the table. Or do I put it all out before guests sit and be done while I have the space. This is what I have planned but with 20 people and splitting each course for each end of the table, this seems like a lot of running back and forth. Should I plan on splitting dishes across? Ex. A baked chicken Marsala for each of the table?
And is it awkward literally leaning over the table to set food in front of everyone. Or do I embrace the family style aspect of it and can “explain” each dish as I set it out. The kitchen is steps from the table, but I worry by the time I set every thing out food will be cold.
Soup: \* plated per person before dinner
\-tomato basil bisque
Salad:
\-Classic ceasar salad, lots of parm & breadcrumbs
Pasta:
\-pappardelle with wild mushroom, tomato & white wine.
Main:
\-Red wine braised short ribs - 20
\-Baked chicken Marsala w Penne
Side:
\-Roasted broccolini w lemon & garlic
Dessert:
\-cookie cake. Chocolate chip with vanilla bean buttercream. 3 tier. \* cookie cake requested.
Appreciate any input!