r/bigdickconversation 29d ago

SITUATION Fairytale Posts

37 Upvotes

Thank you everyone who enjoy this sub and are honest in all their post. We have been seeing a lot more questionable posts that seem more like BS fetish stories. Please be honest in your posts. This is a place to discuss your manhood and to be proud of it as well as discuss issues. The MODs on here are well endowed too and can easily figure out if an experience or story is just a bunch of BS. If it’s presumed to be a fairytale post created by a LARPer then it will be questioned and likely deleted. I don’t want this sub to turn into some fetish sub full of unrealistic experiences.


r/bigdickconversation 2h ago

QUESTION How do you feel in size conversations?

2 Upvotes

When you are in a group and the dick size topic comes up, how do you feel? Do you like it, love it, despise it, you don't mind? What are you thinking? Do you comment or stay mute? Do you want to get asked or go unnoticed? Etc.


r/bigdickconversation 4h ago

QUESTION This Sub’s Relationship Demographics

3 Upvotes

Just curious.

60 votes, 2d left
Single, never married
In a relationship, not married
Married
Divorced
Open relationship / poly

r/bigdickconversation 12h ago

QUESTION Educational BD content creators

3 Upvotes

I'm curious if you've come across any content creators that focus on "how to use your big cock" online? People talk about A-/P-Spots on online forums etc. but vast majority of time adult content is just porn and even with ones like JackandJill where they do seem to have genuinely a good time, it's still a show and definitely not educational.

I did come across a channel on the hub about cunnilingus etc. that had actually educational focus but it'd be nice to see some about working with a BD regarding angles, even to know she's ready etc etc


r/bigdickconversation 13h ago

QUESTION Would you trade being above average for a more convenient life?

4 Upvotes

Being above average is often seen as only a positive thing, but I’m curious about the other side of the conversation. There can be practical inconveniences that people don’t usually think about until they experience them.
If you had the choice to keep things exactly as they are or trade it for an average size and a more convenient everyday life, what would you choose and why?

70 votes, 6d left
Never, I like it
Probably not, but I understand the downsides
Maybe, convenience matters
Yes, absolutely

r/bigdickconversation 11h ago

QUESTION Confidence?

3 Upvotes

Hello. I'm not sure if I belong here, but I'll give it a shot.

So I've never really known myself to be a super big guy, or anything. All I've known is that I'm not small.

My size is 6.7x5.7, NBP. Bone-pressed I'm 7.

I know that, statistically, mine should be bigger than most. I have always struggled with feeling like it is inadequate.

Before you ask: No, I don't watch porn. Yes, I have a life, with hobbies and friends. Yes, I exercise. No, I don't have problems getting it up. Still, for years, I've always struggled with having the confidence that I see so many people with the same size, sometimes smaller than me, have. For some reason, I see myself as having a micro. I can't stand it. It's in my subconscious.

I have good photos of it. The people I hook up with say its big. I struggle with receiving BJs. All that nasty, TMI shit. None of it is good enough, though. I always feel like a fraud when thinking about it, or when people comment about it. The small spark of confidence it does give me dies after a few minutes. I never have that steady relaxation, that certainty.

I probably sound stupid, but can anyone here help? Anyone here that maybe has the same problem, or had the same problem?


r/bigdickconversation 21h ago

QUESTION Girth measurement

1 Upvotes

So i resize today , and i found that my dick size is 7L 6 G inches , but the point is where do size the girth , when i measuer it from the bottom the size is 6.5

Also i know my dick size i cool and everything , but the sad part is i never been with any woman and i may stay like that for the next 10 years , its tradition stuf , i would not be able to feel if mine realy big


r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

QUESTION FWB apps?

2 Upvotes

Just got out of yet another lackluster relationship, in my late 40’s, but in shape and packing 8.5”. Looking to switch to more of FWB situations. Any reviews for Feeld/Tinder to find size queens for a straight guy?


r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

QUESTION Boyfriend keeps asking if I am hard

0 Upvotes

Hi, just wondering if this has happened to anyone else. I was just laying in bed, and my bf leaned on me. He kept asking if I was hard. I was fully soft I’d say about 5 by 5 inches, but he still thought I was hard because it’s thick and long when flaccid. Just wondering if anyone else has had this experience. Thought it was funny lol.


r/bigdickconversation 2d ago

QUESTION How big do you want your flaccid to be relative to your erect size?

5 Upvotes

Would you rather never have a bulge? Always bulgemaxx? Be normal? Have your flaccid suggestive of your erect size?

95 votes, 4d left
I always want the tiniest flaccid possible
If I have X rarity erect size, I want X rarity flaccid size
men X erect size normally have Y flaccid size, I want to be smaller than that
men X erect size normally have Y flaccid size, I want to be larger than that
I always want my flaccid size to be as close to my erect size as possible
If men X erect size normally have Y flaccid size, I want Y flaccid size

r/bigdickconversation 1d ago

QUESTION Questions about 6 inch length 6 inch circumference experiences, for owners, partners and swingers

3 Upvotes

So I have a few questions,

This is for guys with 6x6 members (erect)

What have your reactions from partners been, have they been disappointed in your length / impressed by your girth? What comments have you received?

How do you prevent hurting your partners? What foreplay methods do you use to get your lady ready?

To straight women or gay/bisexual men,

how often do you see a dick around that size? Do the dicks you see that are longer usually have that girth?

Would you be satisfied by that sized dick for a ons or hookup

And to swingers,

how often do you see 6 inch dicks?

If you have one, are you often the smallest in the room?

Do you get a lot of play at clubs and resorts?
Is your girth usually the thickest?

I’m looking into the lifestyle but I don’t want to be out of my depth. I’m confident in my size, but I figure a lot of swingers want a longer size than mine.

Any answers would be much appreciated

Edit:
For relatability my post is directed towards those that are 6 inches long with above average girth. To those with longer dicks, I will not be able to relate to your experience. Your comments are welcome, but you are not the target demographic of this post.


r/bigdickconversation 2d ago

QUESTION Are hung men truly rare?

34 Upvotes

Looking for personal experience. Maybe my case is rare but I know five guys in my relatively small circle of associates who would be classified as hung. By that I mean 7 inches long or greater with proportional girth. Two of which are definitely between 8 and 9. According to CalcSd that shouldn’t be possible. It states a tiny fraction are longer than 7 with virtually none over 8. About 10 percent of the men I know are hung. I guess I’m an outlier. What are your experiences?


r/bigdickconversation 2d ago

SITUATION Seeing fellow hung dudes at the change rooms etc.

26 Upvotes

Recently was changing at the gym after my shower and saw another guy getting changed into his gym gear.
I think all men do it but I obviously had a look and the fella was packing soft.
I did the “that’s not a bad effort” face and then looked up at him and noticed he was doing the same face looking at mine.
We then immediately made eye contact, realised what we were doing and then immediately both cracked up laughing 😆.

He said laughing still “sorry mate, don’t see many like that”
to which I replied something like “neither mate aha”

We ended up having a 10 minute chat about normal shit like work and that and it ended with we might gym together sometime.

Was nice to have a bit of camaraderie in the gym.


r/bigdickconversation 2d ago

EXPERIENCE I hooked up with a guy with an identical dick to mine

16 Upvotes

I went to a gay nudist campground last weekend called the woods. it’s in the poconos in pennsylvania. for reference I’m 6’3, 235 lbs, muscular and lean. I’m a top but I’m also a size queen. anyways I spotted this cute little guy at the pool with a massive soft cock talking to his friend. I went up and started a convo and i took him back to my tent to have a shot of tequila. I remember him getting hard while I was flirting with him which was hot af. anyways we went to the sex barn, fort dix and we compared our cocks. surprise, we were literally the same length, same girth, same curve, and same glans to shaft size. if I was a bottom I would’ve had him fuck me bc then I’d know what my dick feels like but instead I just sucked it. wow, it was sooo big! I fucked the shit out of him on a leather table and then again at a rave but I was just so turned on to find an identical dick to mine. it was really validating to see how hung I am through a twin dick. anyone have a similar experience?


r/bigdickconversation 2d ago

QUESTION I have a problem to the point where my length is about 5.9 inches or 15cm but my girth is ≈5.5 or 13.8-13.9 cm. There’s 30 percentile difference in volume between the length and the girth according to Calc SD website. Do I say that I’m average with a thick girth or big?

3 Upvotes
75 votes, 13h left
Just say your average with a thick girth
You can say that you’re big
Just average, nothing special
Disproportionate

r/bigdickconversation 4d ago

QUESTION You guys place more importance on length or girth?

8 Upvotes

personally I think after 6 in+, girth is more important


r/bigdickconversation 4d ago

QUESTION Mulheres deste grupo podem perguntar

3 Upvotes

Já fiz isto uma vez e houve muito engajamento, então vou abrir oportunidade novamente para as mulheres fazerem perguntas aqui para os homens.


r/bigdickconversation 4d ago

Sex with an Audience

25 Upvotes

this is a huge kink for me, basically I love fucking a bottom while other men or even women watch and masturbate. I went to a gay nude campground last weekend and there was a dark room where everyone went to fuck. I got to fuck with a whole crowd of guys watching me and I got so turned on I just put on the best show I could. some of the guys told me afterwards that they were really impressed with how I fuck and use my big dick, as well as how I was super verbal and dom.

has anyone ever fucked with an audience before? this campground really gave me a chance to fulfill that fantasy to the most extreme extent.

it was also hot being in a room full of over 100 men fucking and having one of the biggest dicks there


r/bigdickconversation 4d ago

TOO BIG Women are scared

0 Upvotes

Just ranting a bit but I’m 9 inches long and every time a woman sees my cock they get hesitant. I mean I guess I get it because every time I put the full length inside they yelp or tell me it’s too deep. I almost always make them bleed as well. The best sex I’ve had is having a woman use their hands at the base of my cock while it enters in so my full length doesn’t go in but I get the full stimulation. Sounds like I’m complaining but I still would never want a smaller size lol. I’m sure being able to pound someone as hard as you can is fun and all but I get off being too big and if I ever find a woman who can handle it that’d just make it all the better.


r/bigdickconversation 5d ago

EXPERIENCE i love having a big dick

50 Upvotes

I just wanted to express my feelings about being hung and in my opinion its just a blessing having a big dick.

You can change basically everything on your body, your appearance, your style, your muscles, your hairstyle and so on. The dick size is given, and I love it so much being hung.

that's all, thx for reading


r/bigdickconversation 4d ago

Fairytale Posts/Gooning Posts

12 Upvotes

I’m seeing a lot of people violating the rules about looking for sexual encounters and a lot of fairytale posts/LARPs. the mods are adult men, one of us is straight and monogamous, the other is gay and in an open relationship. between the two of us we can tell what posts are bullshit. I personally am starting to just ban people who violate the rules to protect this sub and I will continue to do so. we don’t have a rule against low effort posts but I’m gonna probably start deleting posts that are asking if you’re big or just saying “I love having a big dick”.

please report any posts that violate the rules, ask for validation, or are low effort. I’m trying to save this subreddit from going down the tubes.


r/bigdickconversation 3d ago

QUESTION How much sex should big dick men have relative to small dick men?

0 Upvotes

This question is not asking what it would be ideal in a perfect world, I’m asking this in a context of the current world

110 votes, 3d left
Big dick men should be having even more sex relative to small dick men
How much sex big dick men have relative to small dick men shouldn’t change
Big dick men should be having more sex than small dick men, but the difference should be less than it is now
Big dick and small dick men should have the same amount of sex
Small dick men should have more sex than big dick men

r/bigdickconversation 4d ago

LGBTQ (Not so) little flex!

1 Upvotes

Just fucked a big, masculine man silly.

I'm talking full on 🥴 face.

10/10 totally recommend!


r/bigdickconversation 5d ago

EXPERIENCE Finding out that I’m big

25 Upvotes

Long story short, I’m introverted, and a virgin, so I have no frame of reference to what my dick looks like to other people. I decided recently to thoroughly measure myself to see what my true size is. Turns out I’m (when fully erect) 7 inches long, 5 and a half inches in circumference, which apparently is quite large. Definitely a confidence booster.