r/badpetowners • u/L0bivertex • 6d ago
I just need to rant a bit (dark)
So for a while now, my family has had our small dog, (a jack Russell + rat terrier mix) and he's been struggling. Not limping or showing he's in pain, but its there. I'm not able to help around much as I'm not home often, but my parents only went to the vet to get his vaccines as a puppy, and haven't taken him back since. The vets have constantly told them that they should do a dental checkup, (which is $3000—atleast what I've been told, I'm not too well versed in that type of pricing..) Recently, when checking on him for some before bed pets, I checked his dog bed and noticed one of his back molars had *fallen* out. Root and all. He hadn't shown anybody he was in pain, and I did some digging, apparently they don't like to show themselves in pain. It breaks my heart to hear this. I went to my parent (keeping everyone anon) and was immediately met with guilt tripping and how its "too" expensive. Mind you they went and paid a few grand to build a (not needed) bar, went to an expensive concert, and thinking of going to another. My baby's health has been put off for years. I genuinely can't do anything as we've had him for 8 years now. I know I'm quite young, and I'm not eligible for a source of income that's able to produce enough money for him. Sadly, in my family, its normal to ignore health issues, but I can't stand seeing an animal go through this. What hurts even more, is the fact that he still loves everyone. I can't do anything. And nonetheless, I don't want to put my baby into foster care, I've seen the industry is horrid and most dogs get put down. Just needed to rant a bit, thank you for reading. I will do anything I possibly can.