Between the rampant sexualization of ASMR kinda creeping me out and not wanting to make my partner uncomfortable, I've been sticking to male ASMR channels, I also find deep voices relaxing. They are hard to find though and some really good ones are still small channels that go under the radar and unrecommended or get buried deep in the search results.
I'll help others in the same boat and share mine in no particular order:
-Dr. T ASMR - relatively well known channel, doesn't upload much these days but lots of great roleplay videos sticking to a common lore/universe, big backlog of videos to explore. Pretty deep voice
-FredsVoice ASMR - His channel is pretty big, great channel if like me you're looking for videos with talking to just distract your mind as you fall asleep. Also has a pretty deep voice
-Maxence Rodier(used to be Made in France ASMR) - professional film quality roleplays in french and english.
-ASMR Zeitgeist - well known channel, multi-hour long videos focusing mostly on sounds. I prefer talking videos and those under an hour long so they don't wake me back up after I fall asleep, but can't really not have him on the list, solid ASMR sounds.
-jojo's ASMR - Needs no introduction for most, well known channel, high end audio equipment, mix of sound and talking videos
-Dong ASMR - high energy, often frantic ASMR but still relaxing, good sound and nice whispering voice
-JimASMR(Jimち ASMR) - a lot of really nice high quality roleplays, some of the ones with purposefully monotonous speaking put me right to sleep
-Marno ASMR - goofy videos with positive vibes
-Hitohitori ASMR - Japanese channel, good sounds, amount of talking varies a lot per video
-Stormtru Sleeps ASMR - small channel, not a lot of videos yet but pretty good. Focuses on whispered roleplays.
-Studio L7 ASMR - small channel with good sound quality, I'm fond of his "kewl radio" videos in which he's basically like a radio jockey but for ASMR sounds. nice deep voice.
-Triuhn ASMR - new small channel, really relaxing videos with creepy vibes, good place for mostly unintelligible talking
-Tom Who ASMR - smal-ish channel. nice whispering voice, mix of roleplays and sound videos with talking
-RaffyTaphyASMR - a decently big channel. Nice sounds, nice whispers
-PierreG ASMR - lots of whispering videos in all kinds of languages
-Mattastic ASMR - nice soft-spoken voice, lots of roleplay videos along with some reading of SCP and other creepypasta things
-Dalton Does ASMR - Super relaxing, lots of talking videos. Seems to have mastered his own way of talking that's really hypnotic and great for anticipatory asmr. Deserves way more subs
-Triple Distilled Tingles ASMR - another small channel with good videos, mostly talking roleplays
-ASMR Power of Sound - lots of talking/roleplay videos. Excels at making the videos sound like there's a back and forth conversation, better than most at that. I like his Essential Oil Salesman videos
-Sensoradi ASMR - thick polish accent, pretty tingly sounds with, lots of videos making good use of reverb/layering/audio effects.
-MassageASMR - One of the OG ASMR guys. relaxing voice. Not very active these days, but his his old videos are a gold mine
I'm probably forgetting a few. One thing I've learned is that there are a good number of small male asmr channels that are much better than some big channels going entirely unnoticed. Youtube has gotten better at recommending them, but they're still hard to find. Hopefully the list above helps others find something they like. Share the channels you found.