r/Trading • u/nudel96 • 18h ago
Advice Read it. It will probably Change youre view about youre journey
I always wanted to help traders. Sadly, I’m not very good at marketing myself because I’m the complete opposite of a salesman.
But I do have other strengths, and one of them is giving advice.
So here’s something that, for most of you, no one will ever tell you.
Why?
Because most people don’t understand it. You’ve all been conditioned to chase a dream by the Industrie that was never meant to be your own.
In eight years of trading, I have never kept a journal.
I have never backtested a strategy.
I don’t trade a system with perfect technical validation.
Believe me or don’t.
I trade with intuition.
Yes, I use confirmation like seasonality, macroeconomics, and institutional positioning.
But after years of studying the markets, those things became part of how I naturally think.
I genuinely love macroeconomics.
And in the end, when everything aligns and my intuition tells me it’s the right trade, I take it.
And guess what?
It works a lot better than most people would expect.
Call me Crazy but I trust m feeling :-)
Here is probably the most valuable advice I can give to any trader who has tried everything and has still been failing for years.
I have been trading for eight years. I have severe ADHD. For six of those years, I lost every single day until I hit the lowest point of my life. I wanted to end it all.
Trading is not the goal.
Trading is not about numbers.
And trading is never something you completely master, because it cannot be mastered.
The real challenge is you and the meaning you assign to your own life.
During the years when I lost everything, when I lived with overwhelming self hatred and complete apathy, I reached the absolute lowest point of my life. I stood on a highway bridge in Germany.
Then there was a brief moment.
“What am I doing here?”
That moment, the darkest moment of my life, became the greatest moment I could have experienced.
Not because I suddenly changed my mind, but because I realized one thing.
Your pain has meaning.
You are hiding.
You are trying to become someone you are not.
So what do you do with that?
You have to understand that the market is you.
The nature of the markets is built on the nature of human beings.
Markets are driven by pure emotion.
They amplify your inner state, your fears, your worries, your greed, your ego, and your beliefs about yourself and your life.
They amplify what you give meaning to and what you choose to ignore.
Ironically, it is during the periods of deepest pain, when you isolate yourself from more and more people until you are completely alone, that you begin to understand what truly matters.
It is not about keeping a trading journal.
It is not about having the perfect strategy.
It is not about how much market knowledge you have.
If you want to approach the markets with calm and emotional neutrality, as if they no longer control you, then you first have to understand gratitude.
Gratitude for what you already have.
Respect for yourself.
Respect for your own dignity and the person you are.
Empathy for people who are struggling.
And just as importantly, empathy for yourself.
You must realize that the importance you give to trading is the exact opposite of the importance it should have.
Every one of you is different.
One person has different strengths.
Another is naturally calmer.
Someone else connects ideas and perspectives in ways others cannot.
For example, I have severe ADHD.
My strength is analytical thinking.
My strength is connecting many different disciplines to interpret the markets.
History.
Art.
The Baroque era.
In the history of art over the last thousand or even three thousand years, our future has already been painted.
Not literally.
It has been painted through human emotion.
It is about understanding belief.
Not simply believing, “I can do this.”
It is about belief itself.
The belief that things will be okay.
The belief that what you commit yourself to will become reality.
The belief in the good that exists in life.
And just as importantly, understanding the negative side of life.
Pain.
Suffering.
Apathy.
These emotions are not your enemies.
They are your teachers.
They make you stronger.
Strength can only be developed through exposure to weakness.
Now comes the realization that can truly change your behavior over the long term.
Every single person reading this is valuable.
Valuable in their own unique way.
None of you should define yourselves by money.
That is what society does.
It is not who you are.
Every one of you has incredible strengths.
Different strengths.
But strengths nonetheless.
Trading is only your companion.
A companion that teaches knowledge.
A companion that teaches cycles.
A companion that helps you build an understanding that very few people ever truly develop.
But to reach that point, you must look beyond the charts.
Because the markets are so much more than what you see on your screen.
They are emotion.
Greed.
Hatred.
Fear.
Hope.
Entire nations interacting with one another.
The good and the evil of humanity meeting in one place.
They are history.
History stretching back thousands of years.
Trading, in one form or another, has always existed.
People traded in the Roman Empire.
Back then it was done with carts instead of electronic exchanges.
Markets have always been built on belief, energy, and supply and demand.
That principle has existed for everything throughout human history.
But honestly, that is not the most important lesson.
The important question is this.
Who are you?
Who have you been for as long as you can remember?
Based on your natural strengths, your upbringing, or the dreams that have always lived inside you beyond the markets, who are you really?
Maybe you are a musician.
Maybe you are a DJ.
Maybe you are an entrepreneur who is struggling today but has genuine talent.
Maybe you are an exceptional speaker.
Maybe you are gifted in sales.
Maybe you are an artist.
Those are the paths you should continue pursuing.
Because the journey in the markets is a marathon.
You will get there.
All of you can master this craft.
But you cannot force it.
You do not need to master the markets.
You need to understand your deeper purpose.
You need to solve the reason why you want to trade in the first place.
Maybe someone lost the woman they loved and wants to prove they can make money.
Maybe someone is chasing a dream car.
A temporary form of materialism.
Maybe someone scrolls through Instagram, sees people living in Dubai, and convinces themselves that this is what success looks like.
Meanwhile, the things that truly deserve meaning are already in front of them.
Their family.
The warmth of the sun.
The food they can eat every morning while millions of people around the world do not have that privilege.
These are the countless small lessons you slowly learn along the journey.
And one day you realize something.
It was never about the money.
It was always about the meaning you gave to the money and … the meaning to youreself.
If you want to Master the Markets you just need to Master One thing
➡️ Become happy
Sounds simple but trust me 99% of humanity is Not happy.
People chase.
They struggle.
They carry fear.
The fear of being alone.
The fear of never finding love.
The fear of not being enough.
The fear of losing their job.
The fear of war.
The fear of themselves.
The fear of failing.
Let me ask you something.
When was the last time you were genuinely happy?
When was the last time you felt completely free from worry?
When was the last time you stopped asking yourself whether you were good enough, whether you would make it, or how you were supposed to get somewhere?
Instead, you simply said,
“I’m going to be a pilot.”
“I’m going to be a firefighter.”
“I’m going to be Superman.”
Exactly.
When you were a child.
Because as a child, your imagination had no limits.
You dreamed every single day.
That is your real goal.
