I started watching The Crown mainly because I wanted to learn more about Diana. I'm currently on Season 4, Episode 5, so this is just my impression based on what I've seen so far.
One thing I noticed is that the Queen didn't seem completely against Charles and Camilla being together. What really seemed to concern the family was the fact that Camilla was involved with two men at the same time, which I think most parents would have had a problem with.
I also got the impression that, at that stage, Camilla wasn't fully ready to let go of either relationship. It feels like she became more emotionally attached to Charles later, especially after her husband started having affairs. But I wonderâif she had married Charles back then, would she have still struggled to let go of her feelings for her future husband?
Another thing that stood out to me was that, in the show's portrayal, even before the Queen or the rest of the Royal Family became involved, Camilla was the one telling Charles that their relationship was too complicated because she was still with her boyfriend. Later, when Lord Mountbatten ("Dickie") confronted Charles about the relationship, I felt like Camilla convinced Charles that his family was simply trying to control him. Am I the only one who interpreted those scenes as emotionally manipulative? I'm not judging Camilla's present-day character based on those moments, and I know people make mistakes when they're young. It was just something I noticed while watching.
Another thing that stood out to me was how involved Camilla was in Charles and Diana's relationship. Was it really appropriate for her to tell Charles what to talk about with Diana, especially while she and Charles continued seeing each other after both were married? It almost felt like Camilla had more influence over Charles and Diana's relationship than Charles himself. She seemed to decide what he should say and do.
For me, Diana never really got a fair chance. She wasn't just trying to build a relationship with Charlesâshe was also dealing with Camilla's constant presence in the background. Charles was never emotionally available to Diana, and that must have been incredibly lonely and draining. She didn't have a partner she could truly rely on for love, guidance, or emotional support.
Of course, this is just my opinion based on The Crown, and I know the show dramatizes real events. I'm curious to hear what others think.