r/Stoic 12h ago

I spent the last few months creating short Stoic reflections to help people apply Stoicism in everyday life

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Over the past few months, I've been studying Stoic philosophy and turning its ideas into short, bite-sized videos.

The goal wasn't to create motivational content, but to make Stoic principles easier to remember and apply during ordinary moments—when dealing with rejection, anxiety, criticism, setbacks, or the need for approval.

Some of the topics I've covered include:

  • Fear of rejection
  • Letting go of what you can't control
  • Dealing with criticism
  • Emotional resilience
  • Self-discipline
  • Finding peace in uncertainty
  • Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus' practical wisdom

I'm constantly trying to improve both the philosophy and the presentation, so I'd genuinely appreciate honest feedback from people who actually practice Stoicism.

If you'd like to take a look, here's the playlist:

🎥 Stoicism Playlist:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLL5KlCpyWwhE

I'm not looking for subscribers as much as constructive criticism.

What Stoic principle do you think is most misunderstood online?


r/Stoic 12h ago

The fear of rejection isn't really about other people. It's about the story we tell ourselves.

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For years I thought rejection hurt because someone didn't choose me.

A job application.

A relationship.

A friendship.

An idea that nobody supported.

But Stoicism made me question something deeper.

Did rejection actually hurt me, or did my interpretation of it?

Epictetus taught that we are disturbed not by events, but by our judgments about them.

When someone rejects us, we immediately create a story:

"I'm not good enough."

"I must have failed."

"People don't value me."

The rejection lasts a moment.

The story can last for years.

The Stoic response isn't to become emotionally numb. It's to separate facts from interpretation.

Fact: Someone said no.

Interpretation: My worth has decreased.

Only one of those is true.

Ironically, the people we admire most weren't accepted by everyone. They simply stopped measuring themselves by everyone else's approval.

I'm still practicing this every day.

Question for the community:

What's one rejection that, looking back, turned out to be one of the best things that ever happened to you?