Hi guys, I'm pretty new to gardening, really want to get into self-sustainability ever since my mum kinda picked it up as a hobby. She recently grew some mulberries and it was amazing. Inspired I watched a ton of youtube videos about gardening. I'm moving out next year and convinced my partner that we get a raised bed, but besides those videos... but I know nothing about gardening. And there's a lot I want to understand.
My mum isn't much of a talker so I don't understand her gardening system, it feels like she pretty much just wings it and some things grow some things die and I think it affects her motivation but she's too burnt out to do more to try manage things better, let alone answer my questions out of curiosity. I understand that the soil is key to growing good plants, so I'm turning to the people here, if that's okay.
More context:
1) I live on the equator, so it's 33degs celsius all year round, save for rainy seasons where it dips to ~27.
2) I have 2 rabbits
3) my partner has 3-4 pet birds (2 cockatiels and 1 african grey)
Question 1:
The idea behind the raised bed was that my rabbits could dig in that, eat hay, drop it on the soil, which would just be mulch. Rabbit labour.
I understand that rabbit poops can make good fertilizer/compost but I don't fully grasp how I can use it. A lot of videos seem to say I gotta mix it for weeks till they breakdown or something. In that case, could they just poop onto the raised bed and then I leave it be?
Question 2:
Can the birds' poop be used as compost/fertilizers? Would it operate the same way as question 1?
Question 3:
There are many videos on soil and my general understanding is that potting soil and raised bed mixes are special because it helps to give the soil air to breathe through the chunky parts. My mum got some african nightcrawlers and they've been multiplying non-stop so she offered me some when I move out. She explained that she learned in some gardening class that the poop from the african nightcrawlers act as fertilizers/compost, therefore soil. But she herself isn't entirely sure she understood the teacher right. So if I have worms, would I still need the aeration from raised bed mixes or potting soil?
Question 4:
This might sound silly, but my mum has only ever bought 1 bag of soil. Ever since she got the worms, she just feeds them by placing stuff like eggshells on top of the soil. It doesn't make sense to me. Doesn't that mean overiime the soil just becomes nothing but worm poop? Then would the compost/fertilizer be too much? I heard somewhere fertilizers can burn plants?
Question 5:
I did try my hands at helping my mum with her gardening but I can't tell if I'm just making a mess (which my neighbor would nag at my mum for). A lot of youtube videos said to poke the soil with a stick to see if it's dry. I do, and then when i water it, a lot of water seems to flow out from underneath the pots. So does this mean I overwatered the soil?
Question 6:
It might be overly ambitious but I'm hoping that if growing plants on a raises bed succeeds, it could give me some shielding from sun, so the temperature od the space in front of my window could lower, making it more feasible to grow mushrooms. I read that oyster mushrooms do well at 25degs celsius. Is that unrealistic?
Question 7:
I'm really scared of trying my hands at gardening in my new home because all these things are daunting. A lot of videos also mention planning gardening for seasons. As someone who doesn't experience seasons their whole life, it almost feels like a lot of advice wouldn't apply. Is there any advice that's more specific to eequator-people?
If you've read all the way, thank you so very much for your time. If you're answering my questions, thank you so so much.