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Assalam-o-Alaikum!

I’m a 34-year-old Pakistani Shia Muslim currently living in Canada, where I’ve been settled for the past 8–9 years.

I have Master’s in Computer Engineering and work as Application Developer. I’m 5’11”, have an athletic build, and enjoy staying active through regular gym sessions and other physical activities.

Outside of work, I enjoy cooking (I’d say I’m pretty good at it!), reading and appreciating poetry, and maintaining a healthy and balanced lifestyle.

I’m looking for a kind, intelligent, emotionally mature, and supportive partner who is serious about marriage and shares similar values.If you’re already in Canada, that’s a plus, but I’m also open to someone who is willing to relocate.

I’d be happy to connect and get to know each other.

السلام عليكم و بسم الله

1- Age and Gender:  28 Female

2- Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 26-38

3- Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? I am currently in Australia. I am willing to relocate.

4- Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? I am Lebanese, Born and raised in the UAE.  I do not mind any ethnicity however I prefer someone similar to my culture and is fluent in Arabic

5- Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children. Single

6- Ideal marriage timeline: 6months-1 year

7- Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Emotionally intelligent, Reliable, Respectful, Patient, Confident.

8- State/specify your level of religiosity.: Shia, Prays daily, wears Hijab

9- Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelor’ degree. I don’t mind any level of education, as long as he is educated and loves learning

10- Current Job Status. Employed full time, however, I do not wish to work once my husband and I have children.

11- Do you want kids? Yes Inshalla

12- List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time. Reading, Boxing, Weight lifting.

13- Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I am a reflective and compassionate woman who values faith, personal growth, and meaningful connections. I enjoy engaging in deep conversations, supporting friends and family, and creating moments of calm and positivity in everyday life. I am committed to growing in patience and emotional expression each day.

My faith guides every part of my life. I value honesty, humility, and integrity, and strive to live with consistency in prayer and reflection. I hope for a partner who shares these values and approaches life with mindfulness, compassion, and faith-driven purpose. I love reading about the prophets and learning more about my deen. 

I am passionate about living a disciplined, healthy lifestyle.  I value a partner who shares this dedication to wellness and intentional living, someone who motivates and challenges me while we grow stronger physically, mentally, and spiritually.

I value quiet time to recharge, and I communicate thoughtfully and gently. When faced with challenges, I rely on prayer, journaling, and self-reflection to maintain balance and perspective.

I am seeking a partner who is emotionally mature, confident, and committed to faith. I value open communication, mutual respect, shared decision-making, and the ability to navigate challenges with patience and understanding. I hope for a spouse who supports growth, shares responsibility, and values connection without judgment.

And no I don’t want polygamy or to be a second wife (unless you’re Charles Leclerc 🫶🏼)

Hello,

I was born and raised in Canada. I have a BBA and MBA, and currently have an AI business. I have my own home in Toronto, and am looking to start the process of getting married.

I am slightly boring and introverted, however, I like to travel, play polo, and stay active. Please dm for more info

Salam,

I have a fear regarding marriage

I am a person who has scars on her arms and I am a hijabi. Upon getting to know someone at what stage should I tell him this? Cuz I fear a reaction after marriage from the potential

Salam, I (23) am the only son of my mother (47). She got divorced 4 years ago. I’d say both my parents are narcissistic and I was brought up in a very traumatic environment. My mother is a good muslim but she had her own issues in marriage due to which they separated. She never accepts her mistakes tho which gets difficult for me sometimes but I have made peace with it

Issue is, I want my future wife to stay happy with me and I don’t want to leave my mother alone too. We have a big house, I earn good too but I don’t want to leave her and start my family without being my mom in my life. (I don’t know if you call this being a “mama’s boy” but I don’t want her to live alone after she spent 25 years of her youth on building my future 🙏

How can I navigate this and still give my future wife the happiness she deserves and make her my

How is anyone meeting Shia men for marriage? Aside from muzz. If you have no help from family, where do we go. What do we do? The apps are useless it’s all inappropriate men

I am actively looking to have a second wife. However, not sure how this would work legally? Happy to do an islamic nikkah.

Brief intro (optional): I am originally from Lahore, Pakistan and currently residing in London, Uk. I am on PSW and would switch to work visa soon inshAllah.

Your Essential Information:

Age: 31

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): English, Urdu, Punjabi

Level of religious practice: Moderate. I pray regularly, dont listen to songs in muharam and safar but i dont wear hijab.

Current residence (city, country): London, UK

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): Yes

Siblings (number and older/younger): 1 younger brother

Previously married/Kids: No

Occupation: Admin and Marketing Manager

Education: Masters

Height (cm), weight (kg): 5"4 and 55 kgs

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): I am petite and brown girl with curly hair

Leisure activities: I play board games, I love to try new food places and I am trying to be regular at gym.

Your Preferences in a Partner:

Age range: 30 - 34

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani

Languages: Urdu and English are must

Level of religious practice: Halal/Haram ratio should match

Education: Masters or Bachelors atleast

Deal breakers: Drugs, judgemental and controlling mindset

Other preferences (appearance, family situation, etc.): Would prefer a syed shia and asna ashri

Additional Information you like to add: I am seeking a serious, lasting marriage built on mutual respect, shared values, and a strong foundation of friendship. For me, non negotiables include honesty, open communication, emotional maturity, and a shared commitment to building a family. I am looking for a partner who values stability and loyalty, and who is genuinely ready for a permanent commitment (Please dont reach out for Mut'ah.)

Age:31 M

🔹 Seeking

Serious, respectful connection for nikkah only

🔹 About Me

🇪🇸 Based in Spain

🕋 Practising Muslim

📏 Height: 6 feet

⚖️ Athletic build, fair complexion

🎓 Graduate

💼 Running my own business in the UK and USA (digital services)

👪 Family-oriented with strong cultural and religious values

🤝 Open to family involvement / direct contact

🔹 Looking For

Muslimah based in Spain

Modest, respectful, and family-focused

🔹 Contact

Open to nikkah-focused introductions

Please DM only if you’re serious and genuine about marriage intentions

Helloo, I'm a 21-year-old female hoping to meet someone in a halal way.

A little about me- I was born in Iraq where I spent the first 10 years of my life and developed a strong foundation in my faith and love for the Ahlulbayt (AS). I then moved to Australia, where I've been ever since.

I'm graduating university this year and will be working full-time in a healthcare profession. I'm also happy to relocate for the right person.

I value loyalty, kindness, and a good sense of humour. I'm looking for someone who shares those values, has good character, and is committed to growing together in faith.

Age: 21 Female 

Origin/Ethnicity: Iraqi 

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): English (fluent), Arabic (fluent)

Level of religious practice: Religious

Hijabi (F) (Yes/No): Yes

Current residence (city, country): Australia

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): Depends!

Siblings (number and older/younger): Multiple siblings (all younger)

Previously married/Kids: No

Occupation: Final year uni student 

Education: Bachelor’s degree (healthcare)

Height (cm), weight (kg): 160cm, 50kg

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): No

Leisure activities: Baking, crochet, reading, hikes

Your Preferences in a Partner:

Age range: 21-28

Origin/Ethnicity: Preferably iraqi/arab

Languages: English/Arabic (not as strict on arabic proficiency)

Level of religious practice: Shia, wajibat/ striving to continue growing faith.

Education: Bachelor’s or above

Deal breakers: Lack of ambition, previous relationships

Other preferences (appearance, family situation, etc.): no

PS: I have used AI to organise the information i had. All the content and microdetails are mine and totally true.

Assalamu Alaikum,

I’m posting from a throwaway because some family members use Reddit.

I never thought I would be asking this here but here I am very confused & frustrated.

I’m an adult daughter and I’m really struggling with something I recently discovered while visiting my father.

For some background, my parents are Indian and have been married for many years. My mother, younger sister, and I live in another country, while my father works elsewhere, so they’ve been living apart for some time due to work. She is financially dependent on him. They’re still married.

Growing up, I always knew my parents had problems, but I never imagined things could have reached this point.

After my younger sister was born, there were a lot of tensions between my parents. They gradually became more distant over the years. They barely speak now except when necessary. My father often vents to me about my mother, his boss, work, and pretty much every problem in his life. I’ve always tried to stay neutral because I don’t think it’s my place to be involved in their marriage.

Recently, my sister video called my father while I was sitting next to him. During the call, I noticed his phone kept getting notifications—around 3 or 4 within a few minutes—from an app called Filipino Social.

I didn’t know what it was, so later I searched it up. From what I found, it appears to be a dating/chat app for meeting Filipino singles.
I honestly felt sick.

I don’t have proof that he’s cheating. I haven’t looked through his phone or read any messages, and I don’t intend to invade his privacy. But I also can’t ignore the fact that he appears to be actively using what looks like a dating app.

What makes this even harder is that my mother is completely financially dependent on him. She has no independent income. If I tell her and this leads to a separation, I worry about what will happen to her. At the same time, if my father is being unfaithful, I feel like my mother deserves to know.
I haven’t confronted my father because I don’t even know how to begin that conversation.

Islamically, what is the right thing for me to do?
Should I confront my father privately first? (which i am not confident of)
Should I stay out of it because this is between husband and wife?
Or do I have some responsibility to tell my mother if I genuinely believe something inappropriate may be happening?
I’m asking sincerely because I don’t want to act based on emotion or suspicion alone. I don’t want to wrong either parent, but I also don’t want to ignore something serious if that’s what this is.

JazakAllah khair for any advice.

Assalamualaikum, hope this finds you well. I’m leaving for umrah tomorrow then going for Arba’een to Iraq, I’m making this post to ask for forgiveness from anyone and everyone that may have been hurt or offended by me intentionally or unintentionally. I’m going to open my DMs for today only so if I’ve hurt you in any manner then please reach out to me in DMs so I may apologise for whatever it may have been.

Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings.

I am a 21-year-old Muslim woman living in Spain. I don't wear hijab, but I take care of my faith and I'm looking for a respectful and serious Muslim man who wants to get to know each other gradually and build a healthy relationship with the ultimate aim of halal marriage.

I'm looking for someone between **21 and 26 years old**.

⚠️ Only people residing in Spain.

As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I hope this post finds you all in the best of health and Imaan. I am a 28-year-old Algerian man currently living and working in France, actively seeking a practicing Muslimah to complete half of our Deen together upon the Quran and Sunnah, built on mutual love, respect, and understanding. To tell you a bit about myself, I strive my best to fulfill my religious duties, maintain good character, and continually improve myself as a Muslim, while valuing honesty, tranquility, and family values as a grounded, responsible, and caring person who looks forward to building a peaceful home environment. What I am looking for is a God-fearing sister who values her Deen and strives to grow spiritually, someone who is mature, respectful, kind-hearted, and serious about marriage, and a partner with whom I can build strong communication, share life’s responsibilities, and support each other through all stages of life. If this resonates with you and you feel we might be compatible, please feel free to reach out via DM with a brief introduction, and I kindly ask for serious inquiries only. May Allah grant everyone a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of their eyes.

I've been hesitant to make this dua because I thought it was for asking for a wife. As you can probably tell, I'm not Arab, so, happy to learn something new, InshaAllah

Specifically asking for anyone who knows Arabic, whether this is a dua women can make to be granted a pious husband, or is the term azwaajina for wives, as several translations online say wives

26M - Indian

Age: 26

Marital status: Never married and have kept myself chaste

Ethnicity: Indian (but doesn't look or behave as typical Indian as hardly lived in India in my life and I’m very well cultured)

Family background: I come from a scholarly household overall & very practicing family whose ancestry traces back their roots directly to Imam Musa Al Kazim (as). We are very soft people overall and genuine with heart.

Languages: Native like in English, Urdu, Arabic & have conversational ability in Farsi.

Current residence: California, USA

Willing to relocate: depends but happy to have a chat

Siblings: 1 (younger sister)

Occupation: Business Owner and an Entrepreneur in the USA

Education: Completed my DBA from the UK last year (Doctrate level)

Height: 5’11

Weight: 186 lbs

Physical appearance: fit and strong body strength Alhumdulilah

Color complexion: Olive toned brown

Smokes/vapes/hookah: Never

Leisure activities: loves to read about history & politics, compose poetry as well as recite it, drink various types of coffee, swim, spend time with family & talk about religion. I also love food and trust me I’m very foodie no matter what background people I meet I’m always more familiar with their food then they themselves 😅.

Your Preferences in a Partner: Someone kind, soft hearted and easy going. Someone that is understanding, caring and loving. I don’t really have much high bar for a practicing muslimah just want someone righteous who hasn’t been corrupted by this mean world to simply start my family with!

Age range: 20-32

Origin/ethnicity: No preference as long as you aren't racist & are practicing I don't care. I also don’t mind to have a conversation and very open even if you’re a Sunni girl but conservative & pious (& not sectarian).

Languages: any

Level of religion practice: Needs to be strictly observant as anything haram is a red flag but I appreciate honesty over everything so, would prefer to give a chance to someone honest then hypocrite. Anyone that lies please don’t waste both of our time as I won’t be the right fit for you anyway.

Education: Doesn't matter much as long you understand me and are realistic about the life.

Deal breakers: drinking alcohol, treating others badly, racist or tribalistic, believes racial supremacy, being dishonest, financially irresponsible and badmouths about any of the Shia ulema or towards any kind & compassionate souls (regardless weather you follow or not or fully disagree) or traditional practices. Doubting Quranic verses or the sayings of the Holy Prophet (SAW) or the Imams of Ahlulbayt (as).

Other preferences: Just have a good heart, be accepting, be faithful & pious. Someone willing to judge me for who I’m, what I did in my life so, far and is understanding but also pragmatic. Someone that values humanity above everything. Someone who loves building a family and prefer family oriented relationships. At last kids are very important and I want them.

**Age:** 41
**Location:** Brooklyn, New York
**Height:** 5’7” (170 cm)
**Ethnicity:** Hispanic
**Nationality:** American
**Profession:** Personal Trainer & Online Fitness Coach
**Highest level of qualification?** Bachelor’s degree, NASM Certified Personal Trainer, Precision Nutrition Certified, ViPR Pro, Pre & Post Natal Specialist, 15+ years of coaching experience.
**Prayer level?** Alhamdulillah, I strive to pray all five daily, attend the masjid regularly, and continue improving my worship.
**What age bracket are you okay with marrying?** Approximately 28-35 (open if we’re compatible).
**Are you okay marrying outside your ethnicity?** Yes.
**Are you a divorcee? Do you have any children?** Yes, I’m divorced. I have two children, including a daughter who lives with me.
**Short bio about yourself:**
Alhamdulillah, Islam is the center of my life and the foundation of every decision I make. My goal is to continue growing closer to Allah through salah, Qur’an, seeking beneficial knowledge, and striving to follow the Qur’an and Sunnah upon the understanding of the righteous predecessors.
I’ve been a personal trainer for over 15 years and genuinely enjoy helping people improve their health, strength, and confidence. Fitness has been a lifelong passion of mine, and I specialize in strength training, longevity, weight loss, and martial arts. Outside of work, I enjoy lifting weights, kickboxing, Muay Thai, grappling, football, hiking, and spending time outdoors.
I also enjoy traveling and experiencing different cultures. One of the greatest blessings Allah has given me was the opportunity to perform Umrah and visit Makkah and Madinah. I hope to continue traveling with my future wife, whether for worship, learning, or simply appreciating the beauty Allah has created.
Family is extremely important to me. I take my responsibilities as a father seriously and hope to build a peaceful home centered around love, mercy, respect, and the remembrance of Allah. I believe marriage is a partnership where husband and wife help each other attain Jannah.
I’m looking for a practicing Muslim woman with good character who prioritizes her deen, values family, and wants to build a tranquil home together. Kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, and a willingness to grow together are qualities I value highly. I hope we can encourage one another to become better Muslims and raise righteous children, in shaa Allah.
May Allah grant us all righteous spouses and place barakah in our marriages. Ameen.
**If you think we’d be compatible, or know someone who might be, feel free to reach out. JazakAllahu khayran.**

33M Shia Syed living in Norway. Family-oriented, respectful, and serious about marriage. Seeking a Shia Ithna Ashari spouse, preferably in Norway, Scandinavia, or elsewhere in Europe. Please feel free to message if interested.

I know the du’a of a stranger is something beautiful, so I wanted to ask for one.

Alhamdulillah, some good news recently came my way. If it’s خير for me, please make du’a that Allah makes it happen, puts barakah in it, keeps any obstacles or interference away, and protects it from hasad and the evil eye.

May Allah accept all of your du’as and grant you what is best for you.

Ameen. 🤍

1. Age and Gender 22f

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‎2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 22 to 30

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‎3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? US and Lebanon depends on the place

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‎4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Lebanese

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‎5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children single

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‎6. Ideal marriage timeline 2 years

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‎7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect religious respectful responsible has good manners

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‎8. State/specify your level of religiosity do wajibat

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‎9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelor's degree looking for high school as a minimum

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‎10. Current Job Status cashier

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‎11. Do you want kids? Yeah

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‎12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

‎knitting crocheting writing

I want only lebanese and shia

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Assalam O Alaikum.

Age: 25

Origin/Ethnicity: Arab Muhajir

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): Urdu, English, Mandarin(Toddler's version)

Level of religious practice: Average

Current residence (city, country): Lahore, Pakistan

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): Anywhere

Siblings (number and older/younger): 1 Older Brother

Previously married/Kids: None

Occupation: Lead Engineer in a MNC.

Education: Bachelors in Aerospace Engg., Masters in Mechanical Engg. (On-going)

Height: 6ft 2"

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): I'm a big guy, power lifter - lean is always hard for me to get as I'm a foodie.

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): No

Leisure activities:

Shooting Range

Hunting

Creating fun AI/Apps

Movies

Literally lifting stuff

**Your Preferences in a Partner:**

Age range: 19-28

Origin/Ethnicity: None

Languages: Urdu would be enough

Level of religious practice: Its between you and Allah.

Education: Minimum - FSc or A levels

Deal breakers: Dishonesty, Disloyal.

Other preferences: I don't mind to support you in your future goals, however please note that I'm here to take every responsibility and baby my future family quite literally. If you think you can live as a separate entity, and hyper-independent while in marriage? Please ignore this profile.

Before you regard this as toxic, kindly note that nobody should be entirely independent in a relationship (marriage) not even me as a men, I'm highly dependent and my success and mental well being is highly dependent on my wife.

I may sound traditionalist, but i am not - plus I'd strive to be better for my partner you are clingy. I just crave where my day would revolve around "What would have she wanted or wanted me to do"

May Allah bring peace and success in our naseebs. JazakAllah

Assalamualaikum everyone,

I hope everyone is doing well.

I'm a 27M and have been thinking about making this post for a while, mostly to see if others can relate, but also to respectfully put myself out there.

I'm at a stage in life where I value stability, growth, and building something meaningful. Alhamdulillah, I work as a Logistics Supervisor at a multinational company and am financially independent. I take my responsibilities seriously and always try to improve myself in both dunya and deen.

For me, marriage isn't just the next step in life it's something I genuinely look forward to. The idea of building a halal life with someone based on respect, trust, compassion and mutual growth means a lot to me. A peaceful home where we support each other and grow together in life and deen is the goal, InshaAllah.

A bit about me:

- Pakistani background (Karachi), raised in Saudi Arabia and the UAE

- 27 years old, based in Ontario, Canada

- Sunni Muslim; I pray five times a day and try to stay consistent in my deen

- Family-oriented, calm, responsible, and always trying to become a better person

- I value honesty, loyalty, respect, and clear communication

- Not here for casual conversations only serious marriage intentions

Regarding Shia/Sunni differences:

I want to be transparent that I am Sunni, but I personally do not believe in approaching marriage with hatred or hostility because of sect differences.

For me, as long as someone is a sincere Muslim who believes in Allah and His Messenger ﷺ, has good character, and wants to build a marriage based on deen and respect, that is what matters most.

We all share many important things the same Qur'an, the same Prophet ﷺ, and the worship of the same Allah. I don't believe in carrying the hatred and divisions that have been passed down through generations. My intention is not to debate differences, but to find someone sincere who wants to build a peaceful and halal life together.

What I'm looking for:

- Someone who is practicing Islam or sincerely trying to improve in their deen

- Kind, family-oriented, emotionally mature, and respectful

- Someone who values communication, loyalty, and understanding

- Open to living in a joint family setup with proper privacy, respect, and boundaries

- Preferably someone who is working or wants to build a future together here in Canada

I understand marriage comes with responsibility, patience, compromise, and effort, and I'm ready for that. I'm not looking for perfection just someone sincere who wants to grow together and build a peaceful home.

If you feel there could be compatibility, feel free to reach out. We can get to know each other respectfully and involve families when appropriate, InshaAllah.

JazakAllah khair.