r/SFWr4rIndia 7d ago

Take Your Stance - Community Icon Change.

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33 Upvotes

The subreddit icon has been changed to a picture of Shri Sonam Wangchuk in a small show of solidarity - this is us doing our bit.

Take your stance. A man is fasting to death for a government that does not care.

I'll leave you with a paraphrased quote from Dante:

The darkest places in Hell are reserved for those that maintain their neutrality in times of moral crisis.

- Pepsi,

SFWr4rIndia Mod Team.


r/SFWr4rIndia 25d ago

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT Small Milestones: 7.5k weekly visits! Spoiler

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6 Upvotes

To all of you dropping by, thank you.

I know it's been pretty quiet on the mod front here, besides removing clearly NSFW posts and banning people; life catches up to you sometimes.

However, this is a community I genuinely want to grow. I have a few things planned, including new mod additions. One is confirmed, and we're open to take more - just shoot me a DM with your first line being "MODAPP", and tell me:

  1. Why you want to be a mod on here.

  2. Availability/consistency - be real. I don't expect you to put in an hour a day or anything, honesty carries brownie points. šŸ˜‚

  3. Prior mod experience, if any.

Besides this, I also want you guys to have a say in this community and what you experience on the sub, so here's my question:

What is one thing you want to see on here/one thing you want changed?

We're brainstorming here, there are no bad ideas. šŸ¤


r/SFWr4rIndia 6h ago

F4R 24 [F4R] Canada/Anywhere - Looking for geniune conversations

7 Upvotes

I'm 24, originally from Amritsar, and I've been living in Canada for the past 6 months while pursuing my MBA.

I do have friends here and life has been fun, but sometimes it's nice to have strangers to chat with people you can talk to openly without any expectations.

A little about me:

Into trading and personal finance.

Love travelling and exploring new places.

Always up for festivals, local events, cafƩ hopping, and amusement parks.

I have a dog and I'm passionate about animal welfare. Whenever I get some free time, I like visiting animal shelters and volunteering

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If we share any of these interests feel free to say hi I'd also love recommendations for good TV shows or movies to binge.

I'm usually free during the daytime and late at night since my MBA classes are mostly in the second half of the day.

Looking forward to meeting some interesting people.


r/SFWr4rIndia 6h ago

M4F 29[M4F]#anywhere - Do you also love adding a pinch of salt into foods while they are cooking ……

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and pretending you are a wicked witch creating a potion to take revenge on the villagers for making fun of your cool new bag?Ā 

Why can’t we find a partner that we can simultaneously attend boardroom meetings with , while also giggling while we share ice cream at 3 am?

I would love for us to discuss while cooking dinner, elaborate bank heist plans involving ducks as our getaway drivers while we get on a shootout with the cops!

Now while I do love to run around parks like a golden retriever, I do have a serious professional gentleman side which I reserve for work ( currently leading a global program that helps startups gain funding ( basically like shark tank butĀ Ā with wayyy more reports lmao ) )

Usually I am outdoorsy men vibes like chopping wood, BBQing in the desert and throwing the IKEA instructions manual and simply hammering the chair onto place, but can also be comfortable listening to classical music while discussing Rembrandt paintings and sipping Bordeaux wine.

Looking for someone who can be my best friend, cooking buddy, business partner, workout mate and bank heist robber!

I want to buy you flowers and sneak cuddles anytime we are alone in the elevator and grabbing you by the hand and we go explore the corners of the world!

We can wear fancy suits and elegant dresses and go for gala dinners but also sneak out to get some street food too!

Spent most of my life in the Middle East, so knows how to make a great Shakshuka and Tzatziki dip for breakfast!

Ā A bit more trivia about me:

  • Played national level badminton where I captained the team, marathon runner and can deadlift over 100kgs.
  • Was the school topper and won the best student award, which was featured in the Arab newspapers.
  • Built from scratch and running an ice cream shop with my parents.Ā 
  • Starbucks certified Barista, knows how to harvest a banana tree ( including the inner core stem ) and only reads books that are at least 500 years old.
  • I was invited to the jury panel for a top 10 university in the world.
  • Rescued two stray cats from the streets , despite being severely allergic to themĀ 

r/SFWr4rIndia 3h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Kolkata/Europe - Lets discuss History, Music, Politics, Fitness and Poetry

1 Upvotes

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Hey šŸ‘‹šŸ»

Primarily looking for a friend to chill with. If we vibe we can discuss History, like how India came into being due to the British. Or maybe music, like how most of the songs written in India these days are hardly Indian at all. I am an amateur musician so connecting with musicians of all genres is always fun!

Maybe Politics? I take a deep deep interest in federalism and how India is failing due to over centralisation of funds and power.

Maybe fitness? Got into the gym relatively recently but the journey has been good and would love to have friends to discuss so much about exercise and diet!

And of course, poetry :') the food of the soul, I've been dabbling in poetry since I started writing and heavily consuming poetry since class 7. My favorite poet was Byron for many years, the soliloquy from Manfred being on my lips at all times. Since then I've shifted back to consuming lots more Bengali poetry, reading and writing from time to time!

Lmk if you'd like to connect!


r/SFWr4rIndia 7h ago

M4F 31[M4F] Anywhere - Connect, convos & compassion.

2 Upvotes

A Thursday night post out of nowhere but here we go...

I'm pretty sure of what I seek (or rather crave) right now, It's company, exchange of ideas, intimacy, it's wantingness to hold someone and feel a certain warmth. I do feel anxious about the futility of another week going by uneventfully, because time awaits for no one.

Having said that, I seek cuddles, I seek evening walks together, I seek time together, I seek romanticism. I want to know you, the real you, fool around, care about you, talk about meaningful things. All the good stuff. Emotionally I do not have many expectations. I'm very much open to something meaningful with no strings attached. My value system is liberal, I believe in equality for all and do not discriminate. I'm an agnost so not much into religion really. I like to keep myself fit, I'm a reasonably attractive guy, would often get right swiped on the apps but lately I'm struggling to connect at a certain level with just anyone. Doing apps while doomswiping, feels like a chore. Therefore, conversation and articulation would be the centrepiece of our bond, if it ever comes to that.

I would very much be interested in 2 major things, conversations and physical intimacy, where the latter isn't necessary, it's subject to the level of connect, vibe and mutual attraction. Need to hear you, flirt with you, and share our stories for the day. All the good or the bad stuff. Would be up for a virtual connection at first and if we bond well then we can meet physically too.

Have a good day. :)


r/SFWr4rIndia 9h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Bangalore - Looking for a partner in crime (and life)

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At this point I've accepted that dating apps and I are just coworkers. We keep showing up for each other, nothing meaningful happens, and somehow everyone's still exhausted.

So, giving Reddit a shot.

A little about me:

5'8". Not the height that'll get me picked first, but hopefully the conversation makes up for it.

Based in Bangalore. I work in the Founder's Office at a consumer tech startup, which basically means I spend my days jumping between strategy, problem solving, and saying "let's think about this differently" with a straight face.

Originally from Kolkata. I still defend good biryani with unnecessary passion and have somehow learned to survive Bangalore traffic without losing all hope.

Outside work, you'll usually find me playing pickleball, planning a trip I'll probably postpone, trying a new cafƩ, or going down random Wikipedia rabbit holes at 1 AM.

I like people who can talk about both serious life stuff and completely pointless questions with equal enthusiasm. The kind of conversations where you start discussing your childhood and somehow end up debating why elevator buttons make us press them twice.

Looking for someone who's kind, emotionally available, and doesn't treat consistency like an optional software update. Chemistry is great, but being able to enjoy each other's company without trying too hard is even better.

If nothing else, maybe we'll discover a great restaurant or have someone to complain about Bangalore traffic with.

And if it turns into something more, that'll be a pretty good bonus.

P.S. I own more black T-shirts than any reasonable person should. It's either a fashion choice or laziness. I haven't decided yet.


r/SFWr4rIndia 15h ago

R4R 23 [R4R] Anywhere/Online - Study- Work with me

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I am working on something and i am constantly getting distracted, if someday is up for working together on VC, like do your own work. We can connect on Video Call, set timers like 1 hour and then take a break for let's say 5-10mins, watch a video or standup or any episode or maybe just chat, or play random online games and go back to work.

It would be like those videos, study with me kind of, but more like with someone I can interact with.

So talking about times, i would like if you are available from now till maybe 6 and then at night around 8- 12/1, but this is not compulsory, you can come and go anytime you wish.

We can even join multiple people on the call if available or interested.

I would prefer with video on, feels more like working together.

Hit me up if you would like to give me company.

Edit: hello, so few people reached out to me, and we made a telegram group, we would like to keep it a small group so that everyone is comfortable. I apologise, if i don't reply back to new people who are approaching. Neither would we take more people as of now. Sorry for that.

If necessary you can comment here and reply to other people and make yourself a group for accountability and working together.


r/SFWr4rIndia 5h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] India - Probably one of the few people here who's actually looking for a partner.

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People ask me why I've never dated.

The honest answer?

I never knew how to like someone halfway.

The moment I genuinely liked someone, my brain stopped treating her like "someone I'm talking to" and started wondering if she could become part of my life someday.

So casual dating never really made sense to me.

Maybe that's why I'm still here, still hoping to meet someone who's looking for her last first date, not her next talking stage.

Apart from that, my life's pretty simple. I help with the family business, I'm happiest around good food (I'm a vegetarian and a Marwadi), cook when I feel like it, and believe relationships should feel peaceful, not confusing.

If you're also here because you're done with temporary connections and want to build something that could lead to marriage, I'd genuinely like to know you.


r/SFWr4rIndia 7h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] India - Let Me Treasure You, Cherish You & Love You for Exactly Who You Are

1 Upvotes

What is love? Different people might have different interpretations of it. For me, it has always been something I’ve had plenty to give but have never truly received in the way I long for. After being unlucky in love, after giving my all, healing others, and never quite getting the same in return, I figured it’s finally the time for me to give this world of internet a try, so let’s see how it goes.

I’m a 24-year-old Indian guy pursuing my master’s in Europe. Kinda tall, but what really matters to me is having a kind of conversation that feels like peeling back layers after layers, you know where every message will draw us in a little deeper, where words just flow effortlessly, and suddenly it’s 3 AM, and neither of us wants to be the first to say "bye" or "goodnight." I crave exactly those rare connections that just have the ability to make time irrelevant, where we can jump from deep talks about life, career and ambition to laughing over the dumbest jokes, while feeling like we’ve known each other forever.

My Interests:

I just love dissecting pieces of entertainment, if I come across any interesting movie, series or even music, just be sure that I'm going to dive deeper into them, and just dig out their themes & meaning. So, if you’re the kind of person who loves discussing your favorite movies or songs in detail, well we just got another thing to talk about.

The Kind of Connection I’m Looking For:

I’d love to connect with someone around my age (21-24) who enjoys such meaningful conversations. Someone who’s open to talking about her day, her thoughts, and even her random 2 AM ideas, whatever feels right for her at that moment. I’m not here for just basic small talks, I want to know what makes you thrive, what excites you, and what you’re passionate about in your life.

You see, I’ve had some tricky experiences with women who carried the weight of their past, the ones who weren’t truly ready to move forward. And what usually happens is that I'd give my all, be their safe space, help them heal, and while they’d appreciate me for it, they were never able to truly reciprocate because a part of them was still stuck in what came before. In the end, it always felt like a one-sided effort, which obviously gets exhausting. So, I hope that if we connect, you’re someone who’s ready to look ahead, not just back.

What do I bring to the table:

I consider myself as a good listener, like not the kind who nods along just to appear interested to you, but someone who truly listens and remembers your little details. Whether it’s a childhood memory you shared or some random gossip, I’ll hold onto those moments because I genuinely want to know everything about you. I might forget the formulas for my classes, but I’ll never forget the things that matter to you.

Plus, I value building a connection first, so I don’t send pictures right away, not because I’m hiding anything, I just like to make sure that we trust each other, and once we’re comfortable, we can definitely exchange photos.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message, let’s start the conversation here and see where it takes us. I am a great texter and all for deep texting, but I also believe that real connection thrives when we hear each other’s voices. When we’re both comfortable, I’d love for us to share voice notes or even hop on a call. There’s something about tone, laughter, and pauses that texts just can’t capture. But no pressure, we’ll take it at a pace that feels right for both of us. Looking forward to hearing from you, I'll be waiting.


r/SFWr4rIndia 8h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Pune/India - Looking for something genuine

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Hey! I'm 27, from Pune, and thought I'd give this a shot.

I'm a bit introverted at first, so I usually take some time to open up. But once I'm comfortable, I'm pretty talkative, enjoy random conversations, bad jokes, and being a little goofy. I think the best relationships start with a solid friendship where both people can just be themselves.

A few things about me:

I love music and singing.

I watch a mix of movies and shows, and I'm a sucker for Bollywood/YRF-style romance.

I play games on my laptop occasionally.

Most evenings are spent scrolling memes or reels.

I can cook... as long as YouTube is helping me. šŸ˜„

I'm mostly a homebody, but lately I've been trying to get out more and be open to new experiences.

A little about me:

27, 5'6", from Pune.

Marathi Brahmin.

BSc in Computer Science, later completed an MTech through my company.

Working as a Senior Project Engineer in an MNC.

Vegetarian, and I don't smoke or drink.

I come from a simple middle-class family—it's just me and my parents.

I'm looking to meet someone around 23–30 who's kind, easy to talk to, emotionally mature, and has a good sense of humor. Someone who's looking to build a genuine connection instead of rushing into things. I'd prefer someone from a Marathi/Hindu background, who's working and has a similar lifestyle (non-smoker, non-drinker).

If you think we'd get along, feel free to send a message. Even if it starts with just a conversation, that's perfectly fine. šŸ™‚


r/SFWr4rIndia 9h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] India/Online - Looking for a Fun and Meaningful connection🌿

1 Upvotes

Hey, I’m a 25-year-old guy working in tech, looking to meet someone interesting to talk to, share stories with, and maybe build a meaningful connection over time.
A little about me:
• I love experimenting in the kitchen. Sometimes it turns out amazing, sometimes it’s a disaster, but always a story.
• Big fan of nature. Trekking in the mountains, long walks, or just getting away from the noise.
• I enjoy conversations that go beyond small talk. Life, ambitions, random thoughts, weird theories, anything.
I’m drawn to people who are curious, open-minded, and can laugh at life. You don’t need to be into tech. I actually love hearing about worlds completely different from mine.
Age isn’t a big deal, and distance doesn’t scare me. If you’re looking for something real, enjoy meaningful conversations, and are open to seeing where things go, feel free to message.
Let’s exchange stories and see if we vibe.


r/SFWr4rIndia 10h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] India/Anywhere - this is last time !!!!

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Movie buff. Into philosophy. Psychology. Universe.

Love to exchange life stories. Daily update. Gossips. Etc .

You : be age appropriate. Be ready to put some efforts. As it will be more from my side.

C ya in dm. More words. More words ? Wth. Wtf. Wts. Wtd. What ? Not yet ? Come on !!!! Oh dear god. God left this place a long time ago.

Necessary? What could be more necessary ?

A hero can be anyone.....

We both are suckers. Proceed to kiss batman.

May be God is left because he is also scared of what he has created on earth ?

Why so serious??? Let's put a smile on that face.

I shall have my vengeance in this life or next.

After all these time ? Always.

We only crave the love we didnt get.

Memento mori.

Viva la resistentcia

I used to rule the world. Sun will rise when i gave the world.

Thats how winning is done. Brick by brick.

I am the terminator.

I love panipuri. Mumbaiya style.

I love hiking and trekking.

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r/SFWr4rIndia 10h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Pune - Older Women Have Always Caught My Attention

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I've realized I naturally click better with women who are a little older. There's something attractive about confidence, emotional maturity, and knowing what you want without unnecessary games.

I'm 25, based in Pune, and I'm here to meet someone who's genuine, open-minded, and enjoys good company. I'm especially interested in older women, but if you're around my age and we share the same vibe, I'm open to that too.

I don't believe age defines compatibility—comfort, chemistry, and mutual respect do.

If you're someone who enjoys spontaneous conversations, can laugh at random things, and prefers keeping life simple, we might get along better than you'd expect.

If this made you smile or sparked your curiosity, my DMs are open. Let's see where one conversation leads.


r/SFWr4rIndia 10h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Anywhere - Let's talk, spend some time, indulge in a sharing spree.

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Hey all, hope you are having a good day so far.

Making this post today as I got some free time. So give me a chance to articulate what I seek and if it strikes a chord with someone then I'll consider this post a success.

I'm 30, fairly attractive & fit with an oversharing but wholesome personality. Most days I'm introverted and usually keep to myself but I'm filled with stories and I'm perfectly capable of talking your ears out with trivia, conspiracy theories, life stuff. Doing great in my career and trying to embrace the adulthood one day at a time.

So back to the topic, Why am I making this post??

I seek a healthy, low stakes, romantic bond that is emotionally fulfilling. Something where times passes by effortlessly if we talk to each other. Something where we gradually build a little something and feel some excitement about another's existence. Nice dates, genuine conversations, some venting about day to day and maybe just maybe something risque (gotta pave that path organically).

I'd like to give and receive attention, have some decent conversations, trading rants would be super allowed.

So if this is something that you find appealing, and if you want to drop by and discuss, then by all means you're welcome.

If any of this resonates then don't hesitate to reach out. :)


r/SFWr4rIndia 10h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Bangalore - Would love to have a conversation. Can be about anything...

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M4F Would love to have a conversation. Can be about anything...

You read the title.

Would love to have a genuine conversation with a woman. A bit of knowing, and sharing. Can talk about anything. Would like to keep it a safe space for everyone. You can talk, rant, gossip anything.

Can speak Telugu, Hindi, English.

Repeat
Would love to have a genuine conversation with a woman. A bit of knowing, and sharing. Be it sfw or nsfw. Can talk about anything. Would like to keep it a safe space for everyone. You can talk, rant, gossip anything.


r/SFWr4rIndia 10h ago

M4F 27[M4F] Bangalore - Your local flower guy is probably worried now that I've entered your life

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And he should be cause I'm not going down without a fight, Ima fool with love towards phools, insects and everything really. I never thought I'd grow up to have a liking towards them but somehow a few left in my care has made me like them all. I have a few plants, few flowering ones, few succulents and few others that I have managed to look after for a little over 10 years now. Yeah you heard that right, i am planning to organize them into a small garden in my roof but I'm letting it happen naturally.

Wait did I just say roof? Yeah so i love the sky, i just sit there sipping hot coffee with some old tunes watching the sky as the sun sets and clouds morph into whatever i wanna see XD, we can just draw stuff and it's so fun when in clouds, oh i also swim, i think that's the closest thing that makes me feel like I'm flying and as i like the sky i really like it, although I am a bit burnt out as I'm at it since a kid. But I do try to go often.

So that's a bit about this 27 year old fool. Now what do I seek? You. I don't mind what you are, where you're from to be fair, but I have met a handful of my online friends, so I wanna make more connections which feels strangely wonderful and new everytime. I also am open to whatever it leads to. Don't bother writing a huge intro as I'd like to get to know you as we talk, but a lil bit would be nice, I'd prefer if you were 24 and above though. Thank you and looking forward to talk to you! Have a nice weekend!


r/SFWr4rIndia 12h ago

M4F 28[M4F]/Anywhere-Building a Life Worth Sharing

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Hi! I'm a 28-year-old from Hyderabad looking to meet a woman between 25–34 who's interested in getting to know someone with the intention of building a genuine relationship.

I spend my weekdays building my career and make the most of my weekends—whether that's playing badminton, exploring new cafĆ©s, watching a good movie, planning my next trip, or trying out a new recipe in the kitchen.

A little about me:

• I stay active and play badminton regularly.

• I enjoy travelling and make it a point to take at least one trip every quarter.

• Big foodie—always up for discovering hidden gems around Hyderabad.

• Love watching movies, from big-screen blockbusters to hidden gems.

• Career-oriented and financially responsible. One milestone I'm proud of is buying my own flat in Hyderabad at the age of 26.

• Independent, emotionally mature, and value honest communication.

• I believe the best relationships feel like a partnership built on trust, respect, and shared effort.

What I bring:

ā˜• Coffee and chai dates that turn into long conversations.

šŸ½ļø Home-cooked meals (including Hyderabadi dum biryani) once I've earned your trust.

šŸø A badminton partner if you're up for a game.

āœˆļø A travel buddy for weekend getaways and new experiences.

šŸ˜‚ A good sense of humor and plenty of terrible puns.

šŸ¤ Loyalty, consistency, and someone who genuinely enjoys sharing life's little moments.

If you're 25–34, kind, emotionally mature, and looking to build something meaningful, I'd love to hear from you.

Let's start with coffee and see where the conversation takes us.

P.S. If you made it this far, thanks! šŸ˜„ Yes, I used ChatGPT to help write this. The words are polished, but the hobbies, values, cooking, badminton obsession, and terrible jokes are 100% me.


r/SFWr4rIndia 12h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Anywhere - Wanna spend some virtual time together to see whether we can do it for real?

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Hello there!

As the title suggests, I'm looking to kill some time and share it with someone. We can have a Q&A, share life stories, play online games, watch tlc together or really anything that comforts us both.

Maybe perhaps bond on a certain level? I

I'd like things to be online intially so we can see whether we enjoy each other's company. My expectations: I'm seeking warmth, empathy, connection & intimacy. I'd prefer if those 4 things are on the table from the start. If you're curious you may DM me and I'll clarify more about my expectations and I'll leave it upto you whether its your thing or not.

So, let's do this?


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

F4M 30 [F4M] Anywhere - Feeling anxious. Need someone to talk to/vent to

12 Upvotes

Basically the title. I have no clue why am i feeling anxious. Maybe it's the lack of sleep over the past few days.

No particular reason as such. I'm just not able to sleep for some or the other reason. Today I was almost there, but somehow I couldn't sleep again, and that is making my heart kinda race.

I checked my bp and heart rate. They seem okay. Not sure what's this unexplainable feeling in me.

Maybe just talking to someone might make me feel better and help me sleep as well... Anyone out there who's awake and want to talk?


r/SFWr4rIndia 17h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] India - Discreet, low-key connection with a confident, mature woman

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35M from India. Looking for married, divorced or single women (any age) for genuine conversations that can turn unfiltered, naughty, and exciting.

Platonic friendship is also welcome if that’s what you prefer. Discreet meets are also possible if the vibe matches really well.

Strictly no couples and no paid arrangements.

I’m respectful, hygienic, discreet, and open-minded.

Let’s start with normal chats and see where it flows naturally.

Open to conversation first and see where things naturally go.

If interested, send me a message with your age and location


r/SFWr4rIndia 20h ago

M4F 19 [M4F] Maharashtra - Looking for someone to have meaningful talks with

2 Upvotes

Hii, i am an introvert but okayish when it comes to texting. Just want someone to talk with daily and share about our days. Have fun talks as well as deep convos sometimes. I am a pretty good listener sp you can yap all you wish and still expect a reply from me on everything written. So just reach out and maybe we can be good friends.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Delhi - Looking for someone in my age bracket or older.

2 Upvotes

26 Male Delhi - Working since past 4 years looking for someone to have conversations with i saw this sub has more mature and like minded people so thought of giving it a try.

There is no anything particular from my side you just could be someone who works because thats what connects me with someone these days bad day at work lol lets talk.

It could be a friendship initially we can things slow and definitely see if something more is needed.

Just dm a hi and we will get things started.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] NCR- I'm a firm believer of dating someone for who they are now & not what they can be

3 Upvotes

I have divided my post into sections because I realised it kinda got too long while typing it... so read the ones that matter to you the most :)

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So who am I [now]?

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Progressive, nerdy, having a common sense in people is a huge turn on for me, you can find me watching a long video essay about greek mythology and sometimes binging brain rot TV shows. As much as I love Pink Floyd at the same time I really vibe to Doja Cat and Cardi B.

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Do I read books?.... WELL I CAN'T NOW 😭

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Though I do read editorial pieces, movie trivia, politics, history, and scientific studies. But since the inception of vertical format videos I have lost my ability to read a proper book.

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So I am just a nerd... right?

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I mean... you can call me that & I'd take that as a compliment but I am just a guy who happens to be average at all things. Because I would not hesitate away from trying to master a skill ever. You'd find me listening to new information of any kind with childlike enthusiasm & curiosity.

I also play music instruments, draw, travel, explore cafes [& new food] and 50 other odd things occasionally.

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What's my idea of love?

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To define love is tricky... matlab Ghalib nahi kar paaye toh main kaun hi hoon. [Yeah I love poetry. I write too.]

Though I can define a healthy relationship because I have been in one. A lottttt of respect for each other, kindness, patience, acceptance and be genuinely happy for the growth of your partner in any field of life.

& put honest efforts to make things work.

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What kind of person am I looking for?

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NCR based, age: 24-30, self-aware, politically left, can hold a conversation (who genuinely want to talk and express), is financially (or plan to work in the future)

Looks are not a top priority for me but I do want to have an attraction towards my partner. [Attraction is not the same as being conventionally beautiful or as per the f'ed up beauty standards of the society]

Please be certain that you do want a relationship and are available for it. We can start with slow. Build up trust and friendship and then move into it. If we feel like we belong together.

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Are you still reading it?

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Why? DM already!