Hello, I would like some advice.
I’d like to change careers and try to become a Royal Marine. The advice I’d like is whether I should sign up now or later.
I’m 23 now, turning 24 in October. Work in finance and feel like I've wasted my life so far, having spent the last 3 to 4 years attempting to become a triathlete.
I could sign up right now, but I feel like since I’ve pretty much done nothing with my life, and already lived a “civvi” life, I should probably go travelling a bit before I do get stuck in. I’m very "everything or nothing," so if I do sign up and go through the whole process, my focus will be on becoming the best I can be inside, which could later set me up for my potential aspirations.
Everyone (not many) I’ve spoken to says to go travel and “chill” for 6 to 12 months and then go through the process. But I feel like I’ve pissed my life away already, due to the fact I wanted to be an RM from a very young age, and thus later wanting to attempt to go Special Forces one day.
I feel at my age now, have I pissed that opportunity away?
The same people have also told me not to worry and to focus on getting in. However, my fitness is decent, and due to being in the Cadets for a lot of my younger years, I gained a very good foundation of skills. Because of this, I feel capable of attempting something like this.
But I just feel that, due to my age now, and if do take 12months out, the opportunity has since passed me as I’d be, say, 30 on SF selection (I know the limit is 32). I just feel that I’m being optimistic on the time frame, and the 2-year window could easily be pushed back if I get stuck somewhere or if injury sets me back, ultimately pushing me out of the age range.
Should I put to bed my aspirations, thus not trying to rush it,
Or go sign up and all in now??