r/RantsFromRetail • u/FamiliarRaspberry173 • 2d ago
Employer/workplace rant i swapped shifts as a favor to someone and they didn’t show up to cover my shift like i had planned - now im freaking out my employers are going to think badly about me
here’s the FULLEST context i can give for this situation: i am a college student working a summer job. i unfortunately only work two days a week at the place i am referring to in this post because the commute is so far (about an hour and a half one way) and i have nowhere closer to stay. my coworker sent a request in through the app that we use for scheduling to swap shifts with me. she would work my 8-3 shift one day and i would work her 8-3 shift another day - the most even split so i said yes to the request. now normally when you accept a request like this on the app, it needs manager approval, however, our manager who makes the schedules has made it clear that once the schedule is posted it’s up to us to find coverage or swap shifts, even without managerial approval. my previous shift this same manager said he thought i wasn’t working that day because he thought he saw i was covering someone else on another day - i said to him VERBALLY “oh yea thats on THIS DAY and im swapping shifts with THIS PERSON. not today” and he said “ah ok” and moved on. fast forward to my now extra day off and my manager texts me and asks me where i’m at…i respond with “i swapped shifts with this person im working tomorrow!” manager texts back and says “well that person isn’t here“ great now im freaking out because im an hour and a half away and about to jump straight in my car to go fix this. i message the person i was supposed to swap with: ”hey did we not agree to swapping? why are you not there?” she states that the manager told her that only certain people were allowed to swap her for that shift because she’s opening herself that day without a manager present and only certain people have permission to do that. she also said that he was supposed to force deny the request in the app because of that but he didn’t. i went back to message my manager once again to try and fix this and offered to come in to work the closing shift THAT DAY and i would still come in on the day i was supposed to for the swap. the only response to that that i got was “it’s all good.” so now i have no idea if im going in on that day or not or what’s happening but for some reason i feel like an asshole. is this something that just happens sometimes or did i do something wrong? i’m probably overreacting right?