Hi! I just wanted to share this story for any awareness for anyone in case you needed to check yourself or resonate:
There was this dude at my Muay Thai gym who literally came out of nowhere. He’s been there for a year I think and he’s always been a little weird and made people uncomfortable.
He would come in late for classes, like we’re talking 30mins late; go insanely hard during sparring to the point where he gave my best friend a black eye, concussion and bloody nose, and anytime someone would match his energy in sparring, he would bitch about it to that sparring partner and tell them to “watch it”; and then the days where he would be early for classes, he would just hop on the mats and start shadow boxing and stretching while there was a FULL PACKED class going on. It’s almost as if he thought he was the owner or he had no social cues or his ego was through the roof.
He would also leave class early when he was done or tired. We have a fighters class and he would leave when the clinch portion started which is like the last 20 mins. Other times he would just walk off the mats and leave. He would also leave his weights lying around and others would have to put it away
Anytime someone would try to teach him something, he would respond and say “oh yeah I’ve been doing this since I was a little kid I know” - even the coaches or the top fighters in our gym still expand their knowledge and still remain students… he would even say the same things when coaches were trying to teach him.
When he would come in, he wouldn’t even go to the guys bathroom to change, he would just change in the common area where we have cubby’s and everyone passes by and puts their stuff there or chats there before class…
There was also this one day where he went into the bathroom, completely barefoot, took a fat poop, and then came back out… I only know this because one of my friends was in the bathroom at the same time so when he came out, my friend was able to identify him because no one else went into the bathroom during that time.
My gym just celebrated its anniversary and he made everyone entirely uncomfortable at the party and was insanely hostile and started punching the pole and shadow boxing for no reason. He kept hitting on my friends making them uncomfortable and he was talking shit to my other friend.
He’s just hostile in general and truly, made everyone uncomfortable and not want to be around him.
Idk if any of this seems bad to you all but it was actually so much worst than what I’m typing. But guys, don’t be this person lol
Update: they informed him his membership was canceled and that he was no longer welcome back and he took accountability and said he understood his behavior was unacceptable (actually shocked about this one because I thought he’d play victim)