r/KidneyStones Mar 21 '19

Super Good Advice Frequently Asked Questions - new visitors to this subreddit, please start here!

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Thanks for taking the time to read this first! :) None of us are doctors, and the advice here is based on our own experiences. If you are suffering, or think you might have a stone, or are trying to help somebody with symptoms, please start here. These are the questions we seem to hear a lot on this subreddit. If you have a question that isn't covered here, by all means please post in the subreddit. We have lots of stone formers who have a wide range of experiences in this area and we may be able to at least point you in the right direction. Good luck, drink lots of water and may pain be a stranger to you!

I suspect I have a stone. Should I see a doctor? When should I go to the ER?

Go to the emergency room if you have a fever or are vomiting, or your pain is unbearable, or if you stop urinating (this may mean you have a blockage).

If you’re experiencing pain that you think is a kidney stone, visit your doctor and/or urologist. Most doctors are very good at assessing you and your family history as well as factors such as age, weight, sex, prior medical history and current symptoms. Doctors are much better at providing an intelligent diagnosis (which is really an educated guess) than we are on reddit.

Check to make sure what you think is a stone is actually a stone. The cause of abdominal pain is sometimes difficult to pin down exactly. Pain in your abdomen/ mid-section could be any one of a number of things, including digestive issues, kidney stones, appendicitis, colitis, and diverticulitis to name a few. Remember that kidney stones classically present with flank pain.

The symptoms of a kidney stone are usually one or more of the following:

  • Pain on the right or left flank (mid-way between your side and your spine, on your back), sometimes radiating down to the groin (testicles for males, pelvis/ovarian area for females). * The pain is specifically UNDER the rib cage (actually under the diaphragm)
  • Pain that comes in waves and fluctuates in intensity
  • Pain on urination or urethra spasms
  • Pink, red or brown urine
  • Cloudy or foul-smelling urine
  • Nausea and vomiting
  • Persistent need to urinate
  • Urinating more often than usual
  • Fever and chills if an infection is present
  • Urinating small amounts

Pain caused by a kidney stone may change — for instance, shifting to a different location or increasing in intensity — as the stone moves through your urinary tract. Source

I know I have a stone. What do I do? What should I expect?

IF YOU HAVE A FEVER OR ARE VOMITING OR ARE UNABLE TO URINATE, PROCEED TO THE ER.

Pain will come and go, and will likely vary from one person to the next. So while you may read in this sub-reddit about severe pain, that's not necessarily what you will experience. So the first thing to do is try to relax and not get worked up about what MIGHT happen. If it does happen, the pain comes in two forms: 1) waves (spasms) of pain, which can feel like a very strong cramp, and 2) a general achy feeling between your kidney area, and down to your groin. As mentioned above, the "classic" kidney stone pain is from the flank down to the groin.

Drink lots of water. Water will increase the amount of urine you produce, and will also plump up your urinary system in general, which will make for less contact between any stones you have and the walls of your ureter. When stones rub against the walls of your ureter, you experience pain. Another benefit from drinking water is that the concentration of waste produce in your urine is more diluted, which means that the crystals which make up kidney stones are less likely to find a date, and will head out on their own. Yet another benefit to proper hydration is that dilute urine is less likely to irritate any abrasions that previous stones may have made in your urinary tract. Less irritation = less chance of an infection. How much water? You want to be producing about 2 1/2 liters of urine per day, so drink a bit more than that. Read more about water here

Locate some pain management methods that work for you, and that are readily available. Over the counter (OTC) medicines like aspirin, ibuprofen or acetaminophen (tylenol) can help, but only take as much as you need for as long as you need. A daily habit of NSAIDs like ibuprofen can lead to serious issues. Prescription pain medicines can also help, but you need to locate a doctor who will prescribe you what you need. Azo (Phenazopyridine Hydrochloride) is used by many in this subreddit. Cannabis, if it's legal where you live, can also provide some relief. Heat - in the form of heating pads, hot baths or showers, can help when you're experiencing a wave of pain. Find what works for you - don't just blindly follow the advice of others.

Some people experience nausea, which can occur with or without accompanying pain. Be prepared (have a bucket or bag available if you're feeling a wave of nausea come along, although sometimes there's not much warning).

If you're in the middle of a pain session, and feel like you need to visit the Emergency Room/ Urgent Care clinic, think about how you'll get there. Some folks experience such strong pain, that they're not able to drive themselves. Find a driver who you can rely on to get you to the care you need on short notice.

How long do stones take to pass?

Some stones never pass (they stay in the kidney) and are removed via surgery (lithotripsy or uretoscope).

Stones that are “smaller” - usually 5mm or less - will pass without surgery being required, although there will be some pain/ discomfort. Some folks have passed larger stones, but this isn’t common. I’ve passed a 7 - 8 mm stone without surgery.

What kinds of stones are there?

  • Calcium stones Most kidney stones are calcium stones, usually in the form of calcium oxalate. Oxalate is a naturally occurring substance found in food and is also made daily by your liver. Some fruits and vegetables, as well as nuts and chocolate, have high oxalate content. There is conflicting research on whether or not a diet high in oxalates can contribute to stones.

    Dietary factors, high doses of vitamin D, intestinal bypass surgery and several metabolic disorders can increase the concentration of calcium or oxalate in urine. If you’re taking a Vitamin D supplement, it may be worth talking to your health care provider to explore whether there may be a relationship between your current dose and your stones. Source

  • Calcium stones may also occur in the form of calcium phosphate. This type of stone is more common in metabolic conditions, such as renal tubular acidosis. It may also be associated with certain migraine headaches or with taking certain seizure medications, such as topiramate (Topamax). This type of stone is also common in those with autoimmune diseases due to Renal Tubular Acidosis. Those who make these stones tend to make many, and make them frequently. Difficult to treat.

  • Struvite stones. Struvite stones form in response to an infection, such as a urinary tract infection. These stones can grow quickly and become quite large, sometimes with few symptoms or little warning.

  • Uric acid stones. Uric acid stones can form in people who don't drink enough fluids or who lose too much fluid, those who eat a high-protein diet, and those who have gout. Certain genetic factors also may increase your risk of uric acid stones.

  • Cystine stones. These stones form in people with a hereditary disorder that causes the kidneys to excrete too much of certain amino acids (cystinuria).

How do I know what kind of stones I make?

Your urologist can send the stones to the lab to be analyzed. Ask for a strainer to strain your urine if you wish to collect a stone. Not all urologists dispense them readily.

What can I do to prevent more stones?

In general, drink more water, limit your salt and sugar intake and get your weight within recommended ranges. (See U Chicago Kidney Stone diet for more details here.)

For specific types of stones, there are specific dietary recommendations, but you’d need to have your stones analyzed (first), and then your urine tested (using one or more 24-hour urine samples). DIFFERENT STONES HAVE DIFFERENT DIETARY RECOMMENDATIONS

Keep in mind that there is no one ‘magic bullet’ for kidney stone treatment.

What kind of treatments are there for stones?

  • Most common method (because it's the least invasive) is to advise the patient to stay hydrated, take OTC pain killers as required and stay active. This approach usually results in the stone passing.
  • Medical Expulsive Therapy - in addition to fluids and pain killers, sometimes Tamsulosin (Flomax) is prescribed to aid in stone passage. Studies suggest this is most effective for smaller (< 5mm) stones; less so for larger stones.
  • Ureteroscopy with either physical removal or laser break-up
  • Lithotripsy shockwave lithotripsy (sometimes abbreviated as ESWL) uses external shockwaves to break a stone into smaller parts. Only one stone can be blasted at a time. Side effects from this include urinating blood and flank pain.
  • Percutaneous Nephrolithotomy - rarely used/ only when other methods are not successful. A small incision is made in the back, and a tube inserted into the kidney to remove stones.

What resources are there for kidney stone formers?

Does lemonade help stones?

If you form CALCIUM OXALATE stones, there is some evidence that the citric acid in lemon juice (or lime juice) can help add to the total volume of urine, reducing its saturation of calcium and other crystals, and may enhance urinary citrate excretion.

What are the methods for diagnosing a stone?

  • Computed Tomography (CT) - most radiation, most resolution/ accuracy, $$$
  • KUB X-ray (KUB = Kidney Ureter Bladder) - medium radiation, moderate resolution, $$
  • Ultrasound - no radiation, reasonable resolution, $

For more information on the pro's and con's of different imaging techniques, please click here

Which medications are available for kidney stone treatment?

  • Narcotic painkillers (ex: morphine)
  • Non-narcotic painkillers (ex: Toradol, cannabis)
  • Anti-nausea medications (ex: Zofran)
  • Urocit-K (ex: Potassium Citrate)
  • Flomax (Tamsulosin)

Treatment is usually symptom based, except for some medications which aim to alter the pH of the urine like Urocit-K.

Ending thoughts: Thank you for taking the time to read our FAQ. Remember, everyone’s stone history is different, and every urologist is different. What works for you may not work for others. In general, staying hydrated (2-4L per day) is your best defense and will help keep your kidneys functioning happily. If you are not happy with your urologist, seek the help of a nephrologist.

Edits: spelling, words, and added a section on "what do I do now". Added wikipedia reference.


r/KidneyStones 36m ago

Question/ Request for advice i’m so scared of my upcoming utereroscopy

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i (17afab) have dealt with kidney stones for years now. unfortunately, my recent passing of one led to us figuring out i have 3-4 scattered throughout each kidney. so, naturally, they want to do surgery!

i originally said if there weren’t alternatives i didn’t want it. there are no alternatives here. i still don’t want it, but i said yes today, because i think i would’ve regretted it later. the surgery is in 2 days, and words don’t really describe how horrified and hysterical i start to feel when tuning it out doesn’t work. the hospital and my mom are trying their very best to instill comfort in me, but it just doesn’t work. i can’t stop bursting into tears

i’m so, so so afraid. i won’t give too many details, but i’m traumatized in the assault way and something like this is more than just minimally invasive to me. it concerns me that this was the only hospital that’d take me in any area willingly drivable. it doesn’t seem to concern or scare anyone else i talk to. i’m sorry to vent here. i just need to know i’m not alone, or that some strangers could offer me wise words so i’m not so petrified of the entire process. 😞


r/KidneyStones 6h ago

😡 Rant! 😡 My bladder is so bothered

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3mm stone. Last few weeks my bladder has this constant tickle. It’s so annoying. Sometimes it feels like the urge to pee. Sometimes it’s just a bothersome pressure or scratching feeling.

Anyway, I’m bothered and annoyed. Was scheduled for surgery this week but then realized the doctor is out of network, so I’m now in the process of finding a new specialist.

Misery loves company. Lay it on me.


r/KidneyStones 17m ago

Sharing Experience My First - And Worst Experience

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I’ve been checking this subreddit and going through everyone’s stories and recommendations. So I’ll add my story.

First kidney stone. Sunday morning I woke up and felt immense pain. Pain that traveled from the stomach through the back with nausea. Headed to the ER and was diagnosed with a 3 mm kidney stone. I finally understood the pain and every medical person I’ve talked to understood that same pain.

Monday was a little bit better pain wise but the nausea and sense of not being able to eat was awful. I ate 2 ravioli and half a bread stick before my body told me that was a point of no return. Really bad pain after eating.

Tuesday morning shit hit the fan. Could barely keep water down and actually threw up plain water twice. I was also burping like crazy. I was beat down, exhausted, and in pain. Tuesday night only got worse. 101 degree fever. After looking on this subreddit and through Google I finally decided that I would have to head back to the ER. After a 6 hour wait (finally got in at 2AM) they told me that I had elevated white blood cells and that this was an infection.

Today after feeling awful all day (from not sleeping, not eating, and not drinking much) I was given a surgeon and a surgery to add a stent. Just got out of the surgery and they mentioned that there was “gunk buidup” in my ureter. The stent may bother a bit but I could cry being able to keep this hospital food down.

All in all, kidney stones fucking suck and somehow I had a very unlucky first kidney stone. I feel for all of you and hope everyone can pass them without issues.


r/KidneyStones 39m ago

Question/ Request for advice Conflcting test results

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I am looking for some advice and thoughts before I see my urologist next week. About a month ago I had an incidental finding of a 6 mm kidney stone show up on an ultrasound, no symptoms.

I had a lot of anxiety about it so I found a urologist and they ordered an x-ray and a specific kidney ultrasound. The x-ray showed no stone. The most recent specific kidney ultrasound also showed no stone.

Does this mean I'm in the clear? I'm still a little bit worried. Not sure what to think.

Any thoughts? Should I just be thankful? Still feel on edge. I suffer from health anxiety.


r/KidneyStones 1h ago

Question/ Request for advice Working after Shockwave lithotripsy?

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This is my first kidney stone, it’s 5.5mm. I’m getting the procedure tomorrow at 8am, and I’m planning on calling out the next day, but on Saturday im scheduled to work 5am-2pm.

I work as a personal shopper at a grocery store, typically I get 20,000 steps in a shift and have to regularly lift 24pks of soda and waters. Before each walk, I can look at the contents and see if anything is heavy. I still have to push a cart around either way tho. I’m a petite woman so the job is somewhat physically demanding for me.

Would it be safe for me to work on Saturday and Sunday if I take it easy? Or would the walking and pushing be too much?? I will say I do have a high pain tolerance bc I told the er doctors my kidney stone pain “could just be gas”


r/KidneyStones 4h ago

Question/ Request for advice Ureteroscopy while Pregnant?

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TLDR: Are there development risks to 30week fetus from general anesthesia?

After getting a nephrostomy tube to bypass a cluster of obstructing stones, the plan was to wait until after delivery to do the ureteroscopy. But then I heard from my urologist who is very confident he can do the ureteroscopy this week.

My SIL is an obgyn nurse and has me nervous. She doesn't think I should do the surgery. But I hate my nephrostomy and I'm excited to get it taken care of so I can heal up before delivery.

I'm 30 weeks and I've accepted the risks of general anesthesia discussed with me, until I read it might have developmental risks for baby??

My urologist is very confident. He said his team pioneered this technique on symptomatic pregnant patients years ago (2002) and he's done it many times. Now, an important detail is my urologist is Dr John Denstedt. (Google him, he's internationally recognized as a major stone treatment innovator and expert with tons of big deal awards including being secretary of the American Urology Association and receiving the Ramon Guiteras Award.) So, I believe he can do it safely. I just worry about delayed effects for my baby caused by anesthesia.


r/KidneyStones 5h ago

Question/ Request for advice Should I be worried about Kidney Stones with this Diet?

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Should I be worried? I consume soya chunks, peanuts, Bengal grams, peanut butter every day and hit my protein goal of 100g.

(Bengal gram is basically Roasted Chickpea. In India)

100-120g soya chunks.

I pee white every 2 Hours. But I drink 2.5 Lites water only per day.

Should I increase it to 3-4 Litres of Water?

Will 3-4 Litres water lower my risk?

I'm scared as hell. I'm skeptical as hell. I'm worried as hell. I'm stressed as hell.

I don't want my family to blame it all on my protein. And I don't have money for the kidney stones even if they happen. Should I cut off high amount of them?

Should I build body when I have enough money to afford protein sources which have no kidney stone risk sources only??


r/KidneyStones 5h ago

Question/ Request for advice Need advice

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Hello,

Last Friday night I went to the ER due to to the usual symptoms, where they found a Right-sided 0.7 cm UPJ calculus without hydroureteronephrosis. I had a consult yesterday with a urologist and am scheduled to get the stone removed this coming Monday.

However today my urine flow has become basically a dribble, with a few isolated urinations that are closer to normal but still feel under pressured. I am on ketorolac, Flomax and Keflex. I currently have no pain, just a minor ache on my right flank, or a fever but am worried about the urine flow.

I've been drinking a ton of water, already about 2.5L today, so the urine thing is concerning. Should I go the ER or should I wait and see if I develop pain or a fever?


r/KidneyStones 7h ago

Stents Is it normal to have flank/kidney pain right after stent removal?

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Just had stent removed by doctor in the office. Now I'm home and have that back pain. I can't tell if I'm just sore or what, is it normal to have some of that even after the stent is out?


r/KidneyStones 11h ago

Sharing Experience Kidney Stone Removal Procedure Update

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After the CT scan and urine test today, I have been confirmed as Stone free. They did not find the 7mm stone they found in January/February. The surgeon said I probably peed it out without knowing.

Blood pressure and blood test are all fine. I am so relieved and happy. I genuinely was preparing to have my anesthetic after changing to the patient wear.

I was given an NHS handout on how to look after myself and diet control, to prevent kidney stone formation again.


r/KidneyStones 23h ago

Alternative/ Unproven Remedies Anyone use "stonebreaker" supplements?

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Im a man and have an 8mm stone and I have surgery scheduled but they just called me and told me that I have to pay thousands of dollars which I don't have upfront. So I guess surgery isn't an option. Anyone try stonebreaker for a larger stone? or have any other success with anything else?


r/KidneyStones 11h ago

Pain Management Curious pain after first kidney stone…

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Hi there, this is my first post on Reddit but I was wondering if anyone could help guide me that has experienced kidney stone pain. Two weeks ago today, I went to urgent care and later to the ER with excruciating pain. Long story short, they found one 2mm stone on my right side and one non obstructed stone on my left. I left with antibiotics and Flomax and they treated the pain with Toradol. The Toradol helped but before I left the pain came back and I felt better after using the restroom. I finished the antibiotic and today I woke up with lower right side pain, nausea, diarrhea and abdominal pain. I am wondering if I am trying to pass the stone and if I should take the Flomax because I didn’t use it two weeks ago. Thank you for your help! I can’t imagine suffering with this every day! You guys are all warriors!


r/KidneyStones 11h ago

Question/ Request for advice Super weird recurring kidney stone experience - anyone had similar?

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Hello stoners! This forum has been a great source of info and support for the last few months as I've been getting to grips with stones. I have had a super weird time with it and wonder if anyone has had anything similar. I'm 38F.

It started in April, when classic UTI and kidney infection symptoms landed me in hospital. I was given antibiotics and sent away. Cue two months of going back and forth to the doctor when pain and burning kept coming back worse. I did 7 courses of antibiotics - including IV! - despite no test ever showing infection. They did a CT scan that showed no stones.

Late May I land up back in the hospital in excruciating pain, throwing up everywhere, etc. I'm admitted over the weekend and: lo and behold, I passed some stones! Mostly little black sandy bits, with a couple of 2mm fragments. I felt way better and was sent home.

Alas: it happened again 5 weeks later. First UTI burning, then increasing pain, then a hospital admission, where again I passed this gravel stuff. They did a CT urogram: no evidence of stones. Wtf?

The hospital urologists are baffled by me, as stones aren't supposed to form this fast and scans keep showing nothing. First sent of wee stones came back as majority calcium phosphate. I'm like 3 weeks out of hospital and the burning and flank pain are suddenly back AGAIN. Obv worried I'm gonna be stricken now for another week or so.

Has anybody had anything like this? Doctors keep shrugging at me: apparently my blood and urine keep coming back normal, as did both CT scans,, but you can't exactly imagine black gravel in your pee, can you? Wondering if anyone can shed some light on what investigations to ask for.


r/KidneyStones 16h ago

Question/ Request for advice Can i take 1000mg Tylenol and 400mg of ibuprofen

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Pls someone tell me asap😢. 24y/o male 160 pounds. Dont want to throw up


r/KidneyStones 17h ago

Question/ Request for advice Has anyone had two stones at once?

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So im getting pain on my left side right now, like the classic aching sharp pain. But for the last fee days i was getting pain right above the groin every time i was done peeing. From my understanding the pain above the groin means the stone is almost to the bladder or in the bladder but i dont know. I know nothing can help me but just want to see if anyone has experience this as well


r/KidneyStones 14h ago

Sharing Experience Update on stone removal procedure

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So I am at the teaching hospital this morning. The surgeon spoke to me and said I need to do another CT scan to be certain I am stone free or not.

The last scan was back in January and I should have done my procedure 6 weeks after discovery, according to the surgeon. If the scan shows I am stone free, then no need for surgery.

She said I look too healthy for a kidney stone fellow. Fingers crossed over the scan results 🤞🏾


r/KidneyStones 19h ago

Question/ Request for advice litholink results

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hello everyone,

just got my litholink results back and they aren’t great which is discouraging. my calcium and sodium is genuinely so high even though i try to eat somewhat healthily. i literally went on a low sodium diet and formed a 1cm stone a month into it so i don’t think this is my diet. clearly im not eating boatloads of spinach and dark chocolate. be so fr.

i’m so tired of hearing my multiple nephrologists blame diet and water intake when i drink 100+oz of water every day and got my litholink from 1.6L to 2.5L. i have an appt coming up and with my results, i feel like she will blame diet again. i am exasperated at this point and feel like just quitting and saying fuck it i’m just a stone former.

every nephrologist i’ve seen has diagnosed me with idiopathic stones which is ridiculous. i started out forming calcium oxalate, calcium phosphate, and struvite stones, and now im forming brushite and calcium phosphate which is new.

im on potassium citrate but my nephrologist (after i stopped forming stones for a few years—my last surgery was in 2023-2023) took me off the high dose and literally told me that drinking a glass of OJ was enough gtfo. just passed a 3mm and 5mm this past month.

anyone have similar results? what do they mean? i’m so confused. and my nephro clearly isn’t helping.


r/KidneyStones 23h ago

Symptoms Kidney Stones First time

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I posted the other day about kidney stones, my first time. I was in ER on Friday with awful pain, they diagnosed 2 small kidney stones (1 mm each) but only prescribed meds for nausea. I’ve been okay, managing the pain with Naproxen and Tylenol. But today, the pain just suddenly ramped up. I took meds, heating pad, hot bath, only experiencing some relief, still feel like I’m being stabbed. Now im nauseous too. When I was in the ER, I was throwing up and hope I won’t get back to that point. Would it be stupid to go back to ER at this point (can’t afford another visit too) No fever or anything. Is this really just something to fight and tough out, not sure I can handle it.


r/KidneyStones 23h ago

Question/ Request for advice First Stone - while pregnant

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hi everyone. this past Saturday i was hospitalized for what they’re assuming is a kidney stone. they didn’t see one on the ultrasound, but my symptoms were all pointing to it. i’m currently 7 months pregnant so they did not opt for a CT scan. unfortunately this also means the only at home pain management i’ve been allowed is Tylenol, which isn’t really doing a whole lot. while in the hospital i was on IV Dilaudid and even that only brought the pain down to a manageable level.

Sunday i was feeling much better and was discharged, however the pain came back yesterday and today. not the same level as Saturday (where i was vomiting from it) but enough that i’ll have bouts of being unable to talk through it for 30-45 minutes at a time. once each episode ends i’m usually pretty okay until the next one (usually every few hours). because of the unpredictability and the fact that i can’t take anything stronger for the pain, i haven’t been able to work since it started.

i’ve never experienced this before and it’s not common in my family either, so while im waiting to meet with a urologist, im kind of navigating this blind. does any of this sound like it’s closer to passing? i’m already stressed about using my PTO for OB appointments & for when baby comes. this was not on my bingo card 🙃


r/KidneyStones 19h ago

Question/ Request for advice Who says stone, who says phlebolith?

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This has been causing me pain since the beginning of Dec 2025. Hospitalized several times for it initially, then clinically erased by conservative radiology reporting and conflicting reports. I cannot get care in my city (capital city, Southeast USA). It was first "sold" to me as a left sided, UVJ kidney stone. It was then finally measured at 11mm; by the Doctor who insists it's a phlebolith with no follow up or anything. It is inexplicable, and no it does not make sense. 2nd urologist said I peed it out and didn't notice it. Still there. No pain meds this entire time...

Just curious if they're any actual radiologists here, since you can see this from Mars


r/KidneyStones 20h ago

Question/ Request for advice First Surgery, Stent Pain Advice?

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I recently had laser lithotripsy and a stone basket retrieval for a stone I’ve had for a month now and I had a stent placed in my left ureter. As to be expected, it hurts like absolute hell when I use the restroom. My urologist gave me scripts for oxy, a bladder spasm medication, a stool softener, and pyridium but it still feels horrendous when I use the restroom. Do any of you have advice for distracting yourselves with this kind of pain?


r/KidneyStones 1d ago

Question/ Request for advice Surgery Tomorrow. Discharged from Hospital Today

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I've been going through a kidney stone nightmare since last month. A small (1mm according to CT, but my urologist said CT could be inaccurate by up to 3mm) kidney stone passed sometime during the last 3 weeks and has caused me some of the worst pain of my life. There's several small stones remaining in both kidneys, though based on how much pain I'm in, I wonder if one moved since my last scan the other night. I also am starting to wonder if maybe the ones I currently have in the kidney are causing pain, I know that isn't typical, but surely it's possible? I don't know if it matters, but the stones themselves are likely infected according to one of the medical professionals I saw (the last few days are a blur, I can't remember if it was a doctor, nurse or both who told me that). Could that be why they seem to hurt in the kidney?

It took multiple ER trips before I was taken seriously and finally admitted with a bad infection (had a couple markers for sepsis by the time I was admitted that thankfully resolved quickly once antibiotics were started). The one ER practitioner repeatedly insisted that small/non obstructive/punctate stones don't cause pain and decided I was constipated before she discharged me. (My discharge papers still mentioned a UTI and kidney stones, the things the provider said weren't the issue so make of that what you will.). I was back in the ER and admitted with the infection the next day. I was on continuous antibiotics via IV since Saturday night.

The pain is horrendous. I never would have thought such a small stone could do all this. One nurse theorized that the stone passing at the time though small was extra spikey and sharp. I unfortunately didn't catch it for analysis despite using a strainer almost every time.

I've been miserable all month, and while I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel, I'm nervous about what comes next. I am sure there's a lot of swelling and irritation contributing to the pain. The infection didn't help, and the stones are likely holding bacteria so that's why the stones in my kidney will be removed too despite being so small.

They're doing a cystoscopy and uteroscopy with laser lithotripsy and evacuating the stones in both kidneys. They are going to place bilateral stents. The last time I needed a stent, I didn't tolerate it and it had to be removed immediately, so I'm especially nervous about having 2 placed.

I'm no stranger to kidney stones. Been getting them since I graduated and I'm in my 30s now. This has just been a mess. I'm at a loss as I've been unable to manage the pain at home, hence the multiple ER trips. This is probably one of the worst episodes I've had with kidney stones, and I've passed two at once before. Something similar happened last year too, but it had been managed better and addressed quicker.

I am home now and struggling to find relief, but I'm determined to make it until tomorrow. The meds they gave me don't seem to make much of a dent in the pain.

Any tips for how to manage until tomorrow and after surgery would be appreciated. Give me your weirdest tricks, I am desperate for relief. Tips for how to handle the stents would be wonderful too, it's been a long time since I had a stent since the last one had to be removed.

Sorry this is so long. Thanks for reading and I appreciate any advice, tips and tricks.

Also, do small stones cause anyone else excruciating pain too? Seriously, I feel like my larger stones weren't this rough, and that one provider said they don't, yet here I am feeling like I'm being shredded from the inside.

Edit to add: in case it's relevant, I'm a woman, mid thirties.


r/KidneyStones 22h ago

Question/ Request for advice Looking for reddit that can provide me with educational information about kidney stone surgery.

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r/KidneyStones 22h ago

Question/ Request for advice Pain after passing stones (pregnant)

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My wife is 35 weeks pregnant and was diagnosed with kidney stones over the weekend. Yesterday she saw some milky/cloudy substance in her urine. I looked it up and apparently the stones can be coated in a mucus, which is what we hope we saw, and hope tiny stones were in. She felt better most of the evening, but had trouble sleeping comfortably, and is incredibly sore today. She said the pain is more like soreness than the sharp constant pains she initially felt that brought us to the ER on Saturday.

One concern is that for the amount of water she is drinking, she isn't urinating as much as we'd expect.

We don't know if her pain today means there are more stones, her organs are irritated, her body is sore from stress/straining, or if she's experiencing hydronephrosis.

How long did you experience pain/discomfort after passing kidney stones? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you