I know I’m not like most posters here with crazy income and RSUs but I wanted to share and hopefully motivate those in here constantly worrying about how can a young person can survive in this world and achieve the status of what perceive as successful before the big market changes and economic land scape changed.

I am 29y/o I did not come from money I was a classic lower middle class person grew up in a house but first car, college, work was something that I had to figure out.

I watched my parents spend every cent that came in and were paycheck to paycheck and buying a life they couldn’t afford (cars repoed, foreclosure notices in the mailbox, my birthday gift (a used ATV) getting repossessed at a young age.

Joined the army right after school because I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life. A year later I decided to go ROTC to commission as an officer in the National Guard. In university I picked a unsexy program that had good outcome to make 80/90k immediately after grad.

1st year salary 85k
2nd year 90k
3rd year: 120k
4th year 150k
5th year 180k
6th 250k + 20-50k performance bonus

Today I just hit 750k invested and have a 850k net worth.

I don’t have the “time in the saddle” to give advice but here’s the things I believe helped me.

1) Work hard, really hard but in the right place. A McDonald’s worker and a Program manager work very hard but their bills don’t show that similarity in work ethic.
2) Do something that teaches discipline (join military, join a sports team, be consistent in something and do it when you don’t feel like it). This will carry over into all parts of your life (work, investing, goal making/accomplishing)
3) Live below your means and don’t get caught up in your friends buying the fancy car or a house they can’t afford or go on the trips that they put in credit cards. Your time will come just be patient.
4) Marry the right partner: someone aligned with a fun and stress free retirement and willing to delay gratification and work as a team to hit your goals and not one saving while one spends it.
5) invest early and often and do it into boring ETFs you will not find the next Google or NVDA spend your time developing your career/networking to make more money it is far easier than stock analysis
6) Understand THINGS TAKE TIME. Enjoy the journey not the destination your future self will thank you.

I have a long way to go and I’m not a doctor/big tech/ investment banker like a lot of the crazy income posts here and it can still all come crashing down. But if you follow what I think are good tenants to live by you will be at the right finish line with the right people. RELAX you thinking about this makes you a rare percent of the population regardless.

Take care and keep moving!

For context, I'm an American living in Europe and this is just a vent sesh. I genuinely don't know how regular folks are scraping by.

My salary has grown from $90k to $250k the last 5 years (got my masters and advanced from start up mid-senior level to staff level in big tech)

but everything has gotten so expensive over that time frame that I don't feel like I've gotten any farther ahead even though I'm earning nearly 3x more.

Most consumer tech products are outrageously expensive due to "AI". Travel is nuts. What used to be a $1300 premium economy ticket to visit my parents is now almost $3000. Regular economy is $1200 now.

My wife and I were considering relocating to the Bay Area, but there's hardly any apartments available for less than $5k a month in a relatively safe neighborhood....then we get to the economy in general. I have this sinking feeling that things are gonna get worse.

How's everyone else feeling currently? I'd be interested to gauge the proverbial room so to speak lol. I don't have many people in the country I'm living because the average salary is $600/mo and it's been at war for years now (which is a whole nother topic).

Edit: I'm not disputing that $250k isn't comfortable. it is. I just don't feel like I'm moving ahead any faster than I was when I was earning 1/3rd.

What’s up HENRY fam, looking to make a big purchase (vehicle) and while I went to be very confident and comfortable with the idea, I’m reverting back to my save only mindset. For transparency, I’m an over thinker and planner, I’ve always tried to optimize for investing. Disclaimer I am Canadian and all numbers below are in CAD if it matters.

The Purchase: 2024 BMW M3 Comp ($90K-$100K)

HHI: $500K ($175K wife, $200K myself + bonus depending on the year, $137K in side income)

Family: 4 in total with 2 little ones. I’m 38 this year, partner will be 36

Assets: $1.4-$1.5M home market value, $1.1-$1.2M rental property (not included in HHI number above), $850K in investments (across TFSA and RRSP aka Canadian registered accounts) and it should hit $1M by Feb of next year. Education funds and in trust accounts setup for both kids.

Debt: $890K primary residence mortgage, $1M rental property mortgage (variable rates screwed me the past 5 years), $37K auto loan which will be paid off prior to new purchase

Savings Rate: $1,200 biweekly (paused this for now to pay off car loan, should be done in Feb 2027), $17,500 a year via wife’s contribution and company match, my entire side income $137K when annualized. Potentially $185,700 savings but call it $150K as a buffer.

The Story: My wife and I both work from home, so for the past 5 years we have only had 1 car. With the kids growing, we are now at a point where having a 2nd car for convenience, activities, and life just seems unavoidable. My dream was always to have a Corvette, but it’s not something that makes sense with 2 little kids. As a compromise, I’ve thought to look at the M3 as that’s always been a childhood dream of mine as well. My plan is to buy used, and to put down $20-$30K and finance the rest at a rate of 4.95% and pay it off aggressively. The rental property is something we may look to sell in the next couple of years.

We will also be looking to move in the next 3-5 years to what we feel would be our forever home, especially as housing corrects here in Toronto. I would have this auto loan paid off by then.

My side income has grown steadily over the years, and this year it has really taken off. It is proving to be sticky and I have line of sight into the income to at least the end of 2027. If that were to go away, we could still “afford” the car while saving, although it might be slightly less than $1,200 biweekly.

I’ve always made the right decision and do not spend in a lot of other areas of our lives. We don’t care for brands, we prefer travel over things. I know the car is technically a thing, but it’s something I’ve always wanted.

Our goal is to ultimately retire between 55-60, we both enjoy our work and don’t see ourselves retiring any sooner. Our goal is to hit $5M in liquid investments (in today’s dollars) before we decide to retire.

Should I stop thinking about this and be irresponsible, or should I stick to old habits? How do you break the mold of optimizing for investments?

Anyone else feel social media has made us out of touch with reality? It’s created such an unnecessary, unhealthy comparison game.

And Ive fallen victim to it myself. Early 30s, almost due with my first baby. Live in Chicago. On average we make 500K HHI combined. Closer to 600K this year because Ill have a good year.

I sit on social media and tell myself that its fine money, but not great money compared to everyone else. Having an epiphany that I need to get off the internet and be grateful for what I have. Curious if anyone else feels like this. I miss the pre social media days.

I’m not sure how this is going to come off, but I’m looking to see if anyone else is in this boat. I currently don’t have any financial goals. I don’t know when I want to retire, my student loans are paid, I have an emergency fund, my cars are paid off, I do have a mortgage 1.1 left at 6%. Our hhi is about 900k ish. I save about 25% of pretax earnings. How the hell am I suppose to know what my household expenses will be 30 years from now? Have about 1.5 million in savings. 34. 2 kids and a wife that also works.

I know this is going to sound ridiculous but my whole life I’ve been working towards something. Crush school, then job, pay off loans, buy a home etc, but now idk what to work towards. I know I’m exceptionally fortunate, but I guess I’m asking for people that are/were in my position what are you doing now? How did you know what to do next?

I’m not looking for the meaning of life here, but just not sure what I should be doing next financially. Thank you

My partner and I are based in Europe, currently DINK but expecting our first child early next year.

Ages: 40 and 37
Combined income: ~$300k/year
Invested assets: ~$900k
Current savings rate: ~50–60%
Current city: very high cost of living, especially extremely high cost for childcare. Alternatively need to go part-time. We would also have to move to a new apartment for more space which would be much more expensive. And eventually pay for private school.

One of us has an opportunity to return to a previous employer in another city/country, 4 hours away. The salary increase is modest, but the job is much more secure and comes with a public-sector defined benefit pension, and much better social protection and health insurance for the partner and child. Employer paya
Private school.

The pension is:
Already vested at ~$2,300/month due to prior service. Returning would immediately bump jt to ~$2,600/month.
Increases by roughly $200/month of future pension income for every additional year worked. Inflation-protected.
Has favorable tax treatment (some pension tax is reimbursed/offset).

The new city is still HCOL, but housing and childcare are much better relative to income. Our social network is also stronger there. Of course we would have higher costs with two households and travel.

The alternative is staying in our current location, where pensions are mainly built through employer + employee capital contributions, and the public pension entitlement is relatively low (around $60/month per year worked). If we stay, we would have some family support. Would probably have to go part-time to care for oue child.

The challenge: we would be temporarily separated after the baby arrives. The person taking the new job would maintain a very high salary, but the partner staying behind currently has much stronger earning potential in the current city. Moving to the other city for them would reduce earnings potential significantly.

A smaller factor: the new employer offers 10 weeks of paid parental leave, compared with 4 weeks at the current employer (and additional time would need to be taken unpaid).

Our goal is financial independence (FI/FIRE), coast/barista fire in a couple of years, while also building a stable family life and spending precious time with our child in the early years.

How would you weigh:
- A valuable inflation-linked pension + better childcare economics?
- Staying together and keeping stronger dual-career earning potential? Although this would be severely offset in the first years for very high childcare costs, maybe private school later.
- Family support during the newborn phase?
- The impact on FI timeline?
- What would you prioritize?

I've been wondering about this for a while.

For those of you who have built a net worth of around $5M or more, what do you think made the biggest difference?

I'm in my early 30s and work in tech. I have a good career and save and invest consistently, but it's hard to see a straightforward path from a solid income to $5M.

Looking back, what were the highest-return decisions you made? Were there any risks that really paid off, or things you wish you'd started earlier?

I'm not looking for a magic formula, just interested in hearing real experiences from people who've actually done it.

Thanks!

I have about 10 years of experience in tech, with most of that time spent at Big Tech.

When I was a teenager, getting into Google was one of my biggest goals. I eventually achieved that, and later joined Meta. On paper, I’ve been very fortunate. I have a stable career, I don’t spend extravagantly, and my net worth is in a good place largely because of stock compensation. I also have a young family so I'm trying to also prioritize my very young kid.

The problem is that none of it seems to make me feel like I’ve done enough.

I constantly compare myself to people around me. I see engineers reaching Staff at a much younger age than I did. I see people younger than me starting companies, selling startups, becoming executives, or taking much bigger risks. Even though I know those are exceptional outcomes, I still use them as evidence that I’m behind.

What makes this especially confusing is that I already achieved the goal I once thought would make me feel successful. Instead of feeling satisfied, the goalposts just moved. First it was getting into a top company. Then it was promotions, compensation, net worth, influence, and entrepreneurship. There always seems to be another level that makes my current position feel inadequate.

I’m also genuinely unsure what I should pursue next. I could continue pushing toward Staff or beyond, move into management, try building something of my own, optimize for financial independence, or simply invest more in life outside work. But I have trouble distinguishing between goals I actually want and goals that only appeal to me because they carry status.

I don’t want to completely get rid of ambition. Part of me still wants to build difficult things, grow, and achieve more. But I would like to stop feeling as though my worth depends on being ahead of my peers.

Has anyone here experienced this after reaching goals that once felt extremely important?

How did you break the cycle of comparison without becoming complacent? And how did you decide which goals were genuinely yours rather than another attempt to prove that you were enough?

Thank you for the guidance.

I’m a software engineer in the bay, I’m quite lucky to be where I am at my age and I’m buying an investment property. I know it’s a lot of work and it’s not passive, but my parents have some property in my hometown, so I don’t really need to worry about maintenance/management outside of paying for stuff.

My main question for y’all is, how did you maximize the number of properties you own? I’m 20, and I can put aside 50-60k per year outside my 401k at my current income so I’m trying to understand how I can maximize my property holdings over the next 10-15 years. After my first property, I’m going to buy another in SF instead of paying rent, but outside that I don’t really have a plan.

This is not a shitpost, and yes I understand that the SPY probably will get me more returns but that’s not what I’m optimizing for. Thanks guys

Sorry of this is the wrong place to post but I'm just going to start off by being 200% honest. I have 2m tied up in an insurance trust

I make about 100k USD a year after tax and have 600k in investments aside from the trust. I also have a fully paid off house all thanks to my incredibly loving and hard working parents

My question is if I don't intend to touch the trust or house for the next 10-20 years at minimum, would it be realistic to finance or outright spend 300k on a car or is this a very irresponsible thing to do that kind of solely relies on the fact that I have my family as "backup" funding.

I work for a private tech company that offers a "Deferred Incentive Unit" program. There are about $350k worth (based on internal estimates) of shares that will vest if we ever have an IPO or private sale to another PE company. I noticed that my shares are class B and am worried that they'll get diluted to oblivion right before a private sale. It could be the proverbial carrot on a stick. Anyone have experience with this? Base income is only 127k so ~350k sounds too good to be true

I'm contemplating whether to splurge around $2k for upcoming long weekend? I'm planning a trip to NYC (I have been many times) but first time solo, and want to stay at hotels and planning to also go to US open one day. Flights + hotels + US open ticket and additional expense would probably come to around $2k. Is it worth it or is it too expensive?

for context I make around 250-300k. I'm 28, single and this would be my first long solo trip (3 nights, 4 days).

Posting here because I'd like perspective.

Early 30's DINK couple with projected HHI 700k this year. We haven't made this high of an income until the past 3 years and have several xxx,xxx of student loans. Husband makes the majority of our income currently and is in tech.

Before this, I grew up with very frugal parents and have a scarcity mindset ingrained from my upbringing.

The first six months of this year have been expensive with large one off expenses- large tax bill, unexpected purchase of new car, multiple life events (family weddings, vacations, and milestone birthdays) all in the past 4 months . We have been able to max out retirement accounts with an aggressive savings rate.

We agreed to be generous with family members and am gifting ~30k to family for various reasons in addition to paying for a family vacation.

Part of me is happy to do this and want to prioritize it but also struggle with stress that comes along with multiple large expenses like this. My partner feels like this shouldn't cause stress but there is a part of me that feels "projected income" and "wealth down the road" isn't guaranteed , especially in tech.

I think this is unique to being a young HENRY without wealth yet. Is this something others have encountered? If so, do you feel "better" after reaching certain net worth?

I realized something recently: I have investments, retirement accounts, cash, employer stock, insurance, a home loan, and a bunch of other financial pieces spread across different places.

It made me wonder…

How do people actually keep track of their overall financial picture?

I’m not talking about budgeting or tracking daily expenses.

I mean stepping back once a month (or quarter) and asking questions like:
Where do I stand overall?
Can I actually afford a major purchase?
Am I making progress toward my goals?
What changed since my last review?
So I’m curious:
Do you use a spreadsheet?
Do you rely on an app?
Do you just log into different accounts?
How often do you review everything?
What’s the most frustrating part of the process?

I’d especially love to hear from people who have multiple investment accounts, retirement savings, employer stock (RSUs/ESPP), property, loans, or other assets.
I’m trying to understand what real-world workflows look like and whether people have found a system they’re genuinely happy with.

How do you think about helping parents/family retire when you’re on track for early financial independence?

My wife and I are high earners, with a household income of roughly $800K, and assuming things continue going well, we’re on a path where we could potentially become financially independent relatively young. I grew up lower middle class by U.S. standards and I’m an only child, so the gap between where I came from and where we are now feels pretty significant.

I was on the phone with my dad recently when it suddenly hit me that he may be facing the exact opposite reality. If he wants to retire comfortably, he may need to continue working until around 70. For some reason, hearing him talk about continuing to work made the contrast between our situations feel very real. It also feels strange to suddenly find myself in the financial driver's seat relative to people I've always thought of as the adults who were supposed to take care of me. There's an odd role reversal in realizing that I may soon have the ability to materially change their lives, especially when the vast difference in our lifestyles already creates some friction.

We’re originally from an LCOL country, so eventually a relatively modest amount of money from us could probably make a meaningful difference in when he can stop working. Part of me feels that if we reach the point where we have enough money to make work optional for ourselves, it feels wrong to watch a parent work into his 70s when we could reasonably help.

The complication is our history. My dad wasn’t very present during much of my early childhood, which left my mom carrying most of the parenting burden. He did make a real effort to become more present starting around when I was 8, and I know he has regrets about not living with me. But becoming a parent myself has also given me a new appreciation for just how much my mom had to carry alone. So there’s a part of me that thinks: why should I now sacrifice for someone who didn't make those same sacrifices for me?

There’s also the contrast with other family members. My mom was always extremely supportive and has a pension, but would likely need some help if she eventually wanted to live near us in a HCOL area. I also have aunts who were, in some ways, more present and supportive in my life than my dad was and are in a similar financial position. It makes me wonder where the boundary is and whether helping one family member creates an expectation, even internally, that I should also be helping others who have been important in my life.

I don’t want our success to turn into an unlimited obligation to fund everyone in the extended family. But it also feels strange to imagine us retiring early and living very comfortably while people who were important in my life are still working primarily because they can’t afford not to.

For those of you who became financially successful beyond your parents or extended family:

How did you decide who to help and how much?

Did you treat supporting parents as part of your FI number?

How did you balance financial need against how supportive/present someone had actually been in your life?

Dual-income couple with 3 kids under 10 living in a VHCOL city (not NYC). We both have an opportunity to take on new roles in NYC in the coming year (a city we loved and spent a decade living in previously). Current HHI is 800K. Moving to NYC would push us closer to $1M with some additional runway to push closer to $1.5M in the next 3 years.

We own a $2.4M home in a desirable neighborhood. Newly updated, and with a sub 3% mortgage. I think we could cover the costs of the mortgage payment through renting the home.

Private school tuition currently covered through a very generous family member. Assumption is that this will continue with move.

Biggest concerns:

1. It seems like for a family our size you are not finding anything suitable in Manhattan for less than $10,000/month. We currently have live-in help, that seems like a non-starter in NYC.

2. We live VERY comfortably right now. Ski trips, summers in europe — I assume much of that gets cut with increased COL and tax burden.

3. We’ll feel poor. Assuming we do live on UES/UWS, we’ll be on the lower end of the income spectrum in the elite privates. Whereas now we feel totally in line with the population in our kids schools.

Base case: we remain where we are and pass up interesting opportunities but still keep a comparable income trajectory that could put us on track in a few years for one of us slowing down or a big ticket purchase — second home, pool, etc.

I know we could move to summit, white plains, north shore, Scarsdale, Hoboken, etc. But, if we wanted to be in a gorgeous suburb, we could stay where we are..

My previous post generated an awesome discussion, honestly, thank you all!

After reading hundreds of responses, I started noticing a pattern: many people who reached a $1M+ net worth before 40 also started investing in their late teens or early 20s.

That made me curious about a different age group.

I’m interested in hearing from people who, like me, didn’t begin investing until their 30s or even 40s and still made a 1M+ net worth.

I’d love to know:

What was the biggest factor in your success?

How much of this do you think timing and the economy helped (for example: pre-2008, post-2008, pre-COVID housing boom, AI, etc…)?

Also, If you were starting today in your 30s or 40s, what would you focus on? I have most of my money in an interest-bearing savings account. Currently with about $12,000 in it I add $200 to it every week. And roughly $5000 in a maxed out 401(k) that I started in January. I also have no debt besides school.

I don’t expect this post to be so popular like the previous one, but I think I’m getting to a more quality-based discussion as I break down my thoughts to you guys.

Hey guys, this is long so thanks in advance to everyone who reads it and puts in their opinion.
For context I’m in Australia

I’m looking for some outside opinions on a situation with my employer and a minority shareholding.

A couple of years ago I bought a minority stake in the business using borrowed money, and I still have about $250k of debt attached to those shares. The business is currently valued at around 6-7 million.
I bought 5% at a 5 mill Val.

As part of the original arrangement, I’m also due to receive an additional 3% ownership over the next two years (1.5% each year), but this hasn’t been formally documented yet. I know, I’ll do this straight away. One year has passed which is why I own 6.5%

The majority shareholder is now looking to sell the business. On one hand, that makes me nervous. On the other, it may be the perfect opportunity for me to buy a much larger stake to match their offer, or even acquire control of the company myself. I think he would prefer to sell it to me rather than a large company as I’ve been running most of it for a few years now.

The problem is that I’m young, and taking on that level of debt is honestly terrifying.

My concerns are:
If an outside buyer acquires a controlling interest, they’ll have enough voting power to make almost all major decisions.

They could potentially restructure the business, move profitable operations into another entity, change dividend policies, or otherwise reduce the value of the minority shareholders’ interests.

Even if they don’t do anything improper, I could end up owning a much less valuable minority stake with very little influence. They could also run it into the ground. On the other hand, they may triple the business in the next few years, who knows.

For context, I’m one of the key employees and effectively run most of the day-to-day operations already. The current owner is nearing retirement and isn’t heavily involved operationally anymore. I don’t think my job itself is at risk, but I’m very concerned about protecting the value of my investment.

Current ownership is approximately:
Majority shareholder: 57%
Investor: 20%
Employee A: 10%
Employee B (me): 6.5%
Employee C: 6.5%

The remaining 3% I’m supposed to receive would increase my holding to 9.5%.

I’m considering several options:

- Borrow heavily and try to buy out the majority shareholder (or potentially both major shareholders) to gain control of the business.

- Buy only the majority shareholder’s stake while keeping the existing investor involved as someone with significant business experience. He just sold a similar company for 9 figures.

- Buy the investor’s stake instead and become a larger minority shareholder.

- Sell my shares and move on.

- Insist that me and Employee C’s remaining 3% each is legally transferred before any sale proceeds. This would bring the voting power down enough so they don’t have majority (75% needed)

- Do nothing and hope the new owners are good operators who grow the business.

What makes this such a difficult decision is that opportunities to buy into, or buy out, a successful business like this don’t come around very often. If I pass on it and someone else buys it, I may regret it for the rest of my life. But if I take on millions of dollars of debt at 25 and things don’t go to plan, it could also be a financial disaster.

If you were in my position:
Would you take the opportunity to buy the business?
How much would minority shareholder risk concern you?
What legal protections would you insist on before a sale?
Have you ever taken a big leap like this, and how did it work out?

I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who’s bought into a private company, acquired a business, or been a minority shareholder through a change of ownership.

Thanks again

I’m 35 and comfortable managing my own finances with Quicken for my overall picture (RIP Mint & Personal Capital) and ChatGPT to answer specific question.

My alternative is to pay a financial planner thousands of dollars a year, which doesn’t seem right since my life doesn’t feel complex enough to justify that, especially when cash flow is one of my biggest priorities and every dollar counts.

My biggest risk with DIY isn’t getting a question wrong, but not knowing which questions I should be asking in the first place, and I am feeling like I am leaving money and opportunities on the table because I am not on things 24/7.

Has anyone found something between doing everything yourself and hiring a traditional advisor?

My husband and I are 33. We have one child who is almost 2 and just started trying for another. Two and a half years ago, I accepted a new job (current job) that raised my salary from 60k to 95k, and then I found out I was pregnant the next day. My job is almost a unicorn, it's remote, I'm good at it, and have a great boss. The only downside is that I'm hourly and I would like a little more flexibility, that's work. I'm also the only one in my company who does my job. Before I started, the CEO said my task would never get cleaned up, and I've done an excellent job at getting everything in order.

For the last few months, I've been struggling with the idea of being a SAHM. We currently have a nanny, so I get to see my baby throughout the day and hear them play. But as they get older, I want to spend more time with them and teach them things, do activities, etc. But the thought of a career break is scary. I probably wouldn't go back until our potential 2nd child is 2 or almost 3.

My field is niche (specific type of healthcare administration), and of course I worry about the threat of AI. With bonuses, I currently make 110k, and my husband makes 185k. If I take a break, I could probably get a job that pays around 80k, which is a significant reduction and wouldn't be that much after childcare expenses.

I'm struggling with balancing the short term pain with the long term benefits. I can see myself staying my current company long term. But I would also love being a FT mom. Without childcare, we can keep expenses to less than 5k. Excluding our home, we have a NW of 1.1M. Our only debt is our mortgage at 2.9%. My income would definitely help us move into our dream/forever home in a few years and allow us to do a lot of extra activities or travel, or comfortably send our kids to my ideal private school.

I would appreciate any insight from people who have been in a similar situation. Thanks!

I’ve been lurking here for a while, and this sub has made me think a lot about what actually creates wealth versus just a good income.

A little about me:
24 years old
Make around $150k/year in residential real estate sales
I’ve sold 150+ off-market homes to investors
Sales is definitely my strongest skill, and I genuinely enjoy it

The thing I’ve been struggling with is that I’m starting to feel like I’m getting really good at making other people wealthy. I know how to source deals, negotiate, and build relationships, but I don’t own much that compounds over time.

I don’t mind working hard, and I’m not looking for a shortcut. I just don’t want to wake up at 35 realizing I spent a decade optimizing for commissions instead of ownership.
If you were mentoring someone in my position, where would you tell me to focus over the next 5–10 years?

Would you:

Stay in sales and stack as much capital as possible?
Start my own acquisitions business?
Start buying rental properties?
Buy a small business?
Go in a completely different direction?

I’d especially love to hear from people who were in sales in their 20s and eventually built real wealth. Looking back, what would you have done differently?

Does everyone change up their finances each year once OASDI stops getting deducted from paychecks? Given timing of bonus and generally increase this will happen sooner and sooner each year. Forgot about this and now have an extra $1k a month for investing etc. which will then go away at year end

How do I maximize this opportunity? Here’s my current plan:

- Max out solo 401k and employer match
- Max out HSA and FSA
- Learn about Roth/backdoor/megabackdoor bc idk anything about them and feel like I need to?

Also:

- I’m 40, have no debt, no mortgage (I live in short term rentals where the work is and travel a lot for work), no kids, not married
- Debating bringing on my first FTE to help me grow the business farther than I can do solo
- Keep 6mo expenses liquid for emergency fund
- Invest the rest in index funds.

I know most of wealth building isn’t novel and it’s always the same stuff, but is there anything I’m missing? I tried to hire a financial planner but they never seem to understand FIRE.

What should I be thinking about?
What am I missing?

Title. Most of my NW comes from stocks
31% QQQ
52% S&P index
16% international fund
(I realize that’s 99)

That’s split 115k in 401k
170k in taxable brokerage

25k emergency in HYSA

Not really sure what to do with my next 300k I make, just stay the course with stocks? I’m at a job that could turn unsustainably soul crushing at a moments notice but for now is really fulfilling and enjoyable, and I don’t see myself leaving my career field (software).

I’m really concerned that I could be “buying freedom” faster and that I’m in a really risky spot. I can invest about 90k or so per year (maybe more maybe less depending on 401k and my spending) and my pay tends to be higher since it’s RSU and my company has done well and I believe will continue to do so.

Any advice for somebody like me? Just fielding options really, I don’t feel doom and gloom, but concerned I’ll be working a soulless corporate job till I’m 90 despite all this. Appreciate any perspective!

I have this hunch that most high earners are pretty good at figuring out “the game”. Do this then that, okay now I make a few hundred grand a year.

I feel many apply that learning ability to other parts of their life and win at more than just finance.

Are you good at most things you try? Maybe a sport or a video game, with little effort you kind of just figure it out and win pretty easily.