r/FriendsOver40 23d ago

NO DATING TYPE (R4R) POSTS ARE ALLOWED. PLEASE READ THE RULES.

33 Upvotes

There has been an influx of dating posts (R4R type) recently and this is NOT the place for that. If you post this type of message in our sub, you will be permanently banned and muted. We have a zero tolerance policy on that.

This includes:
• (R4R)
• Seeking “platonic friends” of the opposite sex
• Seeking “penpals” of the opposite sex

PLEASE READ THE RULES!


r/FriendsOver40 8h ago

43F looking for new friends to expand my horizons

15 Upvotes

City mouse type who somehow ended up living the homesteading life in rural America. I don’t see many people in my day-to-day life so it can be a little lonely out here. My favorite thing is traveling the world, meeting new people (difficult to do with a farm), so penpals from all over the globe are welcome and encouraged!

I love history, literature, and food (especially spicy food!). I also try a new hobby every season, although I still haven’t decided what to do for summer. If you have any suggestions I would love to hear! What do you love to do?


r/FriendsOver40 4h ago

Turning 40 soon!

6 Upvotes

Hi, basically here looking for friends. Nothing spicy or whatnot, just looking for adults who understand that there are other things in life than online chatting.

I can listen or read any problems that you may have, give silly advice, crack some useless jokes or just be a friend. DM me!


r/FriendsOver40 4h ago

38M punk dad who loves nature

4 Upvotes

hey I am rapidly approaching 40 and have no friends!

I love punk, folk, metal, Motown and plenty In between when it comes to music.

last book I read and loved was Mordew by Alex Pheby.

my favourite film is Donnie Darko.

I play bass guitar and go on hikes(or starting to) with my dog.

I am obsessed with all things paranormal and spooky! So if you are a ghost, demon, cryptid or alien. Definitely get in touch!


r/FriendsOver40 7h ago

40M in the Eastern US. Are you a parent with any of the following hobbies:

6 Upvotes

Watching TV shows or movies 15 minutes at a time while you chug your morning coffee before everyone else in the house wakes up.

Doing puzzles or gaming in that 20 minute window between when the kids fall asleep and when you fall asleep.

Reading books on your Kindle app while sitting in your car on lunch break because it's the longest stretch of peace and quiet you get in a given day.

If any of these sound like you, we should totally be friends


r/FriendsOver40 5h ago

43F looking to connect with people in a similar stage of life

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m 43 and recently started a new chapter in life. After spending many years running my own business, I decided to step away from the daily routine and slow things down a little.

I’ve been enjoying having more time for myself, but I’ve also realized I miss meaningful conversations and connecting with people who share similar interests.

One thing I’ve been spending more time on lately is investing. I’ve always enjoyed learning about businesses and the markets, and over the years I’ve had some good experiences investing. Recently, I’ve been following the market more closely, learning from the changes, and looking for new opportunities.

Outside of investing, I enjoy cooking, traveling, exploring new places, and learning new things. I’d love to connect with genuine people in the US who are around my age and enjoy talking about life, investing, experiences, and the things they’re passionate about.

Hopefully meet some great people and build some meaningful friendships along the way


r/FriendsOver40 2m ago

I’d love to see a movie

Upvotes

But I don’t know which one. And I don’t know if I want to go alone. And I don’t know if there are people out there that won’t make hanging out and going to a movie into a thing.

45/f/OKC


r/FriendsOver40 4h ago

41M Canadian. Looking to make friends with someone from Denmark, Sweden or Norway.

2 Upvotes

r/FriendsOver40 10h ago

54/F - Cruise enthusiast up for a chat with other cruisers

5 Upvotes

Who likes cruises? I’m interested in hearing your most and least favorite cruise experiences. I would also like to see if anyone is interested in cruising as a group.

With that said, I prefer to chat with those actively cruising or looking to cruise in the very near future. If you reach out, please make the very first line the cruise line you sail or would like to sail and from which port you usually sail. (I will ignore everything else.)


r/FriendsOver40 7h ago

46m Wednesdays are crazy! 😵‍💫

4 Upvotes

I work in the medical field, and Wednesdays over here are bonkers. Absolutely looking forward to some chat buddies today. Platonic only. I’ve got jokes (mostly bad ones), stories (mostly weird ones), and one liners (mostly, uh, one line). Here’s to making it halfway!! 🤘🏻🤘🏻


r/FriendsOver40 9h ago

40M Danish. looking for chill conversations and new people to talk to

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I’m a 40-year-old guy from Denmark who enjoys meeting new people and having good conversations. I’m a dad, and when I get some free time I’m usually into tech, photography, nature, movies, or listening to music.

I’m here for relaxed and genuine chats. Nothing complicated—sometimes it’s just a short conversation, other times it turns into talking for days about random things, life, or whatever comes up.

People from Europe are a bit of a bonus since the time zones make it easier to keep a conversation going, but anyone friendly is welcome.

If you feel like chatting, tell me:

• What’s the last really good movie you watched?

Feel free to send a message if you want a relaxed conversation. And if you’re curious, you can always check my profile 👍


r/FriendsOver40 10h ago

42m - Looking for new friends to get to know!

2 Upvotes

Looking to make some new friends!
I’m 42, married, and a dad of two. Between work and family, it can be tough finding people with the same interests, so I figured I’d put myself out there.
My biggest hobby is gaming—video games, board games, TCGs and puzzles. I’m also a D&D Dungeon Master, currently writing my own fantasy novel, and I’m always up for talking world-building, characters, or anything fantasy.
Outside of that, I’m a huge fan of Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Marvel, DC, WWE, and just about anything that brings back that awesome ’80s/‘90s nostalgia. If you miss Blockbuster Video, Toys “R” Us, or Saturday morning cartoons, we’ll get along just fine.
I’m hoping to meet people around my age (give or take) who enjoy similar things. I’m in the US so I prefer talking to someone in those time zones. Bonus points if you’re also a parent, a gamer, or just someone who enjoys good conversations about nerdy stuff.
One thing to mention up front: I don’t drink or use 420—just not my thing.
If any of this sounds like you, send me a message! Always happy to meet fellow parent geeks, gamers, and nostalgic souls.


r/FriendsOver40 19h ago

48F OKC: Seeking Friends

9 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m curious to know if there’s anyone out there who enjoys the same things as me & is looking for a new friend as well! Crime junkie, smut reader, working out; would also love to find someone who can help me explore things I’ve never tried before, such as hobbies, bars, etc. Oh, I love kayaking, but rarely go, and I enjoy hiking, but definitely not in this heat. I also like just hanging out and talking. I do have friends, but none of them get the full-uncensored version of me, so I’m looking for someone I can truly be myself with.


r/FriendsOver40 11h ago

What if you could go back in time to some point in history as an observer?

2 Upvotes

Not to live in that time but to see how things were back then, where would it be and when?


r/FriendsOver40 1d ago

Really could do with someone rn

32 Upvotes

Hi, im 44f from Wales. I have 4 lovely boys and a job i used to love going to. But seems i enjoy nothing atm. I have been struggling with mental health issues for only a few months. Looking for someone to chat to daily, bit of a distraction or be able to rant with out fear of judgement.

This is the first time in my whole life that I feel like im fading. I kmow no one will help me understand it but at least I hope, talking to a stranger will lift a load off


r/FriendsOver40 19h ago

Let’s See Who Reddit Introduces Me To

7 Upvotes

East Coast girl who briefly traded Pennsylvania for Texas while finishing my master’s before making my way back home.

I enjoy wandering thrift stores looking for treasures, tending my flower garden, trying a new craft brewery, mixing a good cocktail, decorating my house, planning my next road trip, or getting lost in a book.

I’m happiest with people who are respectful, emotionally intelligent, and communicative. If you enjoy conversations that take unexpected twists and turns, we’ll probably get along just fine.


r/FriendsOver40 9h ago

A Rolling Stone

1 Upvotes

42M with a travel gig. I've been around the world, served my country, and am trying to get back to a place where I can build a life. I'm looking for someone to talk to about life and send funny memes. I'm not religious, and I am fairly introverted.


r/FriendsOver40 23h ago

Tell Me Something Unexpected

8 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm 46F, originally from Germany, currently living in the Dominican Republic. I work remotely, love surfing, good conversations, learning random things (currently acupuncture), and I'm always curious about what makes people tick.

I've noticed that a lot of the "looking for friends" posts start with great intentions but then quietly disappear. So I thought I'd try something different.

I came across a list of conversation prompts and thought it might be a fun, low-pressure way to get to know people. Feel free to answer and if someone's answer resonates with you, jump into the conversation.

I'll start with this one:

"What did you avoid making worse today?"

Mine is in the comments :)


r/FriendsOver40 18h ago

New Widower

3 Upvotes

I'm a new Widower in Vegas a very big home body looking for talk chatting anything to stop the quiet


r/FriendsOver40 20h ago

New friends!

2 Upvotes

Hey ya! Im 45 looking for people to chat with love rock music gardening opshopping and just being happy! Life is dull these days so say hi!


r/FriendsOver40 23h ago

46 and falling apart 🤭

3 Upvotes

Hello all, I'm 46 and currently going thru health issue hell. I had 4 back surgeries from December to February and I just had my 5th yesterday. I'll be going home tomorrow.

I'm hoping to make some friends that won't constantly ask me how my back is ( I get enough of that from my family). Tell me stupid jokes, talk about funny shows to watch. I'm going to be in my house for a while and I'm hoping if you're bored you might send me a message. A


r/FriendsOver40 21h ago

41M - Here if you need a friend!

2 Upvotes

Hey I know how hard nights can be. I’m just hanging out tonight. Could use an interesting conversation. I love meeting new people. If you’re looking for a friend or just need to vent, send me a message. You’re not alone!


r/FriendsOver40 18h ago

40s M US looking for new friends

1 Upvotes

hi I’m into movies especially horror and MCU and DC movies. I’m into rock and metal music and I’m 420 friendly. if anyone wants to chat message me anytime and DMs are open for anyone!!


r/FriendsOver40 23h ago

38 M introvert in search of a good friendship

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I'm a 38-year-old guy living in the South Surrey area looking to make some genuine platonic friends.

A bit about me:

I'm into hiking, walks by the beach, coffee, meditation, and meaningful conversations.

I enjoy learning new things, whether it's psychology, personal growth, or even a bit of astronomy and astrology.

I'm not much of a party person these days. I prefer relaxed hangouts over coffee, exploring local parks, grabbing a bite to eat, or checking out new places around Metro Vancouver.

I'm hoping to meet people around my age who are looking for real friendships. It would be great to have people to hang out with on days off, go for hikes, hit the gym, or just chat about life.

If you're looking for a genuine, drama-free friend, feel free to send me a message. Always happy to meet new people.

Thanks for reading!


r/FriendsOver40 1d ago

Looking for my daily chat buddy

12 Upvotes

Hi there!

41m here looking for a friend that I can chat with on a daily basis about everything and anything.

I have a wide range of interests, lately I've been listening to old time radio or podcasts to help pass the time at work.

Huge bonus points if you play Xbox =)

I also love the outdoors, camping and fishing mostly.

I enjoy hearing paranormal stories, especially if its based on real life experiences.

Im a good listener and await to hear your story.