I’m a peaceful person and I don’t like drama.
I get unwanted attention A LOTTT. And even though I act confident it still affects me
How do you deal with unwanted attention without letting it ruin your day? Any advice?

haiii ppl!!! i'm Ell :3

20yo, boiii, pan

I spend most of my time listening to music, watching movies, playing games, or getting lost in my own little world lol. I adore quiet conversations, silly moments, and people who get excited over the smallest things and yuppp I find joy in the little things!

I love nature so much.. animals, bugs, plants, flowers, just all of it. and I'm always take pics of random little things that catch my eye and I love editing photos just for fun. I also love trading music, sharing random thoughts, and talking abt literally anything.

btw I'm pan so gender doesn't matter to me at all. if you're kind, open-minded, and looking for a genuine friend, I'd really love to get to know you (if you don't accept that so pls DNI)

sometimes I love being all whimsical and finding magic in little things but sometimes my mind gets really dark too lol.. dw tho nothing's creepy XD

a safe place to everyone, so come say haiii :3

People who ask for safe spaces and call them selfs open minded, are people who don't like to be proven wrong or argued

Same as for people who are totally closed minded

It's just an opinion,

Hi everyone,

​I'm looking for some realistic insight into the current social and legal landscape regarding accommodation in Benghazi.

​My partner and I are an unmarried Egyptian couple, and we are planning to spend about a month in Benghazi. We are wondering if we will face any major issues or strict scrutiny when trying to book accommodation (like hotels or short-term apartment rentals) together.

​Do hotels or landlords strictly demand a marriage certificate for foreign couples?

​Are there specific areas, types of rentals, or booking platforms (like Airbnb) where we would face fewer questions?

​Are there any safety or legal risks we should be highly aware of?

​Any advice, tips, or experiences would be greatly appreciated.

I'm curious about marriage and dating norms in Libya, particularly when it comes to Libyan men and foreign women.

I've often heard that many Libyan families prefer their sons to marry within Libya, or even within the same tribe or social circle, and that marrying a foreigner can sometimes be difficult to get family approval for. I'm wondering how accurate that is in reality.

I'm also curious whether factors like family background, tribe, or socioeconomic status make a difference. For example, are wealthier or more prominent families generally more likely to expect their children to marry within certain tribes or families, making a foreign spouse less acceptable? Or is it actually the opposite in some cases?

How much do tribe, family reputation, education, religion, and social class influence these decisions today? Are attitudes different between generations or between people living in Libya versus the diaspora?

I'd really appreciate hearing from Libyans or people with firsthand experience.

بنسأل لو في حد مجرب من قبل عمري فوق 17 بس مزال مش قانوني اني نقدر نطلع بروحي بنسأل مفيش اجراءات او اوراق معينه نقدر نديرها تساعدني نطلع عادي كل شي عندي سوا من فلوس او اجراءات just في اجراء واحد الي هو موافقة ولي الامر مفيش حل لها؟ او دولة تقبل ب reason معين يخليهم يديرو هك؟

Does anyone know a payment method that wouldn’t show my information? Other than رصيد obviously

جديد هنا وحاول كون صداقات نلطلعوا بيها من جو الانطوائية dm مفتوح

I’m actually surprised because I was almost the straightest man on earth but I don’t really know what happened till I found myself more like a bisexual/gay person and I’ve been looking for some communities and gay boys/men

Given that almost all abrahamic religions believe that Eve was made in heaven from Adam's rib, which is contradicting to science and I'll explain why,

If you guys are interested I'll start making posts regarding how almost all abrahamic religions contradict science.

We know that us humans we carry 46 chromosomes 23 set of each parent, and we have 2 chromosomes (1 of each parent) that determine our sex.

X= female
y= male

For Females we carry XX

XX = Female.

X = from the ova (the ova aka the female egg cell only provides X chromosome)
X = from the sperm

But when it comes to Males. They carry the genotype of Xy therefore

Xy= male

Again X = from the ova
Y= from the sperm.

Therefore it's impossible for men to exist without the chromosome X which led scientists to discuss if chromosome Y is an evolutionary mutation form of the original chromosome X. Discussing that Y looks like a cropped X therefore it's impossible for Adam to exist as the first man without a female prior to his existence, and even on a survival level females are less likely to express recessive weak genes due to the fact that they're carrying two copies of the same chromosome unlike males, unfortunately they lack that backup. Which is why we see more recessive conditions on men like inherited baldness and colour blinding.

The myth would make a little bit more sense if their god claimed that eve existed prior to Adam given females (XX chromosomes) can be created and could survive without the need for Y chromosome unlike men, they won't be existing if they lacked the X chromosome.

It's inane to me how people still believe in such fairy tails when sciences proved that it's absurd decades ago.

Attached, you guys can see for you self both the male and female chromosomes and you can clearly notice the size difference.

I hope my lesson was useful for you today :)

hello everyone.

Lately the pressure from my family on me to propose to a girl have been higher than to easily ignore.

I can't be a real husband in short I could say I am gay but there's more to the story, and I am not going to ruin a straight girl's life and my life by marrying a Muslim woman who'd later find out in her own way of seeing me that I am perverted.

so if there's any woman here even older than me who is looking for a lavender-marriage and is willing to try and be friends with me and see if we can share a house and meet the society expectations together then please tell her to DM me.

Hey everyone,

This might sound a bit weird, but I'm genuinely curious.

I'm in my early 20s and still a virgin. Lately I've been wondering if sex is really as big of a deal as people make it out to be, or if it's just my hormones making me overthink it.

I've honestly thought about having a safe, one-time experience with someone who's in a similar situation or just looking for the same thing. No relationship, no drama—just curiosity and wanting to know what it's actually like.

Has anyone here done something similar? Did it help, or did you end up wishing you'd waited?

Please keep it respectful. I'm just looking for honest opinions because I don't really know where else to ask.

أهلاً بكم في المساحة الأسبوعية المخصصة للتعارف والتواصل بين أعضاء المجتمع.

تم إنشاء هذا المنشور الأسبوعي المثبت ليكون المكان المخصص للأعضاء الراغبين في التعارف، بناء صداقات، أو البحث عن أشخاص يشاركونهم نفس الخلفية والأفكار والاهتمامات.

• يمكنكم ترك تعليق في الأسفل يوضح اهتماماتكم، أو التواصل مباشرة مع الأعضاء الذين تركوا تعليقاتهم بالفعل.
• كما يمكنكم الإنضمام إلى سيرفر الديسكورد الخاص بالمجتمع عبر الضغط هنا.

يرجى العلم أنه لن يُسمح بعد الآن بنشر منشورات فردية للتعارف أو طلبات التواصل ، وسيتم حذفها تلقائياً للحفاظ على تنظيم السوبريديت.

I see and get that most of you saw my post about me getting physical and emotionally abused and neglected as well, even tho im not doing anything wrong, the stupid thing is my dad having this illusion that he can control the fact that i can go to jannah or not, when i pray or etc he says "haha look at him praying, "son u aint going to jannah because im غاضب عليك"

How does that make sense??? Why am i going to hell because my dad is delulu... He literally called me a غاضيب because his phone didn't charge when he used my charger... HOW does that make me a غضيب and bow does that make me go to hell??? This is like religion abuse.

Am i actually going to hell? Over my dad getting mad on small stuff???

Im really a mess not only im homosexual and trying so hard to be normal its just ive been dealing with physical abuse and emotional abuse and neglect from family for the past 16 years of my life , libya has no child protection and i cant go spend the nights at any relatives house since my dad js wants me to be in pain

Any solutions?

أهلاً بكم في المساحة الأسبوعية المخصصة للتعارف والتواصل بين أعضاء المجتمع.

تم إنشاء هذا المنشور الأسبوعي المثبت ليكون المكان المخصص للأعضاء الراغبين في التعارف، بناء صداقات، أو البحث عن أشخاص يشاركونهم نفس الخلفية والأفكار والاهتمامات.

• يمكنكم ترك تعليق في الأسفل يوضح اهتماماتكم، أو التواصل مباشرة مع الأعضاء الذين تركوا تعليقاتهم بالفعل.
• كما يمكنكم الإنضمام إلى سيرفر الديسكورد الخاص بالمجتمع عبر الضغط هنا.

يرجى العلم أنه لن يُسمح بعد الآن بنشر منشورات فردية للتعارف أو طلبات التواصل ، وسيتم حذفها تلقائياً للحفاظ على تنظيم السوبريديت.