So basically long story short, im Pentecostal and we believe in speaking in tongues so I went to a youth convention about 4 years ago and I went to the altar and someone started praying for me and then he told me to repeat what he spoke in tongues and I did and then he told me I got the Holy Ghost but Ik I didn’t but the thing is my whole family and church thinks I have the Holy Ghost only 2 people know I don’t have it and they’re together and they said they won’t tell anyone if I don’t want them to, my question is how do I tell my family, should I tell them? Also genuine question am I going to hell if I don’t speak in tongues?

I care about him and love him but we are ultimately unequally yoked and continuing the relationship will only hurt us both (unless it's perhaps in God's will for it to work out). I knew that we were unequally yoked but continued anyway begging God to allow things to work out because I was tired of being lonely. Each time I try to break up with him, something interferes with me being able to do so (mainly that on the same day I'll want to do it, he'll have a horrible day and then I decide to postpone it so that I don't add to his stress; he also has health problems that require him to limit stress). Pray for me to have strength when I do break up with him because the end of this relationship is going to hurt.