r/Catholicism 23h ago

Atheist or Protestant? I don't see the difference.

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I went into a TikTok video about science and ran into a ton of people (clearly young) saying completely absurd and wildly wrong things about biblical interpretation, like claiming God was the Big Bang, that God creates the universe inside Himself, or that science and evolution are incompatible with faith...

At first I thought they were all young atheists, but no , they were proudly identifying themselves as “Christians.” Just “Christians,” plain and simple. Not even Protestants, because in Latin America they like to make a distinction between “Christians” and Catholics.

Try it yourself, go into any TikTok video about religion and you’ll see the worst heresies ever written, coming from Protestants who have clearly never read a single Church Father in their lives.

Unfortunately, the evangelicals I meet in daily life have this over-the-top belief that faith is purely spiritual and that God cannot be understood through reason. Add to that the millions of sects, some fanatically obsessed with the State of Israel as a divine sign, others preaching the “prosperity” gospel (money as proof of Jesus’ blessing), others that aren’t even Trinitarian...

Millions of evangelical souls in LATAM and elsewhere have turned faith into a spectacle and turned God into a product to sell.

A minimally educated atheist can easily tear down the faith of people who claim God is nothing more than a spiritual feeling. I’m not saying faith has to be purely intellectual, but I’ve genuinely never heard these kinds of things coming from a Catholic or an Orthodox Christian.

That’s the problem with heretics: eventually you can’t even tell them apart from regular atheists, or from people who just twist the Scriptures to fit their worldly desires.


r/Catholicism 3h ago

Thoughts on Tarot

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I am in the process of learning more about Catholicism with the intention of converting. I have dabbled with witchcraft through the years and am having a difficult time letting go of some of my old practices. Tarot, for example, was a big part of my craft and probably one of the hardest things for me to let go of. I know the Church condemns witchcraft, but would the use of tarot as a tool to communicate with God by using it for divine guidance, intuitive reflection, and mindfulness rather than fortune telling still be frowned upon? A lot of Christian customs (such as Christmas) have pagan origins. Why is it acceptable to adopt and adapt some pagan customs but not others? I hope my question does not come across as offensive. Thank you in advance to those of you for taking time to share your insight with me.


r/Catholicism 21h ago

I requested for exorcism and I am feeling shocked and confused…questioning methods used in the consultation with priest

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I need this to be be broken down. So I essentially sought out formal Catholic excorcism due to long term mental illness and stangnecy I have been unemployed for years and super down. In anti depressants for years to no avail/ success. I have been to many Latina deliverance services I am female in her 20s based in Europe and I was born baptised and a Catholic so I decided why not start the formal process for an exorcism. So after procedure/ meetings with my local parish priest. I finally met up with a priest/ one of the exorcist. We spoke and I explained why I wanted an exorcism. He made notes about my life and what led me to the conclusion that I may be under demonic influences/ possession… after this he gave me holy water to drink and said some prayers. I manifested and was holding back a lot of convulsions. We went through many prayers and I vomited. He then said he would pray about me and see if we should go forward with a formal exorcism.

In the follow up email a few weeks later the priest revealed to me he gave you ordinary drinking water but told you it was holy water. He recited ordinary prayers but told you they weren’t exorcism prayers designed to force demonic activity to manifest. He was essentially running a deception experiment on you during our consultation. His stated reasoning was: if there were actual demons present, they would recognize this as a fake ritual and wouldn’t fall for it. But I manifested anyway with vomiting and convulsions, the priest stated that he did not believe my issues were caused my supernatural spiritual causes but in the same email tells me to stay away from new age, tarot and occult remindies and to still have faith in Jesus… how can I possibly have faith when I’ve lost all hope and a community that is supposed to help me is rejecting and “testing” me.
I feel confused humiliated and played!


r/Catholicism 22h ago

Should minced oaths be avoided?

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Maybe about half a year or so ago, I discovered and came to understand stuff about profanity after researching about it and thinking about it. Some of this is copy and paste but may be worth reading. It covers the etymology of profanity and personal observations.

A ton of people in the US in the past seem to have misunderstood profanity, not understood why it’s bad, and come to incorrect conclusions regarding it (including in relation to Christianity) due to their biases and due to some people believing it’s bad because authority figures told them it’s bad while growing up without understanding why and then telling their kids it’s bad without explaining or understanding why to their kids.

While many people have believed it’s bad due to authority figures telling them so without understanding why, and while some censorship is ridiculous or is done because of karens complaining when it comes to their kids, there is an empathy aspect to profanity. It affects people emotionally, and profanity can be strongly impolite. There is also a religious aspect to profanity, though.

Profanity in the religious sense involves desecration of the sacred, whether by blasphemy or other words causing religious offense, such as taking the Lord's name in vain. Many religions include the notion of casting a curse, which is both disrespectful and intentionally harmful, and is often also taboo. To swear an oath in a highly religious society often involved invoking a sacred entity or event. This act has evolved into profanity. An oath can also be shortened to simply saying the name of a holy figure.

The term profane originates from classical Latin profanus, literally 'before (outside) the temple', pro meaning 'outside' and fanum meaning 'temple, sanctuary'. The term profane carried the meaning of either "desecrating what is holy" or "with a secular purpose" as early as the 1450s. Profanity represented secular indifference to religion or religious figures, while blasphemy was a more offensive attack on religion and religious figures, considered sinful, and a direct violation of the Ten Commandments in the majority-Christian Western world. Moreover, many Bible verses speak against swearing. In some countries, profanity words often have pagan roots that after Christian influence were turned from names of deities and spirits to profanity and used as such.

Profanities, in the original meaning of "blasphemous profanity", are part of the ancient tradition of the comic cults which laughed and scoffed at the deity or deities: an example of this would be Lucian's Dialogues of the Gods satire.

Anyway, the reason I ask is because a lot of minced oaths seem to have roots in Christian terms or names like God or Jesus or in foul words or phrases. I would think it's fine as far as etiquette is concerned, but I'm unsure as far as the religious aspect is concerned.


r/Catholicism 12h ago

I was baptized by a bishop

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Anyone out there who are baptizands of Gary Micheal Gordon?


r/Catholicism 6h ago

New Missal in 2027

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are we getting a new missal to use at Mass in April 2027 similar the LOTH? I unfortunately lost mine and I don’t want to buy another one if it will change soon. I have seen some reference to this but when I try googling almost everything is about the LOTH.

Thanks


r/Catholicism 7h ago

Potential Demonic Encounter at the a craft store.

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Hello all, so the other day (last Thursday night) I had a very long and difficult in depth conversation with my friend who had been struggling with their faith recently (keeping details ambiguous out of respect for him). we were on the phone until at least 2-3 am discussing his current struggles he’s having with his life & God.

The next day after getting off of the phone I decided to make a rosary, I have centerpieces, crucifix pendants, etc. however didn’t have enough beads. So I drove down to the local hobby lobby to pick some up.

I’ll spare you the boring details of the drive but I get inside of the store and ask an employee (5’ 10”-ish male) where I can go to get beads (important for later: I never mentioned WHY I was getting beads) He turns around and points all the way to the back right corner of the store, so I turned and began walking over there when an older lady (not employee) says “I couldn’t help but overhear but the beads are in the back LEFT corner of the store” (the exact opposite direction of where the employee told to go)

Now to be clear I do not have any Catholic mementos, belongings, jewelry, nothing on me that could possibly identify me as a Christian. (Very important for this next part). I get to the aisle where the beads are and the employee who pointed me in the exact wrong direction was already in that aisle standing there almost waiting for me

Unprompted he says out loud (talking to nobody) “how are you going to believe in Jesus & God, it’s like a desert where the sands are always changing” word for word I can still hear his voice saying it.

He then goes silent for 30-40 seconds then turns to me (keep in mind I have nothing that could possibly identify me as a Christian with me) and asks “do you believe in God, do you believe in Jesus?” And I replied “Yes I do”. He then goes “huh weird” turned around and walked out of the aisle.

10 seconds later I walked out of the aisle and he was gone, no where to be seen, I literally spent 5 min looping up and down every single aisle and couldn’t find him at all.

TLDR: without me ever saying I was making a rosary an employee at the craft store

  1. sent me in the exact opposite direction as the beads aisle

  2. Was waiting in the beads aisle when I arrived

  3. Talked unprompted about how faith in God is pointless

  4. “Disappeared” after I told him I believed in Jesus

  5. This all occurred the day after having a long convo w my friend about his rocky relationship with Jesus.

Would love to hear your guys thoughts about what this could’ve been, I know biblically a lot of demons show up in the form of mysterious and strange acting humans. Sorry for any spelling mistakes or if the order of events wasn’t super clear, I’m typing this on lunch break on my phone.


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Similar to my last post but just want to establish a related question much more simply; Why do Catholics believe baptism is necessary for salvation?

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John 3:5 comes to mind but is there anything else?


r/Catholicism 4h ago

Are there any good Catholic alternatives to Alpha?

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Basically just the title. I've seen stuff about Word on Fire's Catholicism series. Is that good for youth groups?


r/Catholicism 4h ago

Ending suffering

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What is the easiest philosophy and practice to end the feeling of suffering and pain that is compatible with Christianity?

I have been suffering from this feeling for a long time and I don't know what to do with it. There are many reasons, but mainly mental and emotional. It's becoming increasingly unbearable and has now become part of my everyday life.


r/Catholicism 10h ago

Can someone explain me this better?

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I've been reading the bible and then i've reached this, can someone explain me better?

Matthew 16:1-4 NVI

[1] The Pharisees and Sadducees came to Jesus and tested him, asking him to show them a sign from heaven. [2] Jesus said to the crowd: “When evening comes, you say, ‘The weather will be good, because the sky is red,’ [3] and in the morning: ‘Today there will be a storm, because the sky is red and overcast.’ You know how to discern the appearance of the sky, but you do not know how to interpret the signs of the times! [4] A wicked and adulterous generation asks for a miraculous sign, but no sign will be given except the sign of Jonah.” Then Jesus left them.


r/Catholicism 22h ago

Why is it so hard to be catholic in the US

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Whenever I tell people I am catholic they just hate for no reason and throw comments that they don’t even understand. I am sure others have felt this before and I just don’t know what to do.


r/Catholicism 2h ago

Modern Church Architecture's Fatal Flaw

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I want to clarify one thing first. I am not complaining about modern shapes or materials like concrete or steel.

The real tragedy of modern church architecture is the sudden disappearance of figurative art, statues, and visual storytelling. By stripping churches of images, we broke a long tradition and ignored basic human psychology.

Here is why this was a huge mistake.

  1. A Break of Tradition

Sacred art was not a medieval invention. Dura Europos in Syria, one of the earliest Christian house churches from the third century, is covered in biblical frescoes. For nineteen hundred years, Christianity was a visual and narrative religion. Completely bare churches are a historical anomaly.

  1. The Literacy Myth

People often claim we only used sacred art because past generations were illiterate. This is false. Monasteries, which were reserved for highly literate monks, were packed with frescoes. In the late nineteenth century, literacy in Western Europe was near one hundred percent, yet churches were built with more detailed art than ever. Humans need visual resonance regardless of their reading ability.

  1. Psychology and the Intellectual Trap

Some theologians argue that a completely bare room is necessary for pure devotion because it removes visual distractions. However, this is a purely intellectual theory that completely ignores how the average person actually experiences prayer. We are highly visual creatures. Expecting everyday people to walk into a plain concrete room and instantly reach a state of mystical awe is absurd. It treats humans as abstract minds rather than embodied beings with senses.

  1. The Loss of Attraction

A historic church is a visual treasure chest. Even an atheist can sit in a Baroque or Gothic church and spend an hour captivated by the details. In contrast, you can visually process a bare modern church in thirty seconds. After that, there is nothing left to explore. It feels like a sterile lecture hall.

By abandoning figurative art for total abstraction, an elite group of architects threw away our most powerful tool for emotional connection. We did not fail because we used concrete. We failed because we forgot that we need stories, faces, and forms.


r/Catholicism 23h ago

Recommend Catholic influencers

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r/Catholicism 50m ago

What’s with the Racism of the Church Fathers?

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"Gregory of Nyssa wrote in his Commentarium in Canticum Canticorum that "Christ came into the world to make blacks white ... for in the city of God... Babylonians become Jerusalemites, the prostitute a virgin, Ethiopians radiantly white".

"Ethiopians, in the interpretation of Cyril of Alexandria, are "those whose dark minds are not yet illuminated by divine light... those whose uncleanness is hard to wash out and who remaining in their blackness will feast upon the heads of the dragons and will be exposed to the sword"

"The story is told of Saint Benedict of Palermo who, afraid of temptations by women, prayed to God that he might be made ugly. God obliged and turned him black, thus transforming him into Saint Benedict the Moor. ".

"In the medieval Saint Nicolas celebration, which is still held annually in some parts of western Europe, the benevolent saint is represented by a white bishop riding on a white horse and kindly distributing gifts, while his servant is a black youth on foot carrying a dark sack and a birch. This servant is the purveyor of fear and punishment and carries off naughty children, presumably to practise his cannibalism on them."

"the famous medieval French epic, La Chanson de Roland, while championing the cause of Christianity against the Saracen invaders (Moors), has its hero inveigh against Ethiopia as well: "a cursed land where the black men had great noses and winnowing ears ... a cursed people, blacker than ink, their only whiteness is their teeth".".

"St. Paulinus of Nola who explained that they [Ethiopians] were burned black not by the sun but by vices and sin" (Friedman 1981, 65).

"St. Fulgentius of Ruspe spoke of baptizing an Ethiopian whom he saw as "one not yet whitened by the grace of Christ shining on him".

"In two second-century apocrypha, the Acts of Andrew and the Acts of Peter, devils or demons appear as Ethiopians."

"A third-century apocryphon, the Acts of Xanthippa and Polyxena, has the devil appearing as the King of Ethiopia."

"The church father Ambrose (fourth century) reports meeting an
Ethiopian demon sitting on the scales of a fraudulent merchant."

"Macarius (fourth century), one of the desert fathers, encounters tuny, repulsive Ethiopian boys who torment people in church..."

"desert father, Palladius (fifth century), transmits a report of two demons who appeared as Ethiopian women and committed indecent acts with a monk “

" Origen (d. c. 253). Using the metaphor of blackness as sin, he identified various biblical references to Ethiopia or Ethiopian(s),,

"a demon in him and drive him mad, whichever you want, my lady, it's your choice. She said, I only want him to love me and no one else.
Virginos taught her the spell for that, and it worked! Her husband now loved only her. But using the dark arts had a cost. The woman was now visited in her dreams by an old Ethiopian man ..... Eventually, holy powers and a saint helped her to block these demonic assaults (Life of Saint Andreas the Fool 35).

"Theophilos of Alexandria was involved in the so-called
Anthropomorphite debate in Egypt (ca. 400), basically the question of how literally or figuratively God may be said to be like a human being.
According to a Coptic source, Theophilos had argued that God cannot be like human beings, for the latter include Ethiopians, lepers, cripples, and the blind, who are obviously unworthy of the divine majesty"

"An old hermit in Egypt named Pachon told the story of how, when he was younger, he was tormented by the memory of an Ethiopian girl he had once seen working in the fields. The Devil would take her form and come sit in his lap"

"In many lives of desert ascetics, the Devil appears to the saint in the form of a black man, woman, child, or beast, to test him. Sometimes the saint has to wrestle with these figures in the vision. So while Ethiopians generally enjoyed a positive reputation, in this context their blackness was a sign of evil. The fellow monks of Moses the Ethiopian, for example, would mock him in order to test him spiritually, saying, Why has this Ethiopian come into our midst? Go out, you Ethiopian. You are not a human being, why are you coming here among us? (Sayings of the Holy Fathers, in PG 65: 284)."

"Some say that a woman who fantasizes about an Ethiopian at the time of conception will give birth to an Ethiopian (Theodoros Stoudites,
Letter 380)."

"The emperor Manuel I Komnenos (1143-1180) was dark-skinned. When he was at war with the Venetians near Ithaca in 1149, they cap tured his imperial barge. Taking an Ethiopian, they dressed him up like the emperor and paraded him along the deck, making a mockery of imperial ceremonies and of Manuel for not having blond hair. This reminded the historian Choniates of the verse from the Song of Songs 1:5-6: 1 am black but beautiful.... it's the sun that's burnt me (History 86)

"For the Ethiopian, too, goes black into the bath, and comes out black;
but still the keeper of the bath receives his pay."
-Pope Gregory the Great

''Ye also, O Ethiopi ans, shall be slain by the sword," Jerome notes that those sunk in vice are called Ethiopians in accordance with the words of Jere miah. If the Ethiopian changes his skin, in the conversion of the Ethiopians there is the hope that no one wishing to repent will be without salvation. This is why a soul stained with sin says "I am black" and later, washed and purged through penitence, is greeted, in the Song of Songs: "Who is she that cometh up having been made white?"

"Didymus the Blind (c. 313-98) reports that Ethiopians belong to the cult of the Devil," and "medieval exempla [narrate how] the Devil is fond of disguising himself as an Ethiopian in order to menace the faithful"


r/Catholicism 7h ago

The most obscure and bizarre catholic concept for me is Mortification

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First time I heard that I was shocked, what is thaat my brothers?!

Mortification of five senses, this is nuts!!!

They never said it's easy to be catholic

God have mercy on us


r/Catholicism 7h ago

How do you figure out WWJD?

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Whenever I think of this question my answer is "he would fast for 40 days and become a homeless wandering preacher, healer and teacher - but I'm underweight, don't have the understanding of the way that Jesus did, and can't heal anyone. I'm not Jesus."

So it never gets me anywhere. He wouldn't get married, wouldn't have a paid career, etc. How do people in relatively normal lives answer this question for themselves?


r/Catholicism 7h ago

I am a virgin but I feel very triggered by adultery

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When I see any idea revolving around adultery etc. I feel terrible. What should I do except praying?


r/Catholicism 6h ago

Losing the community at my parish after marriage

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Hi! I guess this is more venting than asking for advice, but I thought maybe someone would have some insight I didn’t.

I’m a born and raised Catholic, never left the church, only attended two parishes in my life (and only because I moved from my hometown). Up until I got married I was heavily involved in the parish, volunteered for everything, from cleaning to planing events and to be honest I was always kinda overlooked for friendships with the other ladies at the parish, but I really didn’t mind, it was good enough for me. Then I met my husband when he started attending Mass. We got married very quickly, which I was told was one of the problems for people. We married 5 months after our first date, another thing is: he is very much older than me. I was freshly 26 and he was 48 at the time, didn’t matter to me and we got married quickly cause I wanted three kids before 30, and by the grace of God we did, our first child was born 10 months after our wedding and I’m currently pregnant with the third, I’ve been basically pregnant since our wedding night at this point. All of this means I don’t have enough time to do all the volunteering I did before and the ladies at the parish are incredibly mean to me and don’t want to even let their kids play with mine. One told me my marriage makes them uncomfortable and that my husband’s past doesn’t belong around children. Now, my husband used to be a musician and has struggled with addiction, he’s been sober for 5 years now is a wonderful person, so I don’t understand the prejudice, we are all sinners. I’ve talked to our priest, and as much as he is supportive of me and I do consider him a friend, he can’t exactly force people to be nice.

Is this a weird thing? Should we go to a different parish? Or is it just my hormonal brain malfunctioning? My husband says he doesn’t mind, it’s his cross to bear, but he says he’ll happily go to a different parish if that will make me happy.


r/Catholicism 4h ago

I am a Jewish convert

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Hello everyone,

I wanted to share my story with you as I am a bit lost right now.

I am in my late 20s, I was raised in an atheist family, but with Catholic culture (sounds a bit confusing, I know - think wrapping advent wreath, very occasional church visit, suggestion to pray to the Virgin Mary but no specific prayer etc.).

Religion hasn’t play a big role in my life until a few years ago when I got closer to Israel and then subsequently started exploring Judaism, which really resonated with me - and especially the radical monotheism of Judaism, the belief in One God (compared to the Trinity). I still keep this belief.

I went very far with my conversion and even underwent the circumcision a year ago. Yet I am doubting things and I feel like I might have done a mistake with this. As much as I love the Jewish people and I have a sort of similar spirit, I still don’t feel like I fully belong to the “tribe”. And I dislike that a lot of emphasis is put on the community life, rather than the faith itself. The faith is rather secondary, keeping the commandments and being active in the community is what is valued. Of course this differs among the various streams.

Deep down I miss the bits of Catholicity I experienced and I still feel that it is my culture. But my believes still align with Judaism, especially when it comes to the teachings about God.

Thanks for any insight.


r/Catholicism 23h ago

Any advice for a Jew teaching at a Catholic school?

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I'm teaching a secular subject to children at a Catholic school starting next month. Any advice anyone has as to how to navigate this school year?

A couple of notes:

  • As far as I know, I don't have to attend weekly school masses because I don't have a homeroom to escort. However, there are a couple of faculty-only and faculty-led masses on the calendar that I'm not sure about.
  • I don't mind sitting respectfully and not participating during masses. The only thing I can't do is kneel.
  • I know not to take communion.
  • To my knowledge, I'm the only non-Christian working there. Everyone else is Catholic and maybe one Protestant.

Is there anything else I should know? When I worked at a Jewish school, the non-Jewish teachers participated in our services/celebrations. I plan on respecting my new co-workers' religion just as those non-Jewish teachers respected mine.


r/Catholicism 11h ago

Help. My OB Gyne is suggesting I should undergo Tubal Ligation

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I am currently pregnant with my third child, and my OB is telling me that I should get a tubal ligation to prevent another pregnancy since all my kids are born via Cesarean Delivery. My CS cut is too near in my bladder already and she said I can only deliver 3 kids based on my medical history and age.

I know its a grave sin to have your tubes tied. I don’t like to commit a sin but i am so confused right now. Can someone enlighten me on what to do. Thank you.


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Advice after seeing traumatic content

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Hello, I'm currently agnostic, but I'm considering converting to Catholicism. I agree with a lot of the intellectual arguments for Catholicism, but I struggle to believe in it emotionally, if that makes sense.

Anyways, I am a paralegal at a small law firm. I'm currently working on a paternity case where the father sexual abused their two year old son five years ago. I'm having to go through all of the evidence, including very explicit images of the boys torn up, naked body, and videos of the psychological damage it did to him for the next half decade.

I was wondering if there were any christian teachings that could help me process it all. Viewing this horrific content has made it near impossible for me to believe in God.

Why would a just god allow this to happen? There's no way a two year old deserves this. Or even if he allows it to happen, why was he allowed to evade any criminal charges. In fact, my client was the only one that got a charge because she put a tracker on his car after he threatened to kill her and the kid.

Sure, if god is real, he will be punished after his death. But when the father thought he was going to go to jail, he hung himself, only to be saved last minute by the grandfather. Why would God not just delay the grandfather by a mere minute? It would have helped this poor boy so much if his father was dead.

I understand the intellectual counter arguments to all of this, but seeing it firsthand makes the counter argument seem so weak. I want to believe in God so badly, but how can I when the world is this way?


r/Catholicism 1h ago

Aside from Jesus, who is the coolest person in the Bible and why is it Joab?

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Currently on Day 138 of The Bible in a Year Podcast, and I've heard enough. Joab stood on that business.


r/Catholicism 3h ago

All hell broke loose after I signed up for 4 weekly shifts in our city's new 24/7 adoration chapel

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Question: How do I pray through this? I'm already looking for a new job.

* I'm not a parent and my time at the chapel doesn't detract from my vocation or duties at home.

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I need some advice. I've been a practicing Catholic for 11 years and have been actively involved in my previous parish and adoration chapel.

I moved and a brand new 24/7 adoration chapel opened in my city two months ago. As soon as I signed up for weekly commitments at the chapel (I'm doing 4 days a week), all hell broke loose in my life. This all happened after I signed up to now:

-Tire spring snapped on my 2022 minivan and as soon as I got the vehicle out of the shop, had a tire issue.

-Got a big metal shard in my tire and had to replace it

-Permit I was getting help with, fell apart and people turned on me and no longer want to help me

-Job went really bad and turned abusive (got yelled at...)

-The apprenticeship I moved to a different state for ended after I found out the mentor was a sham and a scammer (taking advantage of people)

-My parent had a second stroke

- Everyday has been horrible at work due to my dysfunctional manager (she told us she was named after a witch. Isn't that fun.)

- My husband's new job took a turn for the worst

- My job had layoffs

- My music teacher became verbally abusive and I had to end the relationship

- I've had to get subs for about 2 weeks of adoration commitments

- I'm having trouble sleeping and eating, mostly due to the stress of the dysfunctional job.

....

Essentially, in the last two months, I've had 5 really abusive or highly dysfunctional work-related relationships that have manifested or ended.

We only give glory to God and I'm not complaining. It's just been a lot of crazy stuff that has happened in a short time and I don't know if I need to be praying differently. I don't think anyone is praying for protection for the adorers at the new chapel. The founding priest of the chapel is on sabbatical, but I did contact the chapel staff to learn more.

What do I do? Just wait it out? Do I pray differently? I told God he's got to fix this or I'm going to have to quit the chapel. This is too much.

(I am interviewing for new jobs).

Has anyone gone through this before?

Thanks for listening!

Edited: For clarity.