r/Bolehland • u/BurgerRamly • 8h ago
Suddenly all my crushes go back to me?
M30 im not sure if yall ever experienced this.
During my 20s , i have a lot of crushes. Some of it got rejected but most of my crushes just play it dumb on soft rejecting me.
But as time goes by, i wont mind being rejected eventhough it hurts but i really understand they dont like thats all.
Now im reaching 30 and weird things happened.
All 5 of my crushes came back to me and start to initiate and 3 of them ASKING FOR DATE. They are all also reaching 30 just like me.
All of them like suddenly talk to me and iam sensing some flirty texts from them as well.
I was like damn... to be honest they all come when im at a very peaceful phase of my life. Good stable job, own a small car, rent a small house, physically fit enough.
Its scary because all of it like coming at once
