r/BlackHair 2d ago

Weekly Free-for-all Discussion- July 20, 2026

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Please use this thread to discuss anything and everything about black hair. Ask for product recommendations, advice, identify your curl pattern, whatever.

Please also see /r/naturalhair if your hair is not chemically treated and /r/blackladies.


r/BlackHair Dec 29 '25

Black hair culture…

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Yesterday, I was reminded about the beauty of black hair culture.

I 26F invited two friends for a sleepover yesterday. Taylor 26F who is black, and Miya 26F who is Malaysian.

I met Taylor in high school when I was 14 and Miya in undergrad when I was 22. Miya is a third year law student at the school I went to for my masters and Taylor was an incoming first year law student this year. Over the summer, I introduced the two of them and they hit it off and formed their own friendship.

I stayed in the same city after grad school last year and got a really nice apartment downtown. This was my first time hosting so I wanted both of them to come. Miya has been having a rough time; her kitten died at 9 weeks from FIV and her grandma passed three weeks ago. All of this happened during law school finals.

When I asked Miya if she could still make it, she said no. She was really embarrassed because stress and depression lead to her not washing her hair for almost and month. She said her hair was matted and dirty and she had a flight to catch to Malaysia in 3 days and she was overwhelmed with the idea of washing and detangling.

In the group chat, Taylor and I told her to still come to the sleepover and that we’d wash and detangle her hair. She said no a few times and we eventually convinced her.

We did a pre pop and started on the detangle process. Washed her hair over the kitchen sink. I had a hair mask, olaplex and a sit under dryer for deep conditioning. We blow dried her hair (type 2 but THICK and wavy) with my pattern blow dryer. Taylor trimmed her ends.

Almost 2/3rds of the way through, Miya broke down crying. Like sobbing at the fact that we would do this for her. She likened it to a salon treatment and said she didn’t deserve this and had ‘dreamt of friends like this’. She was also sooooo grateful that we didn’t ’judge her about her hair being dirty’.

We told her that this was normal for us! Washing hair, detangling while watching movies. Having friends braid each others hair while hanging out when we were younger. We reminisced about the time Taylor helped me detangle 3 months worth of old box braids with caked on gel and lint.

This experience reminded me of the beauty of black hair culture. Seeing the acts of care, bonding and sister hood from an outside perspective rewired my brain and filled me with a deep sense of pride and warmness :)


r/BlackHair 15h ago

First bantu knots of my life! I did em myself!

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549 Upvotes

I'm nervous but I kinda like them! My reflection keeps freaking me out though lol


r/BlackHair 11h ago

Progress Pic My hair grew without using oils or hair growth products whilst in cornrow

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107 Upvotes

The first pic is november of 2025. The last 4 pics are this month. My hairstylist was astonished by how my hair grew. I didn't think it was a big deal, thought it was normal growth. While many content creators in videos online was recommending products and oils I stuck to just washing my hair.

Just to note the hair in the second pic is further from the camera so it might seem a little shorter than it is (I think). Also, rate my cornrow style while you're here.


r/BlackHair 13h ago

One of my fav styles: invisible locs 👻

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144 Upvotes

These make me wanna loc my actual hair but ik it wouldn’t look the same 😩


r/BlackHair 9h ago

New Style First time cornrows + my twist out

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48 Upvotes

r/BlackHair 31m ago

New Style My current protective style

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Compared to getting braids done, crochet hair feels so much lighter. It doesn't feel like it's pulling on my scalp at all, and I feel like my own braids underneath are actually being protected instead of stressed.

I also love the volume. I've never been able to get curls this defined on my natural hair, but this honestly feels like my hairstyle now.


r/BlackHair 14h ago

Stylist Review What Type Of Hair I Got & Should I Grow It Out More So I Can Get Dreadlocks Next Year

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74 Upvotes

r/BlackHair 12h ago

Advice Needed Hey so i genuinely dont know what to do with my hair (help)

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35 Upvotes

So ive been growing out my hair for awhile now but im entering the 12th grade and i want somethint different, what do i
do??


r/BlackHair 5h ago

Advice Needed Any good hair styles for heads shaped like this?

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r/BlackHair 8h ago

Which one suits me better? Low cut or longer hair?

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11 Upvotes

What do you guys think 🤔?


r/BlackHair 15h ago

New Style Self cut (mullet ?) after vs before

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31 Upvotes

Couldn't stand the overgrown sides and the bushy beard anymore


r/BlackHair 9h ago

Advice Needed How Can I Become More Confident With Having 4C Hair

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(17F) I am going through a dilemma right now. For most of my life, my mom would style my hair naturally. The twists with the barrettes and all the usual hair styles that I would wear. I would always speak about how I didn't like it and I wish my hair was straighter. So, I started getting my hair pressed at 6. Then it was braids. I got my first quick weave last year. I don't think I've spent more than a week with my natural hair, and every time I do wear it, especially out of the house, I dread it. My family and my loved ones say that I have a lot of beautiful hair that's healthy. But I only think the opposite. I think its hard to work with, and makes me look bad.

So I ask, how do you manage your natural hair to make it look better, and how do you stay confident, even when you're somewhat insecure about it.

(covered face cause i dont really like how I look in this photo)


r/BlackHair 4h ago

Hair Product and Styling Advice

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Hello everyone,

I’m going to be fostering two black girls that I’ve known for a while now, and while I’ve helped care for their hair in the past (putting in oil and minor detangling) I’m definitely in way over my head and figured I should seek some advice.

First off, I want to put together some hair care boxes for them so that they have what they need. Because they’re in foster care, they don’t usually have the supplies they need to properly care for their hair, and I want to make sure that they at least have that. If anyone has any advice on what sort of things I should pick up for them, I would be extremely grateful. Diffusers, oils, shampoos/conditioners, brush types, etc. anything and everything.

I’ve been looking at different videos, but I fear I may be looking in the wrong places. Any videos or channels you might suggest would be appreciated.

Thank you in advance for your time and advice!


r/BlackHair 4h ago

Advice Needed How do i stop this from happening again

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So some time ago i just noticed there was a big patch of hair missing, which was there literally the day before and was gone by the time i woke up the next morning, so what was the cause and how can i prevent it from happening again? (I already buzzed my hair and grew it back out to around half of the length in this photo)


r/BlackHair 12h ago

Advice Needed How to add shank button attachment in braids/cornrows

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So in the first photo and I believe the second one two, shank buttons are used to keep the attachments in hair. But idk how am I supposed to go about adding it in. Would I have to ask my braider? Or could I attached through my hair using bobby pin or safety pin. And if so would it be noticeable/look tacky?


r/BlackHair 1h ago

Is my hair clumping or something else?

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I’m 16 and I’ve notice some patches in my hair. The 1&2 images are before washing, and the 3&4 images are after washing and drying.


r/BlackHair 1d ago

Reminiscing on my flip over!

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54 Upvotes

Ladies—don’t yall just loovveeee a good flip over sew-in/glue-in?


r/BlackHair 3h ago

Advice Needed Hair advice on short 4c hair

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Hi yall i js cut my shi clean off Im lowk bald but not hella bald i got like a lil bit of hair n i was wondering how to maintain it? cuz rn i look homeless n i really wait it to look classy n cute. Any advice?


r/BlackHair 11h ago

Just Venting When your in the ugly stage of growing out your sides

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r/BlackHair 4h ago

Advice Needed two strand twists braided at the roots

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I recently got two strand twists with my roots braided am wondering if the twist out will still come out good if the roots are braided or not


r/BlackHair 11h ago

Advice Needed I can't tell whether my hair is 4c 4b or 4a .

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r/BlackHair 9h ago

Advice Needed Is this right??

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I spent some months without combing my hair, so i let my mom do it cause i couldnt figure out how to do it. It hurt alot and i dont know if she did it right but it looks weird now, can it go back to normal? How am i supposed to comb it in the first place? It is seriously so full i dont find a way to do it even when its wet.

Photo is before and after the brush (i regret everything)


r/BlackHair 15h ago

Advice Needed NEED HELP! What should I buy? Clip ins or crochet hair

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I’m currently in school in a town that has very few natural hair stylists. Recently, I’ve fallen in love with kinky straight hair. My own natural hair is healthy and full, but I want length!!!!! My kinky straight wig has me stressing out all day because it feels like it’s going to fall off.

  1. I need hair from a site that delivers very very quickly (if you have Amazon recommendations, it might be best)

  2. For a full head, Should I get clip ins or the miracle knot hair?

  3. Since this hair is probably going to be 300+ dollars for 18+ inches on a whole head, I need the hair to be fully human, very minimal shed ding , and doesn’t tangle up at a glance. Preferably the hair can hold a curl easily.

Please any recommendations or advice is greatly appreciated. If anyone has experience with either method please let me know the pros and cons


r/BlackHair 11h ago

Advice Needed Hair journey

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Updates now growing back of my ears even more for an actual low mid taper it’s noticeable because my barber had a great em idea to cut my right side and I had a feeling he was and it happened now I’m going to stop going to him outta respect for myself and hair journey.i’m already insecure about myself and people make feel it already than I need too.So I’m growing it out for the haters and liberals that make fun of me because of my patch and don’t feel like starting over if I do my hair would be all over the place growing so I’m actually going to wolf for about year now just prove people that I can grow my shit.my barber going to him with a full set of hair one day just tell him hey just need a line up and don’t touch the back and or the side of my ear or nothing because I’m always spefice with people now I’m disappointed in my child hood barber.any advice just been oiling everything out so it can grow out got these braids and I’m going to wash them in a month so the gel and everything and come out because I do is wash my hair everytime in a style keep it for a while so can grow it out.