For a bit of context i am 14 F and I am bi i have never had a girlfriend before and I do really want one! But I live in a place where it is kinda risky to openly say you’re queer so any tips would be lovely!

i feel the same way (like just wow/weird feeling in my stomach) when i look at a pretty girl or a pretty guy, with the guys it’s wayyy more specific and im 18 now but my whole life i just told myself i was straight, i told my sister and my mom about this but ever since i did i can’t stop doubting myself like “you aren’t actually bi”/ why did you tell anyone until you were sure, i’ve never been with anyone / kissed anyone regardless of gender and have struggled with severe anxiety my whole life (also audhd) it’s like my active thinking is okay with it and i think it’s true but subconsciously it’s like no, is this normal and if anyone can tell me if it’s possible to be straight and feel an attraction to both genders but i still can’t imagine myself kissing / doing anything with either , also just to clarify i want someone to tell me im bi lol because im like 90% sure i am but am still just struggling to except it and it’s like my brain keeps latching onto the “maybe” and i just want to feel okay about it ( also i have been questioning for a few years kinda just at random moments but only a few days ago i decided to try to accept it

Just wanna share something that was bothering me for a while.

So i love someone, he's a boy and he doesn't know that I have a crush on him, kind of a one sided love. I saw him in my first year of college, he was studying 1st yr of pg that time. We two were already in a fashion show program. He's tall and looks average.

In my second year, during sem exam we sat next to eachother. He helped me during the exam and we chatted when the teachers went away. It felt like talking to someone who clearly understood me, I felt seen atlast. After the exam I felt this lingering feeling like ive missed something. I never thought I would fell for a guy (I'm a girl, bi). Then it became a crush, whenever I saw him my heart would drop, I would sweat and stutter. I have this problem that i would avoid the person I have feelings for. So i kind of avoided him, I stopped talking and stopped mentioning him in conversations. Since we two were in a fashion show program the avoidance was visible. I felt bad and anxious at the same time, I became so obsessed with him. And at the end of the year, i thought he would come and talk to me, i wanted to confess but I felt there was a wall between us. After the exams he came up to me and said goodbye since it was his last year. I wanted to scream that i love him and felt like a thousand thorns stuck in my throat. I felt the tears coming up, so i casually said goodbye and gave him a shake hand.

Right now I'm in my third year. I thought I would forget about him since he left. But I can't help but think about him. I would imagine what would've been if I had the courage. I miss him so deeply that everything reminds me of him.

I don’t know if this is happening because i’m still figuring myself out, but my preferences changes every week. Is this supposed to happen? what if it affects future relationships? Can someone help?

So a few months back I began questioning my sexuality, I had only been interested in women up to this point, but all of a sudden I started to pay closer attention to certain guys and before I realized I started feeling attracted to them. So now I'm not certain where I should go from here, my entire life I have been one thing but now there's this whole new side of me I know near nothing about.

I have a huge crush on my best friend who is also a guy but I don't know if he's straight or not but it would feel awkward to ask if he was straight out of the blue so idk if I should just hide it forever or tell him or idk

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I for a period of time had a crush on someone from highschool, so I decided to start texting him.

He was so sweet at first, but then he started acting like he knew everything abt me while he barely knows anything abt me literally!!

He asked me out in the most effortless way possible "ily, do u love me ?"

I was like " oh what do u like abt me?"

He said " we have same interests and you're not UGLY"

I rejected him ,then he proceeded to reject me and be like " I don't want a relationship either" then told me not to cry 😬😭

Best part of the story is when I came out to him he said he hated gay people so I just blocked him cuz he kept making sexual jokes abt bi ppl.

So what do yall think?

I've been soft launching that I am bi to my friends for some time now and today i hung out w/ them and I just casually mentioned smth about me being bi and they just asked when and how I realized it and then continued to treat me the exact same as always and I'm so happy about it. I wasn't sure if they would be kinda weird about it bc I thought that they may be somewhat more conservative but it seems like I wasn't right. I feel really happy to be surrounded of such comprehensive people (bc I also came out to my my mom, grandma, stepbrother and to my cousin who's queer themselves)

She was my bi awakening✨🍾

Idrk why im posting here but i feel like i should js get it out.

Theres this guy who i have a crush on (second guy ive ever had a crush on) and my feelings for him are like 10x stronger than any ive ever had for anyone else. The problem is that hes either giving me mixed signals or im completely delusional.

Ok i changed my mind i actually do know why im posting and its to see if others think im delusional. Let me give an example.

One time we were js walking after school which we did literally everyday and i made some ‘joke’ abt liking guys and that segued into him asking if he looked gay. My answer to this question was “maybe bi” i was obviously projecting. Anyway, he then got quiet and maybe fidgety and we didnt really say anything until it was time for us to go opposite ways.

Another example, id always ask him to arm wrestle me bc i find it fun and i always win and he would usually say no but sometimes after pe he would say yes. So one day were sitting in the lunch room bc the coaches werent here and i ask to arm wrestle. He says yes and when we put our hands tg he doesnt exactly squeeze. Instead, he kinda like taps the back of my hand with his fingers while he stared at me with a huge smile. I got nervous bc it was the happiest id ever seen him and it was really cute so i backed out.

One more example, him and i are nearly inseparable during school hours and even sometimes after despite the fact that its impossible to hold a non-awkward convo with him. He chooses to spend most of his time around me even though he has many more (much cooler) friends.

Ok one last thing that isnt really an example but i need to get off my chest. Once i was trashing him bc he was telling me how he lost a dbd game the day beforep so he told me to 1v1 him. This was my in to being one of his out of school friends along with being one of his in school friends. I said no and told sm bs excuse bc i was embarrassed of my slow internet. How unbelievably stupid of me.

Ok ONE MORE EXAMPLE. One day he hurt my feelings bc he said sm abt him having friends and me not having any (i do but i struggle with feelings of loneliness and i had been very open abt that to him). So next period, PE, i completely ignored him. I barely even looked in his direction unless it was js to look at him which i enjoy doing. I also caught a few glimpses directed at me, but to be fair i was playing volleyball very poorly and he couldve js thought it was funny. It was supposed to be payback but i felt really bad after so i dont believe it accomplished anything. Anyway, we never talked abt it, and things went pretty much back to normal.

Id say this is the last thing but i know better. When the backrooms movie came out, a friend of mine had decided to rent out a theater for her bday and invite people to see it in a private screening. We were encouraged to bring +1s. He didnt get an invite, so i asked him if he wanted to come (as friends ofc) and he said “no im gonna see it with my friends”. I js said ok and walked away.

I think this actually is the last thing. At a certain point in time, he had seemed much happier and more attached than usual, to the point that i would say i was walking a certain way and he would follow, or he would ask me to do things like go to the counselor with him. This was before i accepted my feelings for him and men in general so i kind of shot him down. Once he pointed out that we hadnt been paired up even once for a rotating group assignment where a bot picks 4 person groups randomly. He said “its bc they knew we would be too powerful” i stupidly said “i think it was trying to help us out”. Why am i so dumb.

I was wrong, this is the last thing. He told me one time while we were sitting down waiting for the rest of the group sm abt ‘being in his feelings’. The natural response for this sort of thing is to listen, but bc i was scared of my feelings, i snickered. And he started stumbling over his words and ended up saying nevermind.

Im realizing now that if he ever did like me, he doesnt anymore.

It’s 1 am right now and I can’t sleep, so I’ve had racing thoughts. It confuses me how people are queerphobic. It’s like being mad at someone for being allergic to a food. You can’t choose if your immune system has a reaction to peanuts. Anyway, I’ve just been angry with a lot of people in America right now so I thought I’d get it off my mind.

I really like strategy games, but I've never met another queer person who likes them. I really like the Paradox strategy games as well as AOH3 and Civ6.

I’m 15 and have been closeted from my parents for a while now, I don’t have any way to secretly pay digitally, and I don’t have anyone who could bring me somewhere to buy the clothes. I’ve wanted to try feminine clothing, but I’m just not sure how, or where to even start.
Any suggestions would be VERY appreciated

Im bored, so tell me if you're listening to nirvana, and if :

Yes : what's your favorite song ?

No : what you're listening to ?

i’m 16F and in a relationship (of almost 4 months) with my girlfriend (also 16F) and we had our first kiss at a party 2 days ago. shes been wanting to kiss me for a while but of course hasnt and has said shed wait till i’m ready. i hadn’t seen her for 2 weeks and so i think i wss and we did and it was sooo ugh. i loved it. we have planned to kiss wayy more and that’s great.

but i’m worried im gonna want to do …more (if you get what i’m trying to say). and i know in myself that i don’t. i was terrified to kiss and i just don’t want to do that. but i think i’ve got myself in a loop of spiralling becquse my brain keeps thinking about it and sending me down this path. and i keep telling myself you don’t want to, because i know i dont, irs your brain. if i wanted too i would. and i don’t but it’s so odd i don’t know why i keep doing this. i don’t think i do at all. i think i’m worried as well because my (gay) mums also don’t know, and i’m worried thwy are gonna ask and see the messages aboit our kiss and thinm it’s sometbing moee.

im sorry if it doesnt make any sense, but i just wanted to get it down on here to try and rationalise and see if anyone can help please. thank you!!

Keep thinking about deep Shi u know, meaning of life, how to be happy, why the evil Morty theme song is a fucking banger, the usual

Soooooo...like...
Someone writes a lyric of their fav song (or any song they like) and someone else continues it?

This is more like the rest of the story i started telling a few days ago, where i said how i think im bi, my coming out, and how i confessed to my best friend which is also my crush.

I already told this in reply of the original post, but i need to tell it somewhere, cus im just so depressed and i regret so much...

I dont even know what i was expecting, i dont even know why i told him, i ruined it all, he looks like he dont care, but i know our friendship will never be the same..

I will never be able to look him in the eyes, ever again...

I wanna cry so much.