r/BackpackingDogs • u/AnonTravelingPants • 1d ago
Trail etiquette with dogs
My dog is almost 3 and I’ve had him on the trail since he was old enough and had all his vaccinations. He’s well behaved, always on a leash, doesn’t jump on people when we cross paths, he’s been a great companion. And as a single woman, he’s why I feel safe on the trail (I understand he’s a liability when it comes to nature, but he is protection against other people).
So far we’ve only been day hikers but I’ve set a goal to start backpacking next summer and I can’t find a day hikers with dogs reddit so I hope you all don’t mind me posting here even though it was technically a day hike.
Recently I had my first bad experience with another hiker and him and I’m looking for feedback if I did something wrong.
We were on a trail in the PNW that is popular for backpackers and very popular for day hikers and reached a point where the trail widens to about 10’ at a view point, with even more space off the trail. Big boulders on the right people can sit and enjoy the view, and cleared space to the left. There’s about 25 people in multiple groups sitting for a water/snack break enjoying the view.
Since I have a dog, I don’t stop at popular viewpoints for a break. So we kept going and as there were people on both sides of the trail stopped, I walked in the middle. He was on a 6’ leash and I had it wrapped loosely around my hand a couple times so he didn’t even have the full 6’. He’s walking in front and there’s 1.5-2’ of leash behind his body.
On the left, a girl was sitting immediately off the trail. As in, her bent knee as she sat was *on* the trail. She had food in her hand and on the ground.
As we approached, my dog started to wander to the side instead of directly in front of me. As I start to pull him closer, she sees him interested in her, throws her hands up and with an absolutely disgusted tone says “get away from me.”
I put my hand on his side to give more direction to continue on, and I say “sorry, he’s friendly.” She looks at me and with this nasty tone says “I don’t know that.”
Yes, I understand you don’t know my dog is friendly. I understand you’ve never seen him before. But he’s leashed, calm, walking along the trail, and giving zero reason to cause concern. At no point in this entire interaction did he stop moving forward, he just walked to my side instead of in front of me.
She continues going off on us as we’re walking away. Complaining about irresponsible dog owners and how she’s sick and tired of people like me disrespecting other hikers. I got the impression I am expected to hold my dog by his collar every single time we are within the vicinity of other people. This is such a popular trail, we could always see another person. All 16.5 miles we did.
I cried. For like a mile. It was humiliating because of how many people were there. Some of them were even people we’d crossed paths with earlier in the day and they’d asked to pet my dog and gushed over how well behaved he was. Not a single person stood up for me.
Which makes me wonder if I was in the wrong, and I’d appreciate feedback.