r/ableism Jul 21 '20

Types of External Ableism

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Institutionalize ableism:

The marginalization of people with differences/ disabilities within the workforce, schools, and other areas (social exclusion). This includes laws and policies that in ignorance foster the segregation and/or oppression of this demographic as well.

Familiar ableism:

This type reinforces discriminatory beliefs that can be promoted within families and in some cases closed communities. This form of ableism is often influenced by institutionalized ableism; however, institutionalized ableism can also be heavily impacted by the familiar form.

General Ignorance ableism:

People who have grown up with different aspects of this phenomenon and are regularly programmed, or conditioned by its framework. Their prejudiced views are often fluid and do not necessarily hold authority. Confusion can be frequently seen from this sphere; furthermore, when personal values conflict with ingrained ableist belief systems.

Mechanized or Weaponized ableism:

This form of ableism is birthed from the other frameworks of ableism but compounded. It turns the attention to its spheres of origin with one objective, and this is mechanization or mobilization. Their tactics can be both frontal and covert. Opposition and debate are viewed as defeatism and not tolerated: The Eugenics Movement and The Third Reich.


r/ableism 4h ago

But have you tried not being disabled?

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There are so many of these people, particularly on Twitter and Reddit. They're usually polite and seem to be acting in good faith, but they also seem to honestly think that telling people "you have to go there in person" or "you have to use the phone" is helpful when the person has already stated they aren't able to, as if the person just isn't trying hard enough and now that the "helpful" person pointed it out, they can suddenly figure out how.

https://x.com/Mp3onWavs/status/2079924154824900748


r/ableism 6h ago

Least Favorite Thing: Jason Street (the comments are beyond)

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r/ableism 18h ago

The threat of the Post-Hitlerite think tank: How "Nazi" ideology never went away but evolved into the modern day threat of biosupremacist ableism spreading around via metapolitics

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When the Third Reich was falling Hitler made clear to his intellectual successors to stress "the law of the rule of the strong" first, and to treat Nazism as a failed vehicle and to focus on pushing the cause of "biosupremacy" the engine which drove if they wished to continue his school of thought. People like Armin Mohler who followed Hitler's instructions stressed that "German nationalism is a failed path and Hitler was weak but ultimately correct" and to follow in pushing the idea of a world ruled by broad "genetically superior elites", removing legal protections preventing their domination as a goal.

These people founded the think tanks that drive alot of the more recent ableist trends and political trends that aim towards removing protections or social security for peoples seen as "inferior and unable to achieve supremacy or assimilate".

When he was coming close to losing the war Hitler made it clear to Speer that Nazis should recognise him as weak and German nationalism as a lost cause but to continue the ideology of biosupremacy. Therefore anyone who uses the label of "Nazi" or "National Socialist" unless you follow him into death when declaring yourself a Nazi is a loser and larper because they are following the failed vehicle and not the driving engine of Hitlerite thought he wanted his successors to continue.

Hitlerites can call themselves anything he said "We might have called ourselves the Liberal Party. We chose to call ourselves the National Socialists... Propaganda must be limited to a very few points and must harp on these in slogans until the last member of the public understands."

There are modern day neo-Nazis who are hateful and driven by grievance and victim complex but the reality is mqny modern day Hitlerite thinkers who are the direct ideological successors of Nazism for this very reason infact do not call themselves Nazis at all because it was a vehicle that crashed. In his logic the vehicle is nothing compared to the core most important points of Hitleritism which must be injected into metapolitics and made more popular or normalised, ableism, elite biosupemacist politics and eugenics. It is not seen as consistent in being a Hitlerite to associate yourself with German nationalism or the Nazi label, plus an "evolutionary disaster if using that failed label and symbol droves away support"?

In Hitleritism the belief system which he stressed made the core of the ideology is that any demographics of people who can't achieve supremacy "stand in the way of evolution" nd do not deserve to exist, stressing assimilationism over respect for diversity.

This is why the Japanese Empire were seen by Hitler as more genetically "superior" than Australian fascists who hoped Australia would receive Germany's protection so Japan does not invade if they came into power.

Orthodox Hitlerism exists today and it is driving alot of ableist thought such as on parts of reddit you see or behind the scenes. It is the greatest threat the world ever faces because they are still onto and trying to achieve the goal Hitler asked for "my real intellectual successors" to continue which is the idea of a world ruled only by the most "biologically superior who assimilate or destroy everyone else", destroy the Pluralism that came with their military defeat and to remove protections stopping this "evolutionary process" in Hitlerite terms.

When you fight against biosupremacist ableists you are fighting the people who Adolf Hitler himself implied to the world before he died are going to be the official successors to the Nazi party today.


r/ableism 2d ago

what would help me not care so much about ableists and stop hurting my mental state by worrying so much about what bigots think?

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of course i’m always going to care about ableism, and i wanna become an activist and help people like me who are affected by discrimination in the future

but it’s getting to me and i really cant stop thinking about it. i cant just not think about it because it’s everywhere.

if you tell me to get off the internet, i still experience it in real life, even if it’s not directed to me. if you tell me me to get back on the internet, it’s still bad there.

my question is: how do you learn to deal with it? as someone who is autistic, the stereotypes and stigma around it pains me. the ways people hate on us, especially those with higher support needs (not me) when we‘re not even doing anything wrong. how do you cope?

it feels hopeless. i just wanna stop caring, but that’s hard for me. i cant even go to school because i’m so depressed from ableism that is so ingrained in society and especially education. my life is ruined. i resort to special education because if i dont i’ll burn out considering what happened to be in the past and i don’t think i’ll make it past 18 if i go to “mainstream” schools, but it hurts the image of myself because non-disabled folks make fun of us and just dont understand.

EDIT: i don’t know why but when it’s directed at me specifically i don’t really care cause i know whatever they say about me is just wrong? but still 🤔

sorry for the vent sigh, have a good day


r/ableism 3d ago

Ableist family

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I'm chronically ill and disabled for years.I live in a country where we don't even use term ableism because ableism is not even recognized as a real thing...

So basically everyone I know is ableist including my family.My illness got worse and worse until I got more other illneses and became disabled,all due to ableism.Now I experience even more ableism and I struggle to cope with all of that.

I'm glad that I found this sub tho so I can talk about it.

My family is angry at me for becoming disabled,covid disabled me,they don't wanna accommodate me,my mom tries tho,but can't due to financial issues and other family members being extremely ableist.They all claim how I'm doing this on purpose and how I'm just bored...

Who tf chooses to suffer cause they're bored,like wtf is that logic 😭

They also keep pushing "cure" for incurable stuff,like I also want cure but there's is none.So accommodations would save my life but they don't wanna provide that.

They call that " beign bratty and ungrateful".

They also think I deserve all of this cause "I chose to live like that" .

Like I didn't even do anything,I was just going to school,chasing perfect grades for them to be happy and I developed anxiety and ocd and still kept being "perfect child" and I got covid and since then I crashed.Barely finished hs and since then I don't have a job nor go to college cause that would be literally impossible.

They're constantly angry at me and they don't think that I deserve good stuff.


r/ableism 3d ago

Ableist Girl

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There is this girl named Alyssa. Alyssa was calling my sister Emily, "crooked and deformed.". My sister has Scoliosis. She’s been dealing with bullying for years. I remember she used to come home crying in kindergarten about it. The context is that Alyssa didn’t like how Emily was anti-trump. It’s sad that people have to resort to ableism just because of our differences. How should I deal with her? She keeps reaching out to my sister to bully her. Randomly replies to her stories and tries to start stuff.


r/ableism 4d ago

is this ableism from my roommate?

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I live in a college apartment and share a private bathroom with 2 people. 3 other roommates share a different bathroom. due to mental health disability, i am not able to hold my bladder well, especially when I'm asleep, and I wear diapers to bed and sometimes during the day. I'm 19 and I know this is obviously not normal for my age so both the roommates i share a bathroom with know about the issue, and I consider(ed) both of them close friends.

i keep a package of diapers, diaper bags, and wipes in one of the cabinets under the sink. after 2 months of this arrangement, I got a text saying.

"Hey name, I was just reaching out to ask if you could keep the diapers and stuff out of the bathroom/main area. I dont mind it at all but I dont want like my friends to come over and be uncomfortable you know."

at the exact same minute, I got a message from a roommate that I don't even share a bathroom with (!) saying

"Hey man idk how i feel about the diaper stuff. Im pretty uncomfortable with it."

this obviously made me feel really mad but also shitty about myself. i responded to the first roommate saying I don't see the issue but I'll move it and asked what they said to my second roommate.

they said they just gave him a "basic explanation" so I responded with a kind of rude message saying I wasn't exactly comfortable with it either, but that it wasn't a choice to use the items due to a disability. i also made the point that I live here too and said idk what else to say. he never responded to that and ive been avoiding him.

I feel like they probably weren't trying to be ableist but I think they still very much were. can I get some third party opinions?

edit: I feel a need to add i have literally never exposed them to my incontinence in any way (kind of needless to say). this is something I'm super self conscious about and don't like to discuss with anyone. the only reason i ever brought it up is so they knew it wasn't a fetish thing and didn't judge me even more


r/ableism 9d ago

This dude. Apparently I'm not disabled because I have pics of me standing up on my fb. Words can't describe the rage I'm feeling atm

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r/ableism 9d ago

Is stupid and ableist term?

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The reddit I'm referring to banning me is r/latestagecapitalism .


r/ableism 10d ago

Exploring ableism in fantasy and furry media

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Like Zootopia does for race, and beaststars goes beyond , a fantasy that uses non human people are living together , seeking inclusion , accmodation, and assessablity . As a long running slice of life story with a few serious plots . If it’s not being done yet, who could have the creativity and knowledge to do it


r/ableism 11d ago

Annoyance

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I'm so annoyed at doctors' appointments. I have had an incredibly disabling condition that started three months ago. I got a referral for a specialist nineteen days ago. And then another one from a different doctor to the same kind of specialist in a different city. And then I had to call one more specialist in a DIFFERENT CITY to see if they could get me in because this condition can be life threatening if left untreated. And this condition has been giving me daily symptoms. I tried being nice and no hate to the doctors but what the heck???? I have been BEGGING to be seen for something that can hurt me and no one is doing anything about it! Ive had to start thinking of working from home because I am feeling horrible and I only work four days out of the week and cant even do two six hour shifts. I either get sent home or have to call out. I hate it. And I know this is what a lot of people go through in the medical system and I feel like its horrible we cant be just listened to about pain or issues that need help immediately.


r/ableism 12d ago

Look at this person autism shaming me (I’m blue, they are red).

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r/ableism 14d ago

This has gotta be the most ridiculous (and ableist) Airbnb rule ever

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No medication? Cool, cool, that’s fine, I’ll just die then…


r/ableism 16d ago

Anyways to get rid of my autism

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r/ableism 18d ago

Is using the word “freaking” ableist?

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I’ve been using it as a replacement for “fucking” but I don’t know how I missed that it’s base word, “freak” has ableist origins…so in short, avoiding using this term would be best in order to be anti-ableist correct?

Example:
That freaking cashier stole my money!

Probably a silly question that’s obvious to most but I just want to make sure…


r/ableism 21d ago

video covering unconstitutional ableism: wearing fragrance and scented laundry at work isn't a constitutional right in the USA

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r/ableism 22d ago

Pack it up guys, electrophysiologists are big fat liars

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r/ableism 24d ago

Update on Disability Rights In America.

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Developmentally disabled children in Willowbrook Institution.

Two to a cart.

Willowbrook was designed to house 4,000 residents, but there were over 6,000 in 1965, when Senator Robert F.
Kennedy toured the facility and called it a "snake pit." He described the residents as "living in filth and dirt, their clothing in rags, in rooms less comfortable and cheertul than the cages in which we put animals in a zoo." In some of the deepest wards, such as Building 6, there was only one attendant for approximately 50 severely and profoundly disabled children.
Even after Geraldo Rivera's investigative report, exposing the horrific conditions on camera in 1972, Willowbrook didn't close its doors for good until 1987.
Not going back.

#developmentaldisabilities #intellectualdisabilities
#specialneeds #disability


r/ableism 24d ago

dealing with ableism in gaming

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I'm on the autism spectrum and i recently had it directly introduced to me that 'bonkers' is ableist as a word. i'm also a kirby fan, which is a series that actively has a character named Bonkers (wields a hammer, 'hammer bonk' but also the original meaning.)

so i'm sort of asking because of this, how do you deal with ableism in video games you play, if you've encountered a similar situation? i'm trying to figure out how i'd deal with it myself.


r/ableism 26d ago

Underlying Ableism In Friendships

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r/ableism 26d ago

Was I wrong?

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r/ableism 29d ago

Did I say something wrong?

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Tell me what you think, it seems to me people desperately want to use slurs. I'm also autistic and ADHD btw, and I don't think the r word is a reclaimable slur even if it was born for neurodivergent people


r/ableism Jun 20 '26

They just told states they can lock up disabled people. you may be on that list.

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As a Deaf autistic mother of a child with autism, this terrifies me.
For 27 years, the answer was supposed to be simple: if disabled people can live in their communities, they should not be forced into institutions.
Now the DOJ is arguing that protection was never legally required.
Nothing has changed yet. Nobody is being rounded up. But when governments start questioning rights that generations fought for, people pay attention.
My son is not a burden.
I am not a burden.
Disabled people belong in our communities, not hidden away from them.


r/ableism Jun 20 '26

Trigger warning: Current Events: Trump DOJ Outlines Dubious Path to Force People Into Psychiatric Institutions

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The gist of it: there is a leaked DOJ memo that's going after a Supreme Court case protecting disability rights. The Olmstead case is the reason disabled and mentally ill people in the US have a legal right to live in our OWN homes and communities instead of being locked away in institutions. The memo is arguing that institutionalization isn't inherently discriminatory, and that states should have more power to put people with psychiatric disabilities away, with faux concern that it is a “public safety” and homelessness issue. (We all know that if they actually cared about public health and safety we’d have universal housing and healthcare, including free therapy for all)

From my POV, it looks like they are telegraphing a desire to use this to target not just the average disabled person, but also dissidents who happen to have disabilities. This genuinely hurts. I feel so unwelcome in this fucked up country. Society is ableist as fuck. Feels like that at least.
I know the memo is not saying “the disabled are life unworthy of life” or some overt Nazi type stuff. That would be irresponsible of me and dishonest. They are saying it is about safety, easing burdens on communities, and “letting states decide what's best.” (We’ve all heard that before)

All of this is not to say there is going to be another Holocaust. I am simply saying that the telegraphing from the gov is recognizable. To blanketly call a group of people dangerous to public safety strips away their ability to freely exist in public life. In a similar vein, the Nazis didn't start with gas chambers. They too framed forced institutionalization as a logical and compassionate, solution to the “problem.” They made it seem reasonable. And then they later used those institutions to euthanize or gas people like us.

Inform the people you love and trust about this. You don't necessarily need to shout from the rooftops. We just need people to see this, and to believe us when we say that this could be a potential threat to people like us.

Fortunately, there are still some good faith actors left in the judicial system who are good people willing to fight for people like us. But even that is waning. All we can do is keep each other safe. Get organized with those you love and trust. We keep us safe.