Cis wife GENUINELY said this to me earlier when she came home and was making out with me on the couch.

We had talked in the past about the likelihood of me not getting phalloplasty due to a multitude of reasons, and I was just coming to terms with it. She’s said time and time again before how she’s actually glad I don’t have a cis penis (she has severe vaginismus) and how she’s happy with however I feel most myself. I can barely have sex as it is since starting my transition due to severe dysphoria, but I was mustering up the courage to consider trying again literally YESTERDAY

Any improvement in mental stability is hereby gone.

I know she's speaking from a place of dysphoria but if someone said this to me seriously irl I would rip their face off like a chimp.

"nah I'm not transphobic I just think now he's an ugly disgusting hunk of damaged goods"

so theres a lot of talk about whats malebrained, whats fembrained and a lot of the time its BS, u can argue it’s all socialization, personality

BUT
wanting to f*ck pussy with ur penis is basically the one thing that transcends all of that.
caveman moids wanted it. modern moids want it. moids across every culture and period of history have been wanted the exact same thing.

sorry but u cant just add "girl" to it and pretend its not fundamentally the most male instinct imaginable

“Haha guys look at this ugly Hon haha get it? Ugly! she’s such an optics nuke! Why? Because she’s ugly! Hahaha shitting on people who don’t pass is so heckin’ based amiright?”

Yall drinking that juice? Are you feds? Seriously grow the fuck up. The mere existence of a trans women who doesn’t pass doesn’t constitute a fucking “optics nuke”. The real optics nuke is doing the 21st century equivalent of putting someone in a pillory simply because they committed the grave crime of not passing. I’ll say it again, Yall who do this need to grow up and try being actually useful to society for once.

being a gynephillic manmoder is obviously some kind of divine punishment for having an evil AMAB soul. fuck my shitty troon life

I know this is 4t4 and being a bunch of self-loathing doomers is our whole thing, but seriously stop using Twitter, just stop it, uninstall the app right now. Stop reading this and go do it. Everyone on that app is stupid and/or evil, and yes that includes you. You're stupid because you haven't uninstalled Twitter yet. Morality of using a website owned by one of the most evil men on the planet aside, I swear half the ropefuel posts on this sub are screenshots from Twitter where some TERF or 16 year old nazi says comically evil shit about us that you in no way benefit from reading. It's like that meme about AI where a guy commands a computer to say something and acts shocked when it says the thing. You are surprised to see ropefuel at the ropefuel factory!

If you think Twitter isn't that bad or it's not affecting you, I think you would really benefit from taking a break so you can step back and see things with a fresh mindset. I used to use Twitter religiously from 2016 until whenever Elon first tried putting a limit on how many posts you can see, I think in 2023? I logged back into my account just to see how things are now and the website is basically unusable. 4chan has always had the reputation of being a right wing shithole because of /pol/, but at this point Twitter is 10x worse than whatever normies think 4chan is. My entire For You page is just tailor-made to rage bait me to farm engagement. Everything is vagueposts and bots and arguments over asinine bullshit. Open the comments to a post, scroll past the @.groks, and the first thing you see is always some brainlet with 0 reading comprehension responding to an entirely different post they hallucinated ("you hate waffles?"), or if the post was made by a lefty/queer person the top comments are slurs and insults. Even though I haven't used the site in years I still found myself instantly getting sucked into the endless doomscroll because Twitter's algorithm is just that good at making you angry and stupid, and it's fucking insidious.

You don't need the pet project of an evil trillionaire. Throw it away. If you still want to doom, go use 4chan more because at least 4chan doesn't have an algorithm that spoon feeds you content and turns your brain off—the zoomer equivalent of boomers playing a slot machine and watching Fox News for hours on end. If you think you'll miss seeing posts on Twitter, no you won't, because everything you wanted to see is going to get screenshot and posted to Reddit anyway. If you really can't stand giving up Twitter that much then try Bluesky and follow some of the big 🚂🦵 accounts, they're pro-diy and are like, 4t4 lite. Stop using the nazi website!!!

bottom left is my mother

they used to viciously grope me back in the day so maybe i should tell them im trans now cause i'd feel bad if they unknowingly were groping a boymoder. like i don't want them to ever think they did something wrong or that im tricking them bc im hiding the fact that im a woman.

but then again i also don't want to bring it up bc i don't want to cause a bunch of drama or out myself any more than i already have. i probably won't even see them again anytime soon so maybe i should just act normal and take it to my grave so they don't feel bad for touching me.

If someone calls me or another dood "tboy" id lace their food w cyanide. Just call me an underdeveloped manlet, it's gonna be more honest and no need to infantilise us even more. Also "tboy swag" just means ur "hecking vxlid" and clocky af

It’s the most cliche piece of advice out there. It’s the first thing anyone will say to you when you run into a problem. You will get very sick of hearing it very quickly.

It doesn’t fix everything. In fact, there’s a LOT of things it doesn’t fix. But there’s a surprising amount of things it does fix, and it’s easy and accessible to do. It’s the first thing you should try. If you haven’t tried it then…no wonder you’re nowhere near finding a solution.

If you come on here going on and on about how you’re suuuuuuchhhh an ogrehooooonnnnn and I catch even a glimpse of you going around with bushy-ass caveman-ass Oasis eyebrows then I’m just not taking you seriously. Im not. You can’t make me. Come back to me when you’ve got that shit on fleek, and if you’re still an ogrehon then we can start looking at other options.

I genuinely have no idea why are troons even included in the lgbt community for now. I get that all ppl who weren't straight and cis were fighting for their rights together equally, but nowadays it just brings harm for troons because they're treated as a "queer identity" and not a medical and physical condition how it actually is, which results in denying proper care. And oh, there is a lack of serious research on us, in 90% it was done by some weirdo degenerates like Blanchard or John Money. Also being a troon is basically a mental disability, lots of us are unable to function in our everyday lives because our bodies were mangled by natal puberty. Lgb and queers are opressed by societal norms, which is also awful, but they're not being tortured by their own psychie and bodies, which is different and needs to be separated

Not a chaser but recently I've indulged in some trans porn and I just find trans bodies to actually be quite beautiful. I don't really have a genital preference and I love women so I don't mind what's down there. How do I get my trans coworker to go on a date with me, and how much am I allowed to touch her "parts" without making her uncomfortable? Again I'm not fetishizing it or anything I'm just curious to try it with a pretty trans girl and I think a girl like that would be exciting because I'm bi

had the most insane conversation with my cis boyfriend last night and i have no one to talk to about it so i just need to put it here

quick context: we have been together for 3 years on and off due to both of us having shitty mental health, terrible friends (that we both cut off), and recently started dating again because we feel like we're both in a good place and are very good for each other. we're extremely compatible in every aspect, he does chemistry and i do microbio, we want to both get our PhDs, we have the same interests, we never argue and always just talk things out extensively. i also just had metoidioplasty (he flew out to take care of me during it) and i'm about 7 weeks po, but not cleared for penetrative sex yet

last night he asked me if we could talk. we go up to his room and he sits me down and tells me that his sexual attraction to me is waning. my heart literally dropped and it felt like i was being choked. i didn't really know he was feeling like this because we haven't been able to be very sexual bc of my surgery. i asked him when this started. he said before my surgery, and my new dick actually made him feel more attracted to me, but his sexual attraction still just was "fading". i had to sit there and prod his brain for hours, we basically got nowhere. it made me feel like a disgusting fucking monster. i have felt so undesirable for so long because of my transness. i either feel like i'm fuckable or loveable, but never both. all of my relationships have either been loveless but full of sex, or loving but they don't want to touch my body. i don't get it. it's not even like i'm horribly disgusting to look at. i know my body is nice, i've had men pay to have sex with me (i was very desperate for money for bottom surgery at the time), i've had a fansly before and made hundreds of dollars a month, when i was single and went out i got flirted with a LOT, i don't understand.

this isn't even the first time he's said this shit to me. this is the third time. it makes me feel like shit. the last two times he said this we broke up. this time he wants to go to therapy to find out what the fuck is wrong with him because this is just a pattern at this point. it just is so fucking soul crushing to me, i find him to be insanely attractive and for him to say that to me broke my fucking heart. i don't get why i'll always be this disfigured creature to cis people. i don't understand what's so wrong with me

do you know what the worst part is too. after he made me cry he held me and we started making out. then we started grinding on each other and ended up with him touching himself while i ate his ass. like. what was the entire point of him destroying my self esteem like that. i literally don't know what the fuck is wrong with him, or me for that matter. i honestly think i'm pathetic for staying with him after this but i don't care. he's my best friend and he's all i have. he's otherwise usually very kind, caring, and thoughtful, i don't know what the fuck is up with him. i will never find someone else that will treat me this normally (all of my ex boyfriends are genuinely insane people) and i don't want to give up something that might be fixable. i'm just so fucking upset and i feel disgusting right now

Saw this picture on the LinkedInlunatics sub that was on my feed for some reason

I do feel sorry for her the self denial is insane but what kinda rhetoric is that spreading? The amount of people that agree with this too is insane.