r/Harlem Aug 20 '25

[Serious] Post your questions about moving to Harlem here.

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It's the season of the "Is Harlem safe" posts and other more interesting questions from people thinking about moving here. Please post your questions related to moving to Harlem in this thread only.

As u/BuhDeepThatsAllFolx (thank you!) kindly and calmly explained in another thread regarding Harlem's Safety:

"This is by far the number one question Harlemites hate answering.
It’s so annoying. This is our home. We all have some sense of comfort here or else we’d move.
The short response to your post:
Don’t know you and the feeling of safety is subjective. You’ll have to feel it out and decide on your own if it feels safe for you to walk or take a cab
Don’t listen to Fox News or right wing media telling you NYC is scary. They’re just scared of the world and looking for reasons to hate POC and love guns more than people"

Now that the safety question is answered, there's no need to ask anymore.

Now this thread is the place to ask your other questions about moving here! Serious inquiries only, and remember to be kind!


r/Harlem 4h ago

Seeking Harlem Contractor/ Handyman, Plumber, and House Cleaner.

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Hi all! Pretty much as the title says. Moving back to the neighborhood after time away and am looking for individuals that service Harlem. Open to recommendations. Further details:

- Handyman/Contractor: general help plus potential carpentry project for 2 custom closets

- Plumber: changing fixtures (license required)

- Cleaner: deep clean 1x month, maintenance clean 1x month. Looking for consistency. References will be requested.

thank you! feel free to DM.


r/Harlem 1d ago

Dunkin Donuts

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I walked in craving a Large Milkshake. I see this & I walked out
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2103 Frederick Douglass Blvd
New York, NY 10026
United States


r/Harlem 1d ago

135th St. Station 2/3 Turnstile

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r/Harlem 1d ago

A Seat at the Table Returns to Harlem

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Hillman Hall’s A Seat at the Table returns this Saturday, July 25 at Azara Kitchen in Harlem.

The table is curated for investors, founders, and operators across the capital ecosystem to connect over drinks and a 4-course dinner by Chef Ousmane Compaore.

The room is built for real connection, good conversation, and making the kinds of relationships that outlast the evening.

We have a few seats left, secure yours below:
https://members.hillmanhall.com/publicEventDetails?eventRef=DfKR0Lkm9WtBQqyjiWE6


r/Harlem 3d ago

Bars and cafes for becoming a regular?

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Hi! I’m staying in Harlem for a month this summer and I’m looking for a go-to cafe and a bar that are welcoming with a sense of community. I’m gonna be on 134th street if that helps, but I don’t mind walking for a bit :)

Thanks for your help!


r/Harlem 3d ago

No Community Pride?

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81 Upvotes

Do dog owners not give no fucks about the community they live?


r/Harlem 4d ago

thai food recs?

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i’m driving 6 hours into the city in a few weeks and all i can think about is pad thai. photo of some i had last time i was in the city - can’t remember the name of the restaurant though. would love some recommendations from a local/regular!

i’m staying near NYC Health + Hospitals/Harlem (apologies for using the full government name, no clue what y’all call it) if that makes a difference but i’m happy to take the metro further out.


r/Harlem 3d ago

World Cup Central Park Watch Party: need one more ticket to complete my family please!

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r/Harlem 3d ago

#respectthehustle #nyc

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r/Harlem 4d ago

Kinu Rochford was killed at Kingdome. Harlem deserves an honest conversation about what happens next.

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When I say Fosta, I mean the Martin Luther King Jr. Houses / MLK Towers around 111th Street and Lenox, where the Kingdome basketball scene is based.

Kinu Rochford was shot and killed at the Kingdome tournament on July 10. Two other people were wounded. The loss has clearly hit a lot of people in Harlem hard.

What has bothered me since then is how quickly parts of the public conversation shifted toward defending the reputation of Fosta and Kingdome.

CC, the person behind The CC Show, posted a long statement saying Kinu was family, that nobody in the projects had problems with him, that people come from everywhere to Kingdome, and that people should not blame the projects, the tournament, security, or police.

I understand why people in Harlem are sensitive to outsiders using violence to stereotype an entire neighborhood. That happens constantly, and it is unfair.

But there also has to be room for people inside and around the community to ask hard questions when somebody is killed at a major neighborhood event.

The priority should be justice for Kinu, witness cooperation, and making sure anyone with information feels safe coming forward.

There is also a broader question about how violence is treated within local social circles.

Skeeter Millz was filmed in a viral 2020 video striking a woman in the face with a skateboard. Later, he appeared in HoodVlogs content centered on Fosta, walking around the neighborhood and being treated as a recognizable local personality.

That raises a legitimate question: when somebody is involved in serious violence, what does accountability actually look like? At what point does somebody simply get welcomed back because they are known, connected, or considered part of the neighborhood?

I am not saying Skeeter represents Fosta, and I am not saying Fosta represents Harlem.

I am saying communities have to be able to examine their own standards without treating every criticism as an attack from the outside.

The same concern applies to the atmosphere after Kinu’s death.

Screenshots circulating online appear to show a person identified as Coach Kev, described in those posts as connected to Kingdome, arguing with a critic, asking for their address, and suggesting they meet in person.

Those messages do not establish anything about who killed Kinu, and I am not claiming they do.

But after an unsolved homicide, confrontational exchanges like that are not helpful. People should feel encouraged to speak honestly and bring real information to law enforcement, not feel like discussing the situation could turn into a personal confrontation.

Kinu is dead.

Two other people were shot.

The person responsible has not been publicly identified.

The focus should be on accountability and justice for Kinu and his family.

It should also be possible to love Harlem, defend Harlem from unfair stereotypes, and still say that violence cannot simply become accepted neighborhood history because the people involved are familiar or popular.

Those positions are not contradictory.

Harlem deserves better than silence, intimidation, or selective accountability.

Kinu deserved better too.


r/Harlem 4d ago

Patsy’s Pizza - NYC

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r/Harlem 4d ago

Free spaces for private events?

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Wondering if anyone knows of any spaces where I could host a 50-75 person private event for an organization I work with? Ideally looking for a bar with a back/private room or patio (but flexible and open to other types of spaces) and happy to commit to a bar tab minimum for the group, just don’t have the ability to pay to reserve up front. TIA!


r/Harlem 5d ago

Looking for World Cup Central Park Watch Party Tickets

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Hello, I didn't win the Global Citizen lottery and would love to take the fam...anyone have any spare tickets please?


r/Harlem 6d ago

Here Are The 6 Harlem Eateries Participating In Restaurant Week 2026

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r/Harlem 6d ago

Free High School Program at NYU

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With how competitive public school is here, I wanted to share a free High School program at NYU Stern Business School that does not have a GPA or experience requirement. The Young Ambassadors program allows students to sit in on meetings with startup founders, MBA students and industry leaders. This is an amazing opportunity to help your high schooler discover a direction and explore entrepreneurship careers they’re not exposed to at school. Please share this with them even if you think they might not be interested. There are 100 startups across many industries from healthcare to social media. I would love to see this go to a teen in Harlem! Here’s their website: https://endlessfrontierlabs.com/young-ambassadors/


r/Harlem 5d ago

Raymond Lotta Talk on Communism 📍Revolution Books in Harlem

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TUES JULY 21, 7pm • Revolution Books
437 Malcolm X Blvd at 132nd • “Communism Has Never Worked"-WRONG!
The REAL History of the Russian & Chinese Revolutions And the Even More Liberating Future With the New Communism
A talk & Q&A with Raymond Lotta.

Raymond Lotta will cut through the lies and slanders, and set the record straight about humanity's first attempts to create societies free of exploitation and oppression. He will bring out the truth of the achievements of these first socialist revolutions—as well as their errors and problems, and how capitalism was restored in those countries.

He will speak to how the revolutionary leader Bob Avakian has forged the new communism-a whole new, scientific framework for human emancipation.
Raymond Lotta will draw a sharp line between this real revolution...and the phony socialism of Zohran Mamdani, the Democratic Socialists of America, and other "left reformists" who aim to redistribute the "spoils of America's empire,” as this capitalist-imperialist system hurtles humanity to disaster.

Bring your toughest questions and biggest concerns.


r/Harlem 7d ago

Smokey chemical air ?

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Anyone know why the air is white, Smokey , and reeks of chemicals ? , I live in west Harlem to be specific.
I didn’t see any fires but the smell was brutal.


r/Harlem 7d ago

Bodega Fire 113th St.. Nicholas

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r/Harlem 7d ago

Upcoming Watch Parties: July 15th, 18th & 19th

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r/Harlem 7d ago

Save the Date: Annual Cookout 8/15 8am to 9pm

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r/Harlem 8d ago

Harlem, your summer soundtrack is here! Summer Stage returns with six Thursday evenings of FREE live music, bringing pop, jazz, gospel, R&B, and more to Harlem all season long. Round up your concert crew and save the dates below.

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🎼 July 16  
The Priceless Band with Manny Houston 

🎷 July 23  
The Steve Kroon Latin Jazz Sextet 

🎤 July 30  
TJ Reddick & Chosen with Anthony Evans and the Harlem Praise Singers 

🎸 August 6 
Jeff Foxx Band with Terryl Lee 

🎶 August 13  
Alyson Williams with Shanay Morant 

🎸 August 20 
Keith "The Captain" Gamble with Clean Money Music and Kenny Allan Smith’s Peace & Serenity gospel group 

Mark your calendars and stay tuned for more details on each performance. Learn more at the link: on.ny.gov/HarlemEvents 

  

Thank You to Our 2026 Summer Stage in Harlem Sponsors! 

Harlem Week | Raising Cane's | WBLS | Harlem Presents | Touro College of Osteopathic Medicine | NY State of Health | Harlem Community Development Corporation 


r/Harlem 7d ago

Save the Date: Annual Cookout 8/15 8am to 9pm

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r/Harlem 7d ago

Spectrum Is About to Cost Me My Remote Job

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