I (23F) am planning on moving to Williamsburg sometime in 2027. Currently living in my Canadian hometown in Ontario until my K-1 fiance visa gets approved – I am looking forward to the end results of this long process.
My fiance has been working full time at the same store in Williamsburg for the past 12 years, and while my capacity to work is relatively limited due to invisible disabilities that I have, he is quite confident that he'll be able to help me get hired at the store for flexible, short part-time shifts (obviously after I obtain my work permit.)
However, it's still going to be quite tough for me to sit at home by myself for several hours on the days he works – that's why I'm hoping to start creating local and/or nearby friendships ahead of time, in order to establish rapport with people I could potentially spend time in person with once I get moved over there.
I'm diagnosed with autism, ADHD and some other mental health problems. If you want more specific details about what this entails, you are more than welcome to message me privately – but just to briefly be upfront: I have an extremely short attention span (which means I can only go out of the house or focus on one activity for a very limited amount of time), and still struggle at times with moments of emotional instability.
With all of that out of the way, my hobbies and interests include: nail art, scrapbooking, creative journaling, paper crafts (lots of different types of arts and crafts), as well as baking, pop music, and basically anything involving cats. There are currently 6 cats in my childhood home. I don't usually mind being around dogs, but they can be a bit overwhelming sometimes and I wouldn't personally own one.
Also, I do not drive or have a car, and due to intense anxiety I don't really plan on getting my license at any point in the future. So for that reason, it would be even better if you also happen to drive/have a vehicle (although I won't exclude anyone who doesn't.)
I'm open to anyone living in Williamsburg, Newport News, Yorktown or Hampton areas. Even if you're much older, I honestly won't mind that at all if we have common interests of any kind. If you're interested in chatting, connecting and getting to know each other, please feel free to comment or message me. Thanks for reading.
PS: Please be aware that this post is NOT an invitation to question, debate, challenge or comment on my decision to move from Canada to the US. My fiance and I have weighed all of the pros and cons of our options, factored in our personal circumstances, etc. I have also done extensive research to get an idea of what our living expenses would be for rent, utilities, groceries, gas in the car, meds, doctor's visits, etc and how all of that would work into our combined monthly income (while having the help of my fiance's work friend as our roommate). Plus, I have done hours upon hours of in-depth research, utilitized services from an immigration attorney, and continue to stay up to date on the latest immigration-related news. So I'm definitely not going into this whole situation blindly. I would greatly appreciate your understanding and to refrain from derailing the intended topic of this post.
EDIT: I forgot to mention that I'm 23F so I will add that to the beginning of the first paragraph