r/DemiBoy Sep 26 '20

Announcement How to determine whether you’re valid.

1.1k Upvotes

You are.


r/DemiBoy 12h ago

Question Question for Demiboys! how did you know you were a demiboy and not 100% transmasc/enby?

8 Upvotes

I'm enby and very recently started questioning if I'm a demiboy.


r/DemiBoy 2d ago

My bingo

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13 Upvotes

Tbh I know its not a lot, I've been questioning since I was 14 (I'm 21) if i'm actually a demiboy or a trans man, I'm out as a trans man but this question just keeps coming back every few months, I'm confortable with either identity, sometimes I just feel more one way or the other


r/DemiBoy 3d ago

Can we agree that we have a top 3 pride flag?

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93 Upvotes

Like imo it's 1. Gay 2. Bi and 3. Demiboy


r/DemiBoy 3d ago

Am I a demi boy?

8 Upvotes

I've been questioning my gender. At first I thought I was simply Non-Binary, but I realized I feel not just androgynous but also masculine. I think I feel both simultatiously, but some days I feel more of one or the other. I'd really appreciate anyone's take on this.


r/DemiBoy 3d ago

My Bingo!

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5 Upvotes

WHY IS THE FREE SPACE NOT IN THE MIDDLE? 😭🙏
Also, I didn't get bingo 😔


r/DemiBoy 4d ago

Meme Hoping on the pic crew trend (the flags are neopronouns mlm and trans)

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22 Upvotes

r/DemiBoy 4d ago

Image No bingo :[

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r/DemiBoy 4d ago

Image Demiboy Bingo

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8 Upvotes

r/DemiBoy 4d ago

Please help idk what to do

8 Upvotes

I need some help because I want to come out as a demiboy (I'm male by birth) but I know no one that actively supports the LGBTQ+ community and I live in quite a transphobic including like all of my friends and family and the only person I know that supports LGBTQ+ is someone I like, idk what to do pls help


r/DemiBoy 5d ago

Question What Exactly is a Demboy

12 Upvotes

Can you guys explain to me like I'm 5 what being a demiboy is. I'm so fucking confused about my gender.


r/DemiBoy 6d ago

Support Thinking I could be a Demiboy, I’m some kind of gender fluid I think? Here’s more info, any thoughts?

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Hi I’m AFAB and I’ve always seen myself as masculine in some way or form. When I was younger I identified as a tomboy and have been told by people that I look/act like a tomboy sometimes.

But I had cut my hair short and started wearing binders for health, personal wellbeing, and personal comfort reasons. And later started wearing way more masculine clothing once in a while. It’s been nice.

And a couple of months ago I went to the store dressed I guess very masculinely, had my hair slicked back, and got called “sir” for the first time and I thought it was nice. I took a picture right afterwards and showed it to a friend who said that they could see why I got called “sir” and called me “very androgynous.”

I have an asymmetrical hair cut and it’s short, it looks masculine leaning but feminine at the same time, except for when I slick my hair back, then apparently I look like a guy.

But at the same time I do view myself as at least masculine leaning to male, and other gender identities I’ll shift through aren’t as consistent. I don’t always see myself as female or feminine, where I’ll always see myself with at least a masculine leaning identity to the extent of seeing myself as a guy.

I don’t like to be referred to in the feminine when it comes to certain topics, but am fine with being referred to as she/her or female even if that’s not where my identity shifts to at the time. And gender neutral is cool. But I actually universally like to be referred to and described in masculine universally, I actually really like it.

I also have Hyper Androgenism resulting in me basically having the hormone levels of a guy naturally and my therapist seems to think that that could be playing a part in why I always perceive myself as at least having masculinity as a part of my identity even though the degree of masculinity fluctuates and sometimes other identities are added to the mix.

I’m trying to get a handle on how to better label this because I find putting words to my identity is helpful… I’ve identified as some kind of genderfluid for about a year now but didn’t know where on that scale I was or if it was even an accurate definition for my identity but right now it kind of looks like I would fall under “demiboy” to a certain extent according to what I’ve read about it.

Anyone have any thoughts about this or thoughts on something more precise?


r/DemiBoy 6d ago

question

6 Upvotes

anyone like demiman?


r/DemiBoy 8d ago

Question HEEELP

18 Upvotes

So, im a afab but since childhood i feel a connection to masculinity and i like being called he/him, but i still use she/her and the more i investigate the more questions i have, so can i still identificate as demiboy?


r/DemiBoy 7d ago

Link My Gender Questioning Playlist

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Song suggestions welcome!!!


r/DemiBoy 9d ago

Want to do demiboy stuff together and be best friends?

10 Upvotes

r/DemiBoy 11d ago

Visual representation of my gender..?

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22 Upvotes

Soft in a 'boy' way, if that makes sense


r/DemiBoy 13d ago

Meme Meme

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76 Upvotes

YOU ARE VALID!


r/DemiBoy 13d ago

Poll Help Me Pick a Name Please

9 Upvotes

Ask me any questions to help you pick one!

82 votes, 10d ago
19 Elliot
14 Evan
7 Easton
8 Eli
22 Finn
12 Luca

r/DemiBoy 14d ago

No bingo :(

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29 Upvotes

For the half, I like and own hand warmers, but I don’t like gloves.
For the question marks, idk if my family would support me, and I technically am trans because I wasn’t told I was a demiboy as a baby, but also I don’t use the term to discribe myself. Edit: I’m out to some people about being aroace, but I’m guessing the quiz was about being a demiboy


r/DemiBoy 14d ago

Hello

14 Upvotes

I’m new here so here some things abt me
-my name is James
-I’m an aroace demiboy(amab)
-he him/they them pronouns
-my hobbies are cubing, basketball, and badminton
-I’m a teenager (prefer not to say exactly how old I am)
-my favourite/the only videogame I play is Bloons td battles 2
Thank you for reading all of that!


r/DemiBoy 14d ago

I'm new here. Wanted to introduce myself, not introducing feels rude.

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Hi. I'm (obviously) a demiboy. I'm also bisexual.

Name: River Layne (chosen name) (DO NOT ask what my deadname is)

Age:13-18

Pronouns: He/they (I'm not supper strict abt it, if u happen to call me the wrong one, idc)

Hobbies: Drawing, painting, singing, dancing, illegal stuff (jk), songwriting, listening to music

Personality: INFP, quiet, kinda hate people (in person) and crowded places. Will talk your head off about my OC's or Philosophy if u ask. Artistic.

That's all ig.


r/DemiBoy 22d ago

Being afab=trans?

23 Upvotes

※sorry for the poor grammar, english is not my first language

I know im technically trans especially trans masc cuz im Afab, NB/demiboy. So this might sound REALLY odd and ridiculous, but the trans label just...don't rly FEEL like it's myself?? In fact im like 90% agender with a little amount of demiboy spice(not fully male) which means i don't have strong attachment to almost every gendered shits(especially binary stuffs) Idk this might be internalized transphobia or sth but label is up to me right?? It's like i know i'm trans and i have to accept that im trans but i dont feel like im one of them I think i'd never claim trans if i were AMAB but again, Im AFAB sorry just venting i know this is problamatic thoughts ahhhh


r/DemiBoy 23d ago

Question So what is a Demiboy?

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So I want to know what a demiboy actually is. Because I have heard people say it’s just your not connected to masculinity completely and other people are saying you’re not completely a boy and also non-binary. It’s just really confusing to try and understand and advice would be very appreciated 🩵. Also what are some signs that you are a demiboy or like not cis.


r/DemiBoy 23d ago

Demiboy or transman

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Hi. I’m AFAB, but I’ve been leaning toward identifying as male. I recently discovered the term demiboy this week, and I’ve been researching about it. The more I learn about it, the more it feels like it could describe me.

All my life, I thought I was a trans man (pre-T). However, I’ve always had this discomfort with being called a man or “sir,” especially when people assume I’m a guy. Lately, I’ve started feeling like I might be non-binary because, growing up, I often felt like an alien when it came to gender.

Maybe it’s because of the environment I grew up in, where gender was always separated into only two categories: female and male. For example, in elementary and high school, we had to line up according to our assigned gender at birth during flag ceremonies. I always felt like I didn’t fully belong in either group.

Because of that, I grew up feeling like I might be agender. At the same time, I still feel a connection to masculinity and being male. I’m comfortable using he/him pronouns, and lately, I’ve also been exploring they/them. But I’m still confused and trying to understand myself.