r/AskBelgium 7h ago

Do Belgians largely ignore the monarchy?

39 Upvotes

Belgians, what's the general attitude toward the monarchy? From the outside, it seems like most people don't really care much about the royal family.
Is that accurate? If so, why?

PS: I'm not trying to start a political debate, I'm just curious about how Belgians generally view the monarchy compared to people in the UK or Spain.


r/AskBelgium 48m ago

Normal that divorce of parents affect me so much as an adult?

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I’m 29 and my parents are in the middle of a very difficult divorce. Rationally, I keep telling myself I’m an adult and that I shouldn’t be this affected by it. But emotionally, I feel like I’m falling apart. They seperated almost one year ago but the official divorce will be in the upcoming months.

This isn’t a “normal” divorce. There have been police interventions, a lot of conflict, accusations, and I’m constantly feeling caught in the middle. I still live at home so it was all very close and intense, I feel responsible for both of them, especially my mom. Both are chronically ill and the health of my dead declined after the divorce.

I can’t seem to process it. One day I think I’m doing better, and the next I’m crying again or constantly thinking about everything that has happened. I also feel guilty because I think, “I’m almost 30, why is this affecting me so much?” I’m an only child and I have no further family or social network. I’m seeing a therapist since some months but I don’t seem to process it.

Has anyone else experienced their parents divorcing when they were already an adult?

  • Did it affect you more than you expected?
  • How long did it take before it felt less overwhelming?
  • Did therapy help?
  • How did you stop feeling responsible for your parents?

I’d really appreciate hearing from people who’ve been through something similar, because I sometimes feel like I should be “over it” simply because I’m an adult.


r/AskBelgium 1h ago

Moving to Belgium: Which city would you choose for a young French-speaking family working in Brussels?

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Hi everyone,

My family and I will be moving to Belgium soon, and I'd love to hear your recommendations.

Here's our situation:

  • We're a couple in our late 20s/early 30s with an 11-year-old son.
  • We're moving from France, and we all speak French.
  • My husband will work in Brussels 3 days a week.
  • His employer will cover our rent for the first 3 months, so we have some time to choose the right place instead of rushing into a rental.
  • We have a comfortable budget, so our priority is finding the best place to live rather than the cheapest one.
  • I'll be looking for a job once we've settled.

Our priorities are:

  • A lively city with cafés, restaurants, parks and people out and about. We don't enjoy places that feel empty or "dead", and our son gets bored in very quiet towns.
  • A good place to raise children, with decent public schools and family activities.
  • We'd really like to live without needing a car. Being able to walk to shops, take public transport and cycle would be a huge plus.
  • My husband doesn't mind commuting up to about 1 hour each way by public transport, three days a week.

We're not necessarily looking to live in Brussels itself if another city offers a better quality of life.

If you were in our position, where would you choose to live?

I'd especially love to hear from people who have lived in places like Namur, Liège, Waterloo, Nivelles, Braine-l'Alleud, Louvain-la-Neuve, or anywhere else you'd recommend.

What would you choose, and why?

Thanks in advance!


r/AskBelgium 2h ago

How is the food in Bellewaerde Parc?

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How is the food in the parc itself? Price/quality wise? Better than McDonalds or would it be smarter to just go there? (It has late night opening this weekend, so will have dinner there or closeby)


r/AskBelgium 3h ago

Which telecom provider to choose?

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Due to financial struggle, trying to optimize everything. Currently looking into telecom providers.

Currently: Proximus, Flex XS (unlimited home internet), Mobile Flex M (85 GB), Wi-Fi Booster (needed to reach office in the attic) => 89.49 EUR per month. Should this be important: located in Koekelare, West-Flanders, no fiber available in my street.

Cheaper options are undoubtedly available, but are they also good? Suggestions are welcome.


r/AskBelgium 11h ago

Is putting 3 months experience in a company on CV a good idea?

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Hey guys, I would like some advice on my work experience on my CV.

I have worked for Company A for 2y3 as a project leader, I left this company due frustrations and better pay somewhere else.

I started by Company B through a friend and worked there (even though I didn't like the job) for 3 months as a service advisor in the automobile sector.

I left Company B after 3 months and took a break of 3 months (couldn't find anything, burnout),

Finally I returned for Company A to work as a technician for 1y3 months;

I'm still working in Company A, but i'm looking at something else in the field. How should I note the work experience on my CV?

  1. Should I just note Company B and the break.
  2. Should I remove Company B and break from CV and Linkedin.

I also have a real basic black and white CV without much creativity, is this still alright if looking is the technical world?


r/AskBelgium 11h ago

Wanddecoratie kopen dat NIET door AI gemaakt is?

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Vrouw en ik waren dit weekend in de Ygo, en er was een bepaald "schilderij" bij de afdeling wanddecoratie dat ons in eerste opzicht wel aantrok. Maar als je wat dichterbij gaat kijken... Uiteraard. AI-generated. Vlak naast een illustratie van een cheetah met drie achterpoten (heb daar jammer genoeg geen foto van gemaakt).

We willen graag onze living wat opvrolijken met een schilderij, illustratie, kunstwerk,... maar willen ook geen AI slop tentoonstellen in onze woonkamer.

Dus, we vroegen ons af of er hier mensen zijn met goede ervaring van winkels (fysiek of web) die wanddecoratie verkopen dat verifieerbaar door mensen is gemaakt. IKEA vermeld bijvoorbeeld steeds de artiest bij hun werken. Zelf wat Googlen brengt mij al snel bij werkaandemuur.nl. Die site heeft een "Geen AI" filter, maar na 10 minuten haal ik er al meteen tig AI werken uit. Alsook ronduit plagiaat (iemand die de album cover van Nothing but Thieves als origineel werk probeert te verkopen) dus ik ben meteen enorm sceptisch over wat ze daar aanbieden.


r/AskBelgium 3h ago

Master beginnen met 30(?) sp

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Master beginnen met 30(?) sp

Ik heb vorig jaar mijn bachelor afgerond. Ik had 69 studiepunten (heb al een vorige opleiding achter de rug). Ik had 65 sp ingezet en heb deze alle 65 teruggekregen.

Dit academiejaar was ik ingeschreven aan unief voor 62 sp. Helaas is er eind 2025 een gebeurtenis geweest in mijn persoonlijk leven, waardoor ik mij heb uitgeschreven van mijn masteropleiding. Aangezien ik mij na 1 december heb uitgeschreven ben ik alle studiepunten van 1e trimester en de jaarvakken kwijt. Dat zijn 39 studiepunten.

Volgens mijn burgerprofiel heb ik nog 7 studiepunten. Er staat wel academiejaar 2025-2026:
Debet: -62
Credit: +23
Totaal: -39

Worden deze 23 sp pas in september bij mijn overige sp geteld?

Indien ja, dan heb ik nog 30 sp over. Ik wil mij graag opnieuw inschrijven voor de master, maar aan een andere universiteit (wel dezelfde master). De trajectbegeleiding is op verlof tot 12/08, 13/08 heb ik een bezichtiging voor een studio die ik dan al moet tekenen (of niet). Ik heb schrik dat ik dan nog geen antwoord van de trajectbegeleiding heb of ik al dan niet mag starten. Daarom vraag ik het even hier:

Is het mogelijk om met 30 sp mijn master aan te vatten? (Volledig schooljaar, dus in principe 60 sp).
Ik heb mijn bachelor in 3 jaar gehaald.

Ik heb in januari 2026 al contact opgenomen met de trajectbegeleiding, toen spraken ze over bindende voorwaarden (wat voor mij begrijpelijk is en ook geen probleem, ik heb geen moeite met studeren het stoppen van mijn master had ook niets te maken met mijn studies) maar ik heb toen niet het volledige verhaal verteld (zoals dat ik - in het beste geval - nog maar 30 sp overheb)?

Zijn er hier soms mensen met ervaringen of kennis van zaken hierover?


r/AskBelgium 14h ago

Nieuw bed bij Ikea?

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Heeft er iemand ervaring met de bedden in IKEA? Zie dat ze namelijk ook boxspings verkopen. Ben eens langsgeweest in een winkel van Sleepworld, maar vond het personeel niet zo vriendelijk en niet echt geïnteresseerd. Tenzij het was omdat ik er alleen was, en er twee andere gezinnen waren, die kregen wel alle aandacht en nodige tijd om vragen te stellen xp


r/AskBelgium 5h ago

How long for lost item in a de Lijn bus to appear in iLost?

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I lost my wallet yesterday at 13:00 in a De Lijn bus from Brussels to Dilbeek. I am monitoring iLost but wondered what's the average experience in terms of delay between loss and posting on the database. Trying to gauge how sad or hopeful to feel, I know...


r/AskBelgium 5h ago

Master in actuarial and financial engineering?

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Hi kind people from Belgium, I am from Asia and intend to apply above program.

I want to know from you guys about this program from KUL euven and how difficult it is to land a job after a master's from KUL with just an English as a spoken language. And my background is from supply chain (industrial engineering) and I am in my late 30. 🥹


r/AskBelgium 1d ago

Can fluvius limit my solar panels output?

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For the second day in a row, I noticed my solar panels only generate 20 W around noon.
After some time, they pick up again, meaning everything on my end is working properly.
Could it be that fluvius somehow restricts my panels?
I try to consume as much generated power. My EV was plugged in and had both washer and dryer running, meaning I was paying to get power from the grid. The car was set to charge with the solar overflow, so it didn’t charge much.


r/AskBelgium 12h ago

Wat zouden jullie doen?

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Mijn Google Pixel 9a, aangekocht in mei vorig jaar is al serieus gedeukt. De oplaadpoort werkt niet meer, hij kan enkel nog draadloos opladen. Nu heb ik deze morgen een stom ongeluk gehad. Mijn gsm lag op bed, ik doe mijn riem af, gooi die op bed zonder te kijken natuurlijk, en hij land knal op mijn gsm. Een serieuze deuk in het glas. Ik zit nog met een abonnement op deze gsm, dus de restwaarde moet sowieso eerst betaald worden. Nu is mijn vraag: wat zouden jullie doen. Een nieuw scherm en nieuwe oplaadpoort insteken, of een nieuwe gsm kopen? Ik heb geen Google account want GrapheneOS ofc


r/AskBelgium 1d ago

What happens if you don’t honor notice periods when quitting?

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Just curious because work culture here very different from my home country. I hear that most full time office jobs (I guess office professional jobs? Not sure if trade skills or other type of jobs also has same requirement) requires a 6 week notice period when you quit.

  1. Is that true? Or is the notice period sometimes shorter or longer?

  2. Is this by law? Or just professional custom that everyone honors?

  3. What happens if you quit but only stay 2 weeks instead of 6? Do you get fined? What are the consequences?


r/AskBelgium 1d ago

What to do about noisy neighbors?

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For years I've never even heard my old neighbors. Sadly they sold and a new family moved in a few months ago. With some young kids (ranging between 6 and 16 I think?

But this summer break has been terrible. Staying up late playing/music/loud talking or yelling, singing even. They have been up until 2 AM a few nights in a row now. And I can't blame the world cup as they don't seem to react to any goal scored lol.

Half the time when I ring their bell they don't answer. Other times I assume the dad opens the door and says yeah sure and shuts up the kids for a bit. But it always comes back until they tire themselves out I guess.

Notes: I tried introducing myself (during the day/when they moved), I wasn't even acknowledged. I don't even know if they speak Dutch.

It's not loud on the street at night so I don't know if I can claim nachtlawaai with cops? To me children should not be up this late, but also not a crime. It's just old row houses with shitty insulation. So I can basically follow a conversation in my bedroom that shares their wall.

I'm not considering moving. I am by myself, I don't have the budget for a free standing house lol. I have slept a few nights on my couch (living room doesn't share a wall with them). Earbuds don't work well, can't really describe it. All the running around and yelling is in quite a low pitch that's not really being absorbed? Earbuds and a podcast is the best option, but it's also just driving me up the wall I have to do this just to get some shitty sleep.

Long story short, can I call the police if they're keeping me up at night? Or is this a "tough shit" situation? I got work in the mornings, it's killing me. The kids playing outside all day is nice, I really don't mind it. But a little common courtesy at night is too much it seems.


r/AskBelgium 1d ago

Comment rejoindre ma future épouse étudiante en Belgique après notre mariage ?

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Bonjour, je viens demander conseil parce que je suis un peu perdu et je voudrais préparer les choses correctement.

Je suis étudiant étranger hors UE en France et ma copine est citoyenne européenne, étudiante en Belgique. On souhaite se marier dans deux ou trois ans et construire notre vie ensemble en Belgique, puisqu’elle devra y rester encore plusieurs années pour terminer ses études.

Je voudrais simplement savoir quelles sont les solutions pour que je puisse la rejoindre légalement en Belgique après notre mariage, même si elle est encore étudiante. Est-ce que certains d’entre vous ont vécu une situation similaire ? Quelles démarches avez-vous suivies et quelles difficultés faut-il anticiper ?.

Merci pour votre aide.


r/AskBelgium 1d ago

Looking for you first job ?

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NL ⬇️
Bonjour tout le monde, j'ai créé www.monpremierjob.be : une plateforme pour aider les nouveaux diplômés à décrocher leurs premier job. tu déposes ton profil une fois, et des recruteurs belges vérifiés viennent à toi avec des offres garanties zéro expérience exigée. Pas d'offres “junior” à 3 ans d’expérience et les lettres de motivation en boucle. Gratuit pour les étudiants. C’est en pré-lancement — inscriptions et critiques bienvenues.

Hallo allemaal, ik heb www.monpremierjob.be/nl opgericht: een platform om pas afgestudeerden te helpen aan hun eerste baan. Je dient één keer je profiel in en geverifieerde Belgische recruiters nemen contact met je op met aanbiedingen waarvoor gegarandeerd geen ervaring vereist is. Geen "junior"-aanbiedingen meer met 3 jaar ervaring en eindeloze sollicitatiebrieven. Het is gratis voor studenten. Het is momenteel in de pre-lanceringsfase – aanmeldingen en feedback zijn welkom.


r/AskBelgium 2d ago

Could you help me choose a realistic name for my Belgian character?

26 Upvotes

Here's his personality:

Quiet and extremely introverted.

Lives a solitary life and avoids unnecessary conversations.

Calm, polite, and emotionally restrained.

Highly disciplined and follows the same routine every day.

Patient and observant, often watching more than speaking.

Carries a deep emotional wound from childhood.

Fascinated by horses, especially what they represent: freedom, strength, and dignity.

His fascination gradually develops into an unusual psychological obsession.

He is unsettling not because he is aggressive, but because he is impossible to read.

I'm looking for a name that sounds authentically Belgian (French-speaking or Dutch-speaking is fine) and feels ordinary on the surface, but memorable enough for a mysterious psychological character.

He is 40 years old , the storyline in 1965


r/AskBelgium 1d ago

Evening all. I'm driving from London to the black forest in Germany with my dog. Getting the shuttle from Folkestone and then diverting though Belgium and overnighting in Spa. Mostly avoiding northernFrance as I did it last year. Any advice for driving in France/Belgium/Germany?

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r/AskBelgium 2d ago

How is living in Genk or Hasselt? And do you have tips for finding short-term (6 months) aprtment rentals?

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Hello Belgian neighbors,

my partner got accepted for Erasmus at LUCA School of Arts in Genk. We want to move together to get a feeling what it's like to live outside of germany. We will be staying there for 6 months.

I am looking for a job there, basically anything I can find, preferably food delivery by bike for example.

I've been looking for apartments and Kots for almost 2 months now and either the rental periods are longer, they invite me to come see the place (which is not possible) or the kots don't allow domicile registration.

So my questions are:

Do you have any tips for finding a short-term place, are there any website recommendations?
How is living in Genk or Hasselt in general?
How is the job-market for people who only speak english (and german)?
Is there anything important we should know before moving there?


r/AskBelgium 1d ago

Comment rejoindre ma future épouse étudiante en Belgique après notre mariage ?

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r/AskBelgium 3d ago

Is there a missile in a tree in De Haan?

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I'm in De Haan at the moment and was out for a run earlier without my phone, so I'm using images from street view.

Does anyone know the back story to this (what looks like) a missile in a tree just outside De Haan.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/h88Qxk2LhS7KDkBWA


r/AskBelgium 2d ago

Belgian media are full of news of yet another Arizona coalition agreement, but where's its text?

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r/AskBelgium 2d ago

Processing time for Belgium student visa results?

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I’m still waiting for 25 days for the decision. I haven’t received any response or decision from them. Is there anyone a similar situation? How long did you wait for your student visa?


r/AskBelgium 3d ago

Dear Belgians, what would make you catch flights from Schiphol instead of Zaventem?

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I found some direct international flights that are 200 euros cheaper if I fly from Schiphol, but I wonder if the extra time, cost and effort is worth it. Needless to say we have heard how chaotic things can get at Schiphol airport.

What bugs me about flying from Schiphol is that when I return home, I can't buy a train ticket in advance because I am not sure if my flight will be delayed and how long it will take for me to clear the customs. If I choose to buy the train ticket after arrival it's gonna be 50+ euros, and it offsets the money I saved from the flights.

Any thoughts? Has anyone flown from this airport recently?