r/JaneTheVirginCW • u/xnxpxe • 12h ago
Actually, Jill, it IS weird. It's hella weird, and you need to leave us tf alone.
On my first rewatch since the show's original airing, which I'm proud to say I was there for all of, but I just wrapped my viewing of 2x06, which is an episode where a lot happens, including time jumps every couple of scenes into the next month because they wanted to expedite Petra's pregnancy.
Anyway, despite the MANY things there are to talk about this episode, my flabber is most gasted by the character Jill from Jane and Rafael's parenting class. The one who asks Jane to confirm that she and Raf aren't together anymore because she feels like she and Raf may have a spark and it's something she wants to explore and is it weird that she's even mentioning it?
I know it's a very heightened tv show and good drama is good drama, but I cringed so hard through that scene just imagining Jane's position—what it would be like to have a brand new baby, trying to co-parent with a very recent ex, and then being asked this question by a presumably single new mother in a similar position but who very clearly has a very different set of priorities. Like, what are we doing right now, because I know it's not asking for my permission? And if you think this is some kind of courtesy, then I should let you know that telling me you're tryna bang the father of my newborn, even if we're not together, kind of pales in comparison to just not inserting yourself right now, so what the fuck.
Idk, how would you have responded?