r/Indiemakeupandmore 19h ago

Stress Buy Stress Buy Support

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Hello, IMAM!

Many of us shop more during times of stress, and many of us are more stressed than usual these days. The Mod Team would like to provide a space for community members (including ourselves!) to discuss coping with stress as we try to stick to our personal and financial goals.

Financial Planning

If you are interested in financial planning (e.g., making a budget, managing debt, setting and reaching savings goals), check out r/personalfinance. Their wiki is a great resource.

Having Fun with Your Collection

Here are some ideas about how to explore your collection and/or connect with the indie community that do not involve spending:

  • Re-organize your collection. If you have a lot of samples, separate the ones you haven’t tested yet, the ones you want to destash, and the ones you’d like to keep/upgrade.
  • Start a collection spreadsheet. Here is an example!
  • Start an indie journal. Make note of which indie products you use every day. At the end of the month/season/year, tally up your “biggest hits” and share them on IMAM or another community.

"Shopping" without Spending

If you find that the act of shopping and submitting orders is hard to resist, you might consider trying one of the following strategies:

  • “Window shop": build a wishlist on the brand’s website (e.g., Etsy, Silk Naturals, BPAL have this feature); save your favourites to a Pinterest board or document them in a spreadsheet.
  • “Shop” at your local library: if your library has an online catalogue, browse through it and put items on hold, check out digital resources, or create a list of titles you’d like to check out. Perhaps you'd like to challenge yourself to learn more about perfume, makeup, or cosmetic chemistry!

Please share your challenges, strategies, struggles, and successes with us!


r/Indiemakeupandmore 19h ago

Discussion Free Talk - Wednesday

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Free Talk threads repeat Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.


r/Indiemakeupandmore 16h ago

Sorce bottle comparisons with new 15ml

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For anyone who has been curious about the new 15ml bottles for Sorce, I was lucky enough to go to the custom event so I have a comparison!

In my pic is the 30ml (custom bow from the event), new 15ml, and old 15ml


r/Indiemakeupandmore 11h ago

Discussion It’s not a problem until they’re all in one spot… Storage and organizing help?

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I’ll admit I’m slightly embarrassed and realize that I probably have a problem. It doesn’t look like much when 5 wands are in a box over there, and a couple more in a spot over here (you get the picture)- but gathered together is extremely overwhelming. I know why I’ve been putting off organizing them. I don’t have a good idea for storing these 10 ml travel bottles, but apparently I keep buying them. Cups sort of work, but only hold a small handful. Can I see your solutions for storing this size upright?

My little cabinet of smell goods holds the smaller bottles in their cute little shallow bins perfectly. These… not so much!


r/Indiemakeupandmore 7h ago

Discussion Scents of The Odyssey by Homer

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Hello everyone! As a lifelong mythology + epic poetry geek, I have been chomping at the bit for the new Odyssey film and have been rereading the poem in anticipation.

Fellow mythology lovers, what scents have you been reaching for when feeling similarly inspired?

I've been wearing Alkemia's Arabesque (An exquisite blend of sustainable sandalwoods, precious Egyptian kyphi, sweet orris root, benzoin resin, cassia, and blessed spikenard) for reading. It smells ancient and mystical in a way that helps me get immersed in the Bronze Age Mediterranean world.


r/Indiemakeupandmore 13h ago

Discussion New alternative to Etsy?

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I posted a bit ago about my frustration with AI slop and drop shipping taking over Etsy and I just happened to read this Wired article - it sounds like a new platform is in the works? I don't think it's fully up yet but I did visit the site it mentions (Fybe), which according to their site takes a firm stance against those things and I'm really hoping they succeed! I thought it might be of interest to this group because I know many of us (myself included) often look on Etsy for indie products. Not a ton is on the website yet but I'll be keeping my eye on it. Do any of you know of any other sites like this, either existing or in the works?


r/Indiemakeupandmore 12h ago

Perfume - Enquiry Coffee true gourmand recs?

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Would love it if you could give me your best true gourmand coffee scent recommendations! I can't get my two favorites anymore (Red River Apothecary's "Raktajino" and Arcana Craves "Honey Craves Coffee Shops") so I'm trying to find something new!

I don't like any other perfume notes like musks, florals, woodsy scents, etc. I am seeking a true gourmand only, please! :) I am really sensitive to scents and find gourmands are the only thing I can wear and enjoy without getting a migraine.

As far as coffee scents go- I love the smell of roasted espresso beans, fresh brewed coffee, really all of it as long as it's coffee scented! Also love creamy/milky notes, vanillas, and cakey/cookie scents.

Thank you for your help! :)


r/Indiemakeupandmore 15h ago

Brand Representative Mini box inspired by Widow's Bay at Sihaya & Co!

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r/Indiemakeupandmore 22m ago

Building the Collection: Reviews of Alkemia, Skylar, BPAL, Sorce

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(For more reviews, see Post #1Post #2Post #3Post #4, and Post #5)

Wow, it's been a *minute*! Catching up on sharing reviews as I update my spreadsheet with my notes. I realized last week that I'm reaching for the same scents over and over again, not necessarily because I love them, but because I haven't finished my labeling process, therefore I don't know the right vibe of my "blank" scents (I use a numbered colored dot system to indicate the season and how much I like it to help me decide what to wear).

So in an effort to get more numbered colored dots on my inventory, here are my months-old thoughts on a variety of scents!

My preferences are green, clean, aquatic, earthy. I dislike gourmands (I don't like to smell like food), especially vanilla. I love the concept of atmospherics, so part of this journey is to also discover interesting complex scents that are unique and fun.

Oh, and I don't read the scent notes when I'm writing my notes, as I don't want to influence what I think I smell.

Here is my rating system:

1 = destash

2 = prefer it as a room/linen spray

3 = would wear occasionally (e.g. if I'm going for a specific vibe)

4 = will use up the sample and possibly rebuy

5 = full-size worthy

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Alkemia - Alchemy of Desire, July 2025 (A scandalously sexy blend of sultry jasmine, gardenia, rose, heliotrope, carnation, rosewood, and musk.)

Initial sniff: heavy floral, like in a florist shop; early spring? somewhat soapy

To wear: designer soap, high-end hotel or restaurant bathroom, may try it with the aldehyde layering note to lighten it up

Rank: 1

Alkemia - Faerie Alchemy, May 2025 (An ethereal alchemy, light as a faery wing - the ionized air of a brightly bubbling woodland spring, veils of soft moss, heliotrope, mimosa, sweet woodruff, and vanilla grass.)

Initial sniff: sweet + "stuffy"?

To wear: flowery bubblegum, turns powdery, might try it with the aldehyde layering note to lighten it up

Rank: 1

Skylar - Vanilla Sky (Top notes: Bergamot Zest, Sweet Orange, Cappuccino
Middle notes: Pure Vanilla, Jasmine Grandiflorum, Cinnamon Bark
Base notes: Caramelized Cedar, Sheer Amber, Sandalwood)

Initial sniff: citrusy vanilla, more natural than fake, not sweet

To wear: nutty vanilla, lightweight warm; cozy but not stuffy; not much citrus, very slight hint of coffee)

Rank: 3, but have since added it to my destash list

Skylar - Coconut Cove (Top notes: Bergamot, Cardamom, Hibiscus Nectar, Twist of Lemon
Middle notes: Coconut, Jasmine Petal, Gardenia, Lush Greens
Base notes: Ambrox, Coastal Woods, Heliotrope, Vanilla Orchid)

Initial sniff: heavy coconut, heavy musk? very warm, like chenille, not a fan

To wear: did not wear

Rank: 1

Skylar - Peach Fields (Top notes: Mandarin, Grapefruit, White Peach
Middle notes: Osmanthus, Muguet, Vanilla
Base notes: Cashmere Woods, Amber, Sandalwood, Musk)

Initial sniff: light peachy, fuzzy, cozy; not too sweet

To wear: strong alcohol at first, immediately followed by peach juice; dries down soft and fuzzy; peach is noticeable but subtle; feels fall-ish

Rank: 4

Skylar - Salt Air (Top notes: Italian Bergamot, Sea Salt, Seaweed
Middle notes: Cotton Blossom, Water Lily, Cyclamen
Base notes: Driftwood, Vanilla, Musk)

Initial sniff: beachy fresh air, "cucumbery", cool

To wear: watery, cool; fresh air/crisp air; kinda wintery with how cool it is

Rank: 4

Skylar - Lime Sands (Top notes: Lime, Sea Salt, Verbena
Middle notes: Lily of the Valley, Coconut Water, Orange Flower
Base notes: Driftwood, Vanilla, Musk)

Initial sniff: not too limey, slightly coconut, light, not impressive

To wear: limey, not inoffensive, somewhat coconutty, meh

Rank: 1

Alkemia - Cidre d'Automne (Freshly pressed heirloom varietal fall apples delicately blended with subtle autumnal spices. Sweet, juicy, crisp and exquisitely mouth-watering.)

Initial sniff: apples, cinnamon, fall leaves, fresh air

To wear: high quality potpourri; something sweet...Big Red gum? very fall/winter -> cold weather; feels like a holiday; couldn't smell it anymore by the afternoon

Rank: 3

Alkemia - Cherie (A poetic romance of white cherries, golden saffron, vanilla orchid, neroli blossoms, nutmeg, coriander, cedarwood, guaiac wood, and ambergris incense.)

Initial sniff: maraschino cherries! not something I want to smell like

To wear: did not wear

Rank: 1

BPAL - Sea of Glass (Upon the Sea of Glass, glowing with the perfection of spiritual union and the radiance of true wisdom, rests the throne of God. A scent of inimitable purity, crystalline grace, and limitless light.)

Initial sniff: aquatic + floral, clean

To wear: more clean floral, water flowers, cool like winter

Rank: 4

BPAL - Elf (Pale golden musk, honeycomb, amber, parma violet, hawthorne bark, aspen leaf, forest lily, life everlasting, white moss, and a hint of wild berry.)

Initial sniff: very green, first hit of musty that faded quickly, grassy + herbal

To wear: very green, \grassy*; hint of citrus? slightly soapy - spring (Irish Spring?)*

Rank: 4

BPAL - Bayou (A lazy, warm deep green scent with a thick aquatic undertone: Spanish moss, evergreen and cypress with watery blue-green notes and an eddy of hothouse flowers and swamp blooms.)

Initial sniff: aquatic + floral, lavender?

To wear: heavy lavender; reeds, wetlands foliage; marshy (but not stinky) = wildflowers? summer/fall

Rank: 3

BPAL - Orc Massage Therapist (A soothing, contemplative blend of fresh aster leaves, green tea, zucchini flower, and sandalwood incense.)

Initial sniff: grass + apples; very green, cold air

To wear: grass + apples (but not sweet), "cool", fall/winter -> winter trees but not pine, maybe fir?

Rank: 4

Sorce - Dragonfly Wings (white lotus absolute, jasmine sambac absolute, umeshu (also known as plum wine), peonies, sparkling lake water, white rice, lily pads, cotton, blonde woods, and a hint of pink pepper)

Initial sniff: Cap'n Crunch cereal, no floral

To wear: sweet, slightly floral; less hint of cereal but not very floral

Rank: 3 - I love the spirituality of dragonflies therefore I really want to figure out how to make this work for me!

Sorce - Witchery (Blackberries, wild violets, galbanum, green stems and thorns, oak moss, benzoin, tree moss, wet stone, mountain mist *mossy green fruit)

Initial sniff: bright and fruity (blueberries?), clean vs cozy

To wear: fruity + grassy; cool, wet; complex, mysteriously soft

Rank: 5 - I \love* this scent!*

Tons more to come!


r/Indiemakeupandmore 11h ago

Discussion Where does one begin with BPAL?

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Hi all! Ive been checking out BPAL and I was wondering where to start as there are so many choices its a bit overwhelming. I know this question probably gets asked alot in here. I tried to sign up for the bpal org forums but their recaptcha is down.

Im mostly into scents like petrichor, smoke, tobacco, chocolate, wood and coffee, and I am not overkeen on floraly scents at all. I like fragrances that lean into a gothic/dark/mysterious vibe.

If it helps my top 3 scents I own are st louis cemetery by alkemia, and black/avignon by CDG.


r/Indiemakeupandmore 9h ago

Bpal recommendations for a goth girlie? :)

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Hi! I am looking for BPAL recommendations as a follow up from my last post, their website is extremely overwhelming lol.

I enjoy smoky, coffee, chocolate, petrichor, tobacco etc scents. Id like ones that lean into a sort of dark and mysterious vibe. My budget is 150 so go haaaam if you want to.

Im enjoying so far the smell of wet concrete, antique shops, musky scents. Smell of burning of cigarettes, ykw? A weird smell I really enjoy is how vivariums smell, its a weird jungly earthy scent.


r/Indiemakeupandmore 5h ago

Perfume - Enquiry Looking for a beautiful lavender scent

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Hello! I’ve recently fallen in love with lavender as a perfume note and I am now on the hunt for some indie recs! For reference, I love both lavanda and sable lavande (lavender, fig, ambroxan) by Chloe and would love something along that vibe. I would prefer to avoid anything that is too gourmand, but would love if anyone knows of a lavender and fig combo. Thanks! 🪻


r/Indiemakeupandmore 6h ago

Perfume - Enquiry Girly pastel pink

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Looking for recommendations in shades of pastel pink, cream, and white.

I love fruity notes and have discovered I actually like white florals after thinking I wasn't into floral notes

Pretty sure I like musks and ambers

Just throw anything at me that might come to mind, I'm curious what you guys can come up with


r/Indiemakeupandmore 14h ago

drop your fave vanilla perfume

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Looking for a good vanilla forward perfume. The only note doesn't have to be vanilla or anything. I just want a sweet edible vanilla perfume that isn't overpowered by fruit or florals. While it can have those notes, id prefer they stay strictly and faintly in the background. Mostly interested in a frosted cupcake kind of vanilla!

While these are my preferences, im open to anything c:


r/Indiemakeupandmore 3h ago

Perfume - Enquiry Favorite Orris Notes?

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Hi all! I have found that I really enjoy orris as a note in perfumes. English Major from Sorce and Daydreams of Trees from Arcana (Unicorn Horn, too) are a couple I absolutely love. What are some of your favorite scents that feature orris? Big bonus for stuff that includes lavender! 🤍🌿


r/Indiemakeupandmore 5h ago

Perfume - Enquiry Repurchasing perfume rollers once emptied?

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I realized that I have never purchased any perfume twice but I am planning to repurchase Tomate and Loup Garou from Hexennacht because I liked them so much I wanted to see if I still liked them after I grabbed a new batch of perfume with new scents. Is this strange? It feels strange and wrong to me tbh.


r/Indiemakeupandmore 16h ago

Perfume - Enquiry On the hunt for a fragrance that gives Fahrenheit 451 vibes

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I posted this in r/perfumesthatfeellike yesterday and didn't get many replies. So, I thought I'd see what y'all think! This sub has never let me down when it comes to fragrance recommendations for fandoms, characters, etc.

This is my favorite book OF ALL TIME. I think I've read it a total of 8 times and each re-read was better than the last.... And a bit more relevant in this day and age.

I had a dream about it last night, so I dug up the 1966 movie adaptation and watched it for probably the first time in 15 years (it's not good, but it's one of my guilty pleasure comfort movies).

I \*need\* a perfume with Fahrenheit 451 vibes, specifically my man Montag.

Here's what immediately comes to mind:

Cinnamon

Gasoline (or some other kind of accelerant)

Cinders/burnt wood

Smoke

Amber (I just associate that with anything and everything mid-century)

Sandalwood or oud (some kind of cozy wood)

I know Sixteen92 did a Fahrenheit 451 fragrance several years ago, but I've had no luck finding it in sales and swaps.


r/Indiemakeupandmore 6h ago

Disappointed in Black Moon liquid lipsticks

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Recently got a couple of their liquid lipsticks, I was so excited and after wearing both for a few hours I’m pretty disappointed. They transfer so much and even got on my chin somehow after drinking something. Would using their lip liners help a little? I really like the colors and was planning on buying more. I hardly see any other brands with colors like they offer


r/Indiemakeupandmore 2h ago

Perfume - Enquiry Reducer Caps

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Hello! Looking for reducer caps for the following bottles:

- Astrid

- Pulp 6mL or Amorphous 5mL - I think they are the same size.

- Black Baccara - I think these are the same size as Cardinal Scents 4mL samples...TIA


r/Indiemakeupandmore 16h ago

Sorce 15ml bottles

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Does anyone have photos of what the new 15ml miniature bottles look like? Or what the 30ml bottles look like?

I read that they are changing the 15mls to look like smaller versions of the 30mls and I'm confused what they will look like because I only have ever seen photos of the 15ml wands and the new large bottles with the bow


r/Indiemakeupandmore 19h ago

Indies of the Day -- Wednesday July 22, 2026

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What indies are you using today? And we mean everything! Examples of stuff we'd love to hear about:

  • Makeup

  • Clothes

  • Jewelry

  • Bath and Body (lotion, soap, shampoo, bath salts, etc.)

  • Nail polish

  • Perfume

Please feel free to leave mini-reviews and include photos of whatever you're using. We'd love to know your thoughts and see the products too!

This thread repeats daily.


r/Indiemakeupandmore 10h ago

Rollerballs for Poesie Dropper Bottles

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Does anyone have a good link for rollerballs that fit Poesie's 5mL dropper bottles? I'm not a fan of the dropper, fear spillage and spoilage, and haven't found an alternative that didn't involve decanting into a new bottle. Any ideas? ​​​


r/Indiemakeupandmore 19h ago

Are there any physical shops that carry indie fragrance?

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i so desperately want to sniff multiple fragrance houses. i keep buying a billion vials and feeling overwhelmed. i’ve seen imaginary authors in a shop before but im really looking for some (any) of the smaller houses? im in florida but curious about anywhere in the east coast


r/Indiemakeupandmore 23h ago

Perfume - Enquiry Perfume dupe request - cherry and cardamom

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Hi! I made a perfume at a perfume workshop a while ago and totally fell in love with it, but I'm starting to see the end in sight of my bottle, and I'll be so sad when it's gone. I'd love to find a dupe that I can reliably repurchase (so not one of those buy once then gone forever BPAL releases).

The perfume had base notes of buttery almond/marzipan pastry accord and coffee, and then mid notes of cardamom and a little bit of sugar, not too sweet. Then top notes were sour cherry and apple. I remember using pyrazine for the buttery, nutty notes and ethyl maltol for sweetness, then a blend like Fruitaleur or Tropifruit or something for the fruity accords. The vibe was meant to be "cherry pie at an all night diner" hence the coffee accord.

Does anyone know of something similar? Thank you!!


r/Indiemakeupandmore 1d ago

Perfume - Enquiry singapore breakfast tea perfume recs?

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My favorite tea of all time is Singapore Breakfast from T2, which is inspired by kaya toast, and I absolutely adore the way it smells so I’ve decided I need to find it in perfume form haha
If I remember correctly the tea is a mix of genmaicha and pu’er, with coconut and pandan and maybe vanilla flavoring? I’m crazy about pandan so that’s probably what I’m looking for the most. Any suggestions of perfumes that would scratch that itch would be greatly appreciated 😁 Thanks!