r/ferrets • u/RobinYourLocalBank • 1h ago
[Health] Family refuses to take 5 year old rescue ferret to the vet
This is Bubu. She is a 5 year old Marshall ferret my parents received from a neglectful owner. Basically, she had been raised with cats, been ignored, and had been given bad kibble.
I had been worried about her for a long time, ever since I noticed that fur was missing from the tip of her tail. I've been telling them to take her to the vet for a long time. Her fur loss had been moving up from her tail ever since.
Recently, they took one of our other ferrets to the vet for diarrhea and got him medication. While I care deeply about all of the ferrets, this frustrated me because Bubu has shown signs of what I think is adrenal disease.
They had used her 'old age' and 'rescue background' as an excuse to not take her. I confronted them about this and said that "apparently care has an expiration date". I then got screamed at for being stupid and my sister even called me the R-slur for even suggesting to take her to the vet.
Am I in the wrong?
TLDR: 5 year old rescue ferret suspected of having adrenal disease and family won't take her to vet because of her age and rescue status; am I taking it too seriously?