I was rewatching Envy recently and caught a line I previously passed over. Natalie was talking about MLK’s call for a balance between love and power, and the need for an emotional or spiritual value like love for humanity to counter our innate tendency for envy and retribution and keep humanity from snowballing into destruction (paraphrasing).
She then says “maybe I’ll do another video about love, when I’m in a better mood”.
This really struck a chord with me. In my professional life I do a lot of work at a fairly senior level trying to promote pro-social values and build coalition based on mutual understanding to prevent gender based violence .
I’ve often felt that the movement that I am part of sometimes focussed too much on the drivers of violence, and not enough on identifying and strengthening the drivers of love, respect and peace. The notion of power is also so closely associated with violence that power in our movement is commonly disavowed, which prevents love and power from being held together in balance and undermines our effectiveness in a range of ways.
It would be so amazing to hear Natalie’s deeper perspective on how the role of values like love for humanity (and perhaps other prosocial values) and embracing our own power (not just how much we are powerless) could help us work together and build something meaningful, rather than this constant fixation on “burning it all down”.